Well Spexy lol we are all entitled to our opinions. I will pose the question to you that I asked earlier of someone else who ignored the question entirely. they say more than 90% of people of faith were raised to be believers so i assume this is true of you. If not I am sorry for assuming incorrectly. Let's say you lived all twenty however many years and had never heard of any type of religion whatsoever in your life. Then one day, someone tells you about this book written about a guy who lived 2000 years ago who walked on water, parted the seas, his mom was a virgin, was willingly tortured to death so we could all sin as we wished and then his body disappeared. then when we die we're all going to a place where everyone you ever loved is there waiting, happy and healthy. And that there's an invisible man who knows everything thought you have and everything that you do.
Now tell me Spexy, you wouldn't think the guy was a fucking lunatic? the son of sam said his neighbors dog told him to murder all those people. should we believe him? how about david koresh who claimed to be the final messiah of a religion he founded. he was raided by the FBI and in turn he and his followers burned themselves in their compound. So clearly we don't take these people seriously who make no more outrageous claims than the bible does. Noah's ark is physically impossible yet people believe it really happened. people on this board actually!
I am happy that you "love gay people" Well the majority of christians, especially the ones who make laws do NOT like gays. they quote the bible repeatedly about it being "unnatural" and "sinful" the bible does say that men lying with men is a sin, and the entire sodom and gomorrah thing is all about gay sin. So you loving gays is great, but you have to realize you are part of a very small minority of christians who do. take yourself into a church and announce that you fuck on film for money for a living and see how much love you feel.
and Spexy, we do NOT live in a free country. that is total bullshit. try building a deck onto your house without getting permission from the local government and paying them fees. you're in the adult film industry, so go to pittsburgh and apply for a permit to shoot a scene. mail a copy of one of your videos to a fan in Alabama and see how "free" this country is. You'll go to prison.
I am not sure how many different ways it has to be said, there are laws written that are based on relgious beliefs that apply to ALL of us. one group of people decides for all of the people what our moral compass should be. they decide who marries and who doesn't. they decide who can adopt a baby and who can't. florida won't even recognize civil unions so if someone in a gay relationship is injured and in the hospital their "partner" can't even get in to see them.
if religious people kept their beliefs to themselves that would be wonderful. I would be happy for them. but they dont. ask the natives in africa and south america and mexico.
so you can say what you wish but this is not a free country. sure we have some freedoms other countries don't, but we don't really have choices. we have politicians who are supposed to represent the best interest of the people who elect them, but they represent the interest of the people who fund their elections. and one of the largest contributors to political campaigns are evangelist christians. and who do they fund? people who will pass the laws that they want to see passed.
in an interview in 1986 Barry Goldwater, a life long republican call the "Godfather of conservatism" who ran for president and was in the lead in the polls against JFK when he was killed said:
"I am a conservative Republican, but I believe in democracy and the separation of church and state. The conservative movement is founded on the simple tenet that people have the right to live life as they please as long as they don't hurt anyone else in the process."
(in a 1994 Washington Post essay)
"The religious factions will go on imposing their will on others,"
"I don't have any respect for the Religious Right."
"Every good Christian should line up and kick Jerry Falwell's ass."
"There is no position on which people are so immovable as their religious beliefs. There is no more powerful ally one can claim in a debate than Jesus Christ, or God, or Allah, or whatever one calls this supreme being. But like any powerful weapon, the use of God's name on one's behalf should be used sparingly. The religious factions that are growing throughout our land are not using their religious clout with wisdom. They are trying to force government leaders into following their position 100 percent. If you disagree with these religious groups on a particular moral issue, they complain, they threaten you with a loss of money or votes or both. I'm frankly sick and tired of the political preachers across this country telling me as a citizen that if I want to be a moral person, I must believe in 'A,' 'B,' 'C,' and 'D.' Just who do they think they are? And from where do they presume to claim the right to dictate their moral beliefs to me? And I am even more angry as a legislator who must endure the threats of every religious group who thinks it has some God-granted right to control my vote on every roll call in the Senate. I am warning them today: I will fight them every step of the way if they try to dictate their moral convictions to all Americans in the name of 'conservatism.' "
The five-term U.S. senator from Arizona was equally unimpressed with TV preacher Pat Robertson. When Robertson sought the GOP nomination for president in 1988, Goldwater wasn't about to say amen. "I believe in separation of church and state," observed Goldwater. "Now, he doesn't believe that . . . I just don't think he should be running."
A few years later he told The Advocate, "I don't have any respect for the Religious Right. There is no place in this country for practicing religion in politics. That goes for Falwell, Robertson and all the rest of these political preachers. They are a detriment to the country."