Feminism Killed The Nice Guy

which statement is most accurate?

  • nice guys are actually more appreciated due to feminism

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • nice guys are more appreciated but not because of feminism

    Votes: 3 10.7%
  • nice guys still finish last

    Votes: 24 85.7%

  • Total voters
    28

lynkoslynx.1

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well fuck you oo then go bet on fucking horses in mexico you shithead :know ing all the hot bethces

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chasing off all the best members... who's gonna own up to that

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vv?!?

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me?!
 

lynkoslynx.1

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i think we're all shitstains about that... can't even have a lemon party anymore

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don't fucking deny it either... i guess, being a troll hunter, that's what they do... the word for them is relish
 

lynkoslynx.1

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What's that? Free lifetime membership of your site? Thank you, and more importantly, banana.
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Maybe we should forget Feminism and embrace what I will call humanism; treating people as people regardless of sex, sexuality, religion, race, etc. Apart from left-wingers. They should be forced through a thin wire mesh.
I think you should shove that banana up your fucking nose you dumb shit. I never once heard something intelligent from you. I thought you knew shit about the fucking navy yards and arial material. All the shit I ever heard from you was substandard. You'd die if you ever went in the air you fucking retarded brother of mine.
 

lynkoslynx.1

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I think you're thinking of radical Feminists and the more extreme (not to mention insane) forms of Feminism.
You may wish to research something often known as "sex positive Feminism" which tends to emphasize a woman's right to enjoy her body (emphasising for example that both stud and slut are both words for a person who enjoys their body, yet only for the female does this carry negative connotations.
Some Feminists even approve of porn, pointing to statistics showing that porn lowers rape rates.
Others say that prostitutes are the ultimate Feminists; they get paid to get laid.
Still more say that men and women can remain equal while fulfilling traditional gender roles because while the stereotypical roles are different they're equally valuable in that it takes two halfs to make a hole :giggle: You could argue that that is in fact the case. If you wished to play devil's advocate. Forgive me, I will look at this later. She's correct; men frequently do horrible things. Admittedly, so do women. This makes you a Feminist icon; rather than being dominated, you dominate. You get paid to do what you enjoy. So you can use men the same way they use women? You invert the power balance? Feminist icon... You mean of women getting paid to enjoy sex? (Yes I'm aware that it isn't always thus) So you realise that the female form is a beautiful thing and should be valued? Feminist icon. So you make a man go out to work and bring back the cash so you can live your dream of raising a lovely child? You own the man, dominate him and have him do your bidding. Feminist icon. So you're telling me that you've inverted traditional gender roles and that your husband cooks for (serves) you? And I know you enjoy other men. Again. Inverting traditional gender roles. Feminist icon. You must have power in the first place in order to be able to let it go. Because he's showing appreciation and love? Not gonna touch that one Talk to some of the old soldiers on here and I'm sure you'll find that they're not all pretending. You may continue at will. I grant you that freedom, little kept woman :tongue:
Again, revelling in your body rather than conforming to patriarchal norms and values. Feminist icon.
Please excuse all the trolling and devil's advocacy in this post. Or don't. Whatever. Banana.

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lynkoslynx.1

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i'd still fuck you in the ass vodkas... i know that's you hun

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maybe twice

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even more...
 

lynkoslynx.1

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Ahahah no worries. I appreciated your in depth post :)
Put like that you could say that i'm a feminist icon. But then again i prefer to look at myself as at a woman who loves and accepts her differences with men and who finds these differences complementary and intriguing, rather than dividing and unjust.
Hugs.

the best of styles, they won't listen... fuck em
 

DuanCulo

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You think i'd be on here if i didn't agree with the third statement? nice guys dont get any...

and i'm all for feminism and empowered women, i think that's sexy but it also has it's downsides...
 
it's not about feminism.... nice guys finish last because, most of them, lack confidence and, for that, they dont treat themselves nicely. thanks to this concept, it's easier for man to judge others by being "douche" or "assholes" then to treat themselves. 90% of the guys that say that eat themselves of jealousy when they see a guy who is well dressed, who's a fit guy and confident. i know this because i had that mentality! girls go for confidence... they dont go for insecure. it's not about feminism. for those guys who are always "crying" saying "I'm such a nice guy, that's why i'm single" i tell them to man-up... make something for you and take care of u before u take care of women. start looking sharp, being fit, gain some confidence along the way (that's automatic), start going out with attractive friends (same sex) so you can see what they do that attract girls. i don't say "become your friend".. but improve yourself by watching others. if you have a great friend who you can count on and it's actually a "ladiesman" dont be afraid of asking for help.
i saw a post where they say "women like nice men. they dont like Weak men"... i think he/she is right!

You pretty much said what I was gonna say. It all has to do with evolution too, protecting them and all that. A man who is not secure in himself is not a man she can depend on to defend her against sabretooth tigers. Hot babes tend to have their guard up because they get hit on a lot so they have to test guys and weed out the guys who show beta traits.
 
I also wanna add, it's not about being mean to women. Being alpha is about standing alone in your decisions. It's not about kissing her ass and saying what you think she wants to hear. If you don't agree with her you say it. If you don't wanna do something she wants to do you say it. But if you wanna do something nice for her, you do it because you WANT to, not because it's expected or it's gonna earn you points with her.

Women are emotional creatures. They need emotional stimulation. Too many guys whine and say "I don't know. What do you wanna do?" You need to take the lead and be like "Grab your shoes and sox we're going to T.G.I. Fridays. We'll go where you want next time. Cindi Lauper's right. Girls just wanna have fun. When they're feeling bad, they don't want you to say they're right or wrong. They want you to hold them or make them laugh. "Never try to change a woman's mind. Change the way she feels."

It's also good to "ravage" her at unexpected moments, like when she just gets out of the shower or when you catch her in the hall.

There's a fine line between being an alpha male and a scumbag but the best way to find the line is to go over it. ;)
 
The extreme form of feminism that someone mentioned, I call being a feminazi.

I'm on board with humanism. I agree with Sabrina Deep about enjoying the differences between men and women. That's what makes the whole process of flirting fun.
 

DuanCulo

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"nice guys", eh?

You mean the same guys who get all fucking butthurt when you say "listen, man. I like you a lot but I'd rather just be friends. I want you in my life but not as a lover"? What's so "nice" about flipping shit over that?

You know what women like? men that like the same things they do. Be "nie" all you want, but if we have nothing in common we aren't dating. period.

I think this is good advice. I don't think it's impossible for people to be attracted who have nothing in common, like with a one night stand. You could like two different things but maybe you relate to each other because those things give you a similar feeling and you talk about that. But in my experience, it's easier to talk to someone you have things in common with. Who the fuck wants to go on an awkward date, right? That's torture.
 

Lacey Black

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Nothing killed the nice guy, if you are truly a nice guy then you are nice not matter what. Why are you nice? because it makes you feel like a good person, not because you think you are going to get women or anything else. A lot of men that think they are "nice guys" are just passive aggressive children that throw fits when they don't get everything that they want. And when it comes to feminism it is one in the same with misogynism. Both ideologies are filled with hate and a false sense of superiority. No one sex is born superior, individuals can be superior people by choosing to act kind towards others.
 
As the Bible says man is the leader and the woman is the assistant.

So if this this nice guy means the same thing as a person who is trying to please women then it is better that such a behavior pattern disappears.
 

DuanCulo

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women should work just as the man but it's ridiculous for women not to take the last name of the man in some form (hyphenated or complete name) if the guy wants. if both parties don't want to then fine, but it's tradition to take your husbands last name. women or i should say this feminist movement have women so hungry for power and to show they are now 'independent' that they are now targeting the most trivial of things to try and insert their will. where they should be concentrating is ensuring they are treated with respect and an equal/partner in the marriage and not a house slave. that's what they should be focused on. trying to be adamant about not taking the last name is just stupid. i understand if your a public figure and you keep the name when working (eg. as an actress, musician etc.) but on the marriage documents, her name should now encompass her husband's name in some way or form.


"It's funny to me when I see women who refuse or hesitate to take their husband's last name before/during marriage, but will not refuse or hesitate to take at least 50% of their husband's past, present and future income in the form alimony and/or child support after divorce. And, even during marriage, they don't hesitate to spend their man's money left, right and center. Women are independent enough to reject their husband's last name, but not independent enough to reject a share of his income!"

"" If you want to keep your last name you got, then marry your daddy.'' Steve Harvey hit it right on the money."

"modern women....smh"

"What's the big deal? I guarantee he paid for all their dinners when they went out to eat. Women can't have it both way. Equality means true equality"

"Modern Women or not! You take that man's last name and you sport it PROUDLY! I couldn't get my name changed fast enough to my husbands because I'm PROUD to be his wife and i want the WORLD to know yes, I am his wife... that good fine black man right there is mine - look at the name! Now all that other stuff yeah I'm not staying at home and we are going half on all the house duties, child rearing because we are a 'TEAM" "
 
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