wow dude get a grip... what the fuck would you pull that stalkin shit for after all these people busy lookin at porn took time to try to give you REAL LIFE advice... wow.
so where's the naked pics? hehehehehe!
Honestly most of us that take time to reply arent really so into the porn. I mean.. sure we are, but it takes a big, big backseat to the chat on here.
Dont attack the guy, you always want to empathize with someone who is going through some real life bullshit. Not SYMPATHY.. that does no good. EMPATHY. Put yourself in their place, then give them advice. If they dont act on the advice, it's their fault. They need to learn from that. If they dont further, well shit.. consequences have a tendency of happening.
I really fucked up. Spied on her and the new guy she's talking to (whom deep down i know she wouldn't go for) got in a big fight with her over the phone, the mom got on and cursed me out and threatened to call the cops if i went over the house.
I went to her house, she called the cops and if it wasn't for her dad being a nice guy (he told the cops that i'm not a bad kid and he didn't want to press charges just wanted me to go home) I'd be in jail right now. I got into her email accounts, changed her passwords and deleted about 8 years worth of personal emails from her. I have an arsenal of naked pics of her at my disposal (i shouldn't post this here since i know it can be used against me later on but idc).
My friend had to almost break my arm off, ripping a knife out of my arm last night, i was going to use it on myself... I acknowledge that I need help, i should have followed all of your suggestions and just left her alone. We probably would have gotten back together by December had I just calmed the fuck down.
Bad idea, indeed. You had a chance at getting back together and you ruined it with lack of foresight.
Okay, look at it like this.. I mean really really just fuckin' stop and think:
Whether you are going with a girl, impressing a girl or broken up with one.. when does common sense ever work? You cant change their mind through the front door. You have to trick them. But.. it's a trick for their own good. Do they really want to worry about why you wank to this, why you go to this bar with your friends, why you want to play this game or even if her ass looks disgustingly fat in those stupid jeans she paid too much for?!
Ahem, so! You ruined that chance. Yeah. You have a right to be further depressed but dont you dare act on THAT NEW DEPRESSION! You lost the girl, dont lose your own life.
When you lose one, the best thing to do is wait. When they get someone new, they have to adjust to them.. get used to all the new quirks, what eggshells not to walk-upon.. all that shit. American women are really lazy creatures, honestly. They already know their ex's and they come running back more than they'd like to admit.
...unless that ex is seen as DANGEROUS instead of COMFORTABLE.
Ahem, once again..
that was your call. You learn from that instead of repeating that mistake.
Unplug your phones. Hide your cell. I dont mean put it in a drawer, I mean take the cords out, take the battery out, put it in a box and duct tape that shit while putting it in the shed out back. Lock it up, throw away the key and have a damn drink. Smoke some weed. Do whatever you do to calm down *WITHOUT* thinking.
Dont drunk dial,
dont drive, dont think. Your mind is the problem. Teach it. Open that bish up and throw the consequences at it. Real consequences havent happened.. you're off the hook. What you need is some real truth. Go find an asshole stranger. Not some innocent guy, but some fuckhead. Kick his ass and run away. Pain.. anger.. venting.. that'll remind you of your own mortality.
You need a dose of reality right now.
Anyone going through a breakup needs it but it's pretty hard when youre depressed and you dont have the motivation to even breathe, let alone get off your ass and do something.
