When did you decide to be heterosexual?

it's never really been a choice for me, i am attracted to owmen and find men sexually disgusting unless they are fucking women. i love the ladies, what can i say?
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Hmm, I forgot about this thread. Anyway, when I saw that it had re-appeared, I thought of something and thought it would be interesting to see what people thought.

Obviously, we all have different opinions on whether or not homosexuality is a choice or if it's a biological imprint within our DNA. But, we can all agree to disagree. With that being said, here is my thought...

If homosexuality is something that is encoded within our DNA and we have no ability to control our so-called sexual orientation, then why are there so many cases of heterosexual women that turn to lesbianism only after they have been sexually abused/raped by a man?

If you don't believe that such a thing happens all that often, try talking to women sometime because it happens far more often than you think. A woman gets raped by a man, that woman turns to other women for comfort and soon becomes a lesbian. If it was encoded within their DNA (and this sounds awful for me to say), then it wouldn't take a horrific tragedy like a rape to bring out their homosexual feelings - they would've always been there to begin with.

Thoughts?

FYI - I am NOT redirecting this conversation towards rape in any way, shape or form. I am only using this as an example. The topic is still homosexuality/heterosexuality.
 
You mean to ask me, when did I decided I was a predominantly heterosexual woman trapped in a male body???:rolleyes:

Well, it came really natural to me....always was a feminine but didn't feel different from others, however, other kids in school made sure, in not so nice ways, that I knew I was not as masculine as them.

I began to think about men sexually about at 8 years old.....but repressed it greatly, because I felt my mom would kill me. Continued playing with my feminine side, trying to hide it, sometimes successfully, from others. Then when puberty hit, I HATED IT, did not wanted to grow into a man. My gender identification was totally female. That's when I realized I was transsexual... and thank God medicine has being able to help me align my body with my gender (otherwise I probably would not be here).

I have had crushes on maybe two biological girls, but that's rare. My attraction is mostly to men. When it comes to sex, I prefer penises to vaginas, and must be treated as the female as well. :2 cents:
 
I knew since i before i was that i was made to make sweet love to the female sex, attractive women are so freaking sexy that they even attract other girls. women are the best.

I remember when i was about five i was attracted to the nurses boobs, hair, lips, butts and it gave me a hard on.
 
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habo9

Banned
I fought it for years , the shame I could have brought on my family , my teen years where the worst , but then I realized I am who I am & when I finally came out and told everyone that I was hetrosexual................................nobody gave a fuck!! lol

No really I have never just realized I was hetrosexual , I new from the very start I was , never in my life have I thought " hes a bit of alright " so the answer has to be...............................ALWAYS
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
probably "chose" as you put it, to be straight around about the time I was conceived. I'm pretty sure its not a choice. Just like being gay isn't a choice. It's just the way your body is wired. Either you like pussy or cock. Just the way it is.
 

meesterperfect

Hiliary 2020
Actually it is a choice, or at least has become one in the past 20 or so years.

I think alot of girls and boys actually say they are or become gay just for the attention.
I don't even think it, I know it.
 

Facetious

Moderated
Re: When did you decide to be heterosexual?

When I was 8, I gave Suzy over the fence a big wet smooch on the lips and in one fell swoop, pulled her dress down to her ankles on a dare ! :D :glugglug: :o. At the time, I didn't know what the hell I was doin, I just went with my instincts. Needless to say, both Suzy's elder brothers and sister as well as my older sisters got a whiff of the occurrence and we were "restricted" from being together w/out adult supervision. :(
She dared me, I delivered & she accepted, being the "big girl" @ 10 y/o He he :D

In the days that followed, My brothers were cheering me on as my sisters were telling me "that's terrible,you're not supposed to do that to girls !!"
Well, I sure as hell didn't have any interest in doing it to boys !

So there ya go :hatsoff:
 
Actually it is a choice, or at least has become one in the past 20 or so years.

I think alot of girls and boys actually say they are or become gay just for the attention.
I don't even think it, I know it.

Except that these people aren't really homosexual, just craving attention... I could start preaching in the name of God, just so that I got the attention of the people that I'm preaching to & those that I piss off, but that still wouldn't make me a believer...

probably "chose" as you put it, to be straight around about the time I was conceived. I'm pretty sure its not a choice. Just like being gay isn't a choice. It's just the way your body is wired. Either you like pussy or cock. Just the way it is.

Me too.

Hmm, I forgot about this thread. Anyway, when I saw that it had re-appeared, I thought of something and thought it would be interesting to see what people thought.

Obviously, we all have different opinions on whether or not homosexuality is a choice or if it's a biological imprint within our DNA. But, we can all agree to disagree. With that being said, here is my thought...

If homosexuality is something that is encoded within our DNA and we have no ability to control our so-called sexual orientation, then why are there so many cases of heterosexual women that turn to lesbianism only after they have been sexually abused/raped by a man?

If you don't believe that such a thing happens all that often, try talking to women sometime because it happens far more often than you think. A woman gets raped by a man, that woman turns to other women for comfort and soon becomes a lesbian. If it was encoded within their DNA (and this sounds awful for me to say), then it wouldn't take a horrific tragedy like a rape to bring out their homosexual feelings - they would've always been there to begin with.

Thoughts?

FYI - I am NOT redirecting this conversation towards rape in any way, shape or form. I am only using this as an example. The topic is still homosexuality/heterosexuality.

A lot of girls also have no problems kissing eachother or touching eachother in general. It has been said that a lot of girls are in fact bisexual, with a preference for men. If something traumatic happens which is caused by a man, that preference might fade away in favor of the other gender.
 
I think it's all about how you are raised.
You are told to like G.I. Joe, wear blue and like girls and girls are told to like Barbie, wear pink and like boys from day one.
Take a good look at a pussy and tell me if it's really pretty. I think we like it cause we are suppose to like it.
 
I think it's all about how you are raised.
You are told to like G.I. Joe, wear blue and like girls and girls are told to like Barbie, wear pink and like boys from day one.
Take a good look at a pussy and tell me if it's really pretty. I think we like it cause we are suppose to like it.

Except the boys who're told to like cars & girls & are gay still prefer pink and boys as soon as they hit puberty. Nobody raises his kid to be gay.
 
I was flipping through my mum's Littlewoods catalogues to drool over all the toys I planned to get her to buy for me. Somehow I found the lingerie section instead.

The rest, as they say, is history.
 

habo9

Banned
I was flipping through my mum's Littlewoods catalogues to drool over all the toys I planned to get her to buy for me. Somehow I found the lingerie section instead.

The rest, as they say, is history.


Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!! me too :thumbsup:
 

Perilypos

Retired Moderator
If I decided to be heterosexual, I didn't notice it - I just came into being attracted to girls without a mere shade of hesitating. I've never considered men as more attractive than a lawnmower.


Take a good look at a pussy and tell me if it's really pretty. I think we like it cause we are suppose to like it.

Yes, it is. A fine, tight, clean and nicely trimmed pink pussy is as beautiful as a gorgeous woman's dazzling smile.
 
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