When did you decide to be heterosexual?

[skechers]

Not speaking for anyone but myself, the decision to BE straight or gay never came up. I just realized girls made my peepee hard.

I don't think it's a good idea to fight what you like, and to be miserable your whole life. If you feel like you want to have sex with women, have sex with women. If you wanna bangalotta-guys, then go ahead and bangalotta-guys, jack.

Just be happy.

 

[skechers]

Double post.

I'm using it as an exscuse to say one of my favorite words.



Rubuponmydingdong.

 

[CunningStunts]

Not speaking for anyone but myself, the decision to BE straight or gay never came up. I just realized girls made my peepee hard.

I don't think it's a good idea to fight what you like, and to be miserable your whole life. If you feel like you want to have sex with women, have sex with women. If you wanna bangalotta-guys, then go ahead and bangalotta-guys, jack.

Just be happy.

Well said.

I realized I like women at a very early age... I didn't quite know why, but when I was about 7, I started getting wood when I saw a nice ass or a great set of tits. I thought to myself, "these things... are very good!"

 

[ChefChiTown]

Anyone that's studied in the field of neurosciences can prove scientifically that the neurological structure of certain parts of the brain determines one's sexual preference. So, yes, when one is "born" they have a brain that will go "gay" or "straight" or "bi".

Umm, no. People aren't "born" a certain way when it comes to their emotions, desires, beliefs, thoughts, attractions, preferences, etc. People rely on using "being born that way" as a pathetic excuse when something about their personality is questioned.

If people truly were "born" a certain way, then absolutely nobody on the face of the earth would be held accountable for their actions. Serial killers could claim that they were "born" with a pre-determined lust for killing, freeing them of all responsiblity for the murders they committed. I mean, they were "born that way", so they can't help it, right? But, that excuse would never hold up in court. Why? Because, people aren't "born" a certain way.

If there really was some part of our brain and/or our genetics that pre-determined our sexual attraction (who we would desire in a sexual manner), then child molesters and pedophiles should be allowed to have sex with younger children because that would be their pre-determined sexual preference. And, who are we to judge? It's not like they can help it, you know? They were "born that way".

But, let me guess...that's totally different than being "born" gay, right?

Fact is being gay or straight is not some "eureka moment" one has at later during their life and suddenly make a conscious "choice" to be gay or straight. Alas, I am flogging a dead horse on this forum because explaining the neuroscience behind this would require lenghty explanations and most likely those without the intellect to understand such scientific fact would more than likely come out with some asinine, pseudo-scientifical and subjective weak argument due to their ignorance.

If more people went to university to study in the field of neurology and medicine, these types of ignorant questions wouldn't show up as often in forums. Sadly, there are far more illiterate people on the planet than educated ones.

Is it lonely up there on your pedestal?

 

[Funkwerkz]

I don't remember when i decided to be heterosexual but .... but i got sure that i made the right thing when i saw my very first porn movie, Krista Allen's Emmanuelle. She's still over the top for me.

 

[camplo72]

its really a no brainer these days,male or female

 

[knowone]

Seeing Raquel Welsh in a swimsuit on McHale's Navy.

 

[curiousWAN]

lol... after reading this i just go googled; "reasons to turn gay" and some answers listed in the website i've found was more than logical. some of the best;

- Horny & willing. Frequent sex, whihc you get wihtout having to "earn" it, or putting up a big production

- Having someone to workout with, share clothes with, play/watch sports with, drink beer with, big etcetera.

- Know what he's thinking, dont have to guess or play as many mind games. Thigns are more out in the open, you know what he's feeling more often and dont have to wonder. Problems are solved easier and wiht less drama.

- Easier relationship. Not as many gays are jealious or call you ever hour. They dont "test" you nearly as much, or expect you to carry the weight in the relationship. its not up to juzt you to keep the spark in the relationship. Basically its 50/50 is what im saying.

.... still you need a little messed up hormones to take a cock in the ass i guess. nature programmed us to like the opposite sex so we can produce. there must be a bug of some sort, if not hormones, bad parents, psychological traumas, being afraid of girls, erectional problems so you would go "decide" turning gay. after that, you can also "decide" turning straight saying now i know why there's a website called assholefever, lol.

 

[freeryan]

I'm glad you keep bringing up "man made" things, because it made me think of something that I would like to ask all of the people who claim that homosexuality has nothing to do with choice, but everything to do with nature and genetics...

If people are born as homosexuals and it is 100% not their decision (as it is how nature made them) then explain people who have a sexual attraction to transexuals.

Transexuals are man-made; nature has nothing to do with it. Hormone injections, breast implants and other plastic surgeries are purely man-made and completely unnatural. So, explain to me how nature can make somebody sexually attracted to something that nature doesn't even know exists.

:2 cents:

Attractions aren't always black and white. Some people are.........BI!!!!!!! Some find features of females and features of males equally attraction. I'm sure even some straight men would rather fuck a feminine male than a masculine woman. It's not always the fear of cock, it's the unattraction to a certain body type. Some just want a hole to fuck but in the question of attraction, you may find a more masculine or feminine body attractive. It's confusing but once you realize it doesn't hold the fate of the world in it's hands, who cares?

 

[mrtrebus]

When I finally said no to Father Flanagan.
:dunno:

 

[sualcalay]

When I started looking at porn pictures and suddenly realized that I preferred the pictures in which the chicks were alone...then I started watching videos and I realized I payed more attention to the women and their moans...then I notice that I hated gangbangs because there were too many dicks! Then I had sex with a babe and loved it!

Ta-dam!!

I'm not gay!

 

[GregCentauro]

When did you decide to be heterosexual?

After I was fucked by ~~whimsy~~

 

[coleman_stoops]

When did you decide to be straight?

Or is it continuous decision? A fight, if you may? Like MegaChurch Pastor Ted Haggard from the News.

Personally, I can't choose to be gay. Doesn't work for me. My switch might be broken.

You Might as well ask when I decided to start breathing.

 

[lurkingdirk]

I decided I was heterosexual as I watched GregCentauro and BlueBalls put their pants back on after double teaming me while I orally pleasured StanScratch.

I can't keep up, gentlemen.

 

[STDiva]

August 17th, 1994.

 

[lurkingdirk]

August 17th, 1994.

Isn't that the day you were baptized?

 

[pornophile]

I didn't decide shit, I was born heterosexual, why do you even ask such a stu- Oh I see where you're going with this. Touche.....

 

[Red Spyder]

One day I saw something hanging between my legs and I wondered what it was. Then I noticed that this girl did not have what I had but she had a little opening. So I realized "insert round tube in round hole". There.

 

[pete rose]

This isn't something you just decide randomly.

 

[bigsexydude35]

I've always been attracted to women