"Living a lie." Bisexuality. Sexuality a spectrum.
I don't see many straight men gaying it out with other gay men just to "live a lie", sooooo...:dunno:
Also,alot of scientists DO think it's possible that it's somewhat of a choice for females(which is kind of hot.)
It's called
society and it has
nothing to do with science. It's more socially acceptable for females to be gay, so
societally, more females tend to experiment with other females, as opposed to males with other males.
That's common sense...
not science.
When did you decide to be straight?
That's an
impossible question to answer
and you know it. That's the only reason you're asking it; so you can use it to support your argument. There is no answer to that question which will please the person who asks it (AKA - you).
But, to TRY...
I can't give you an
exact moment as to when I decided to be straight. I just did. Just like when I decided that I liked the Bears, the color orange or the smell of mint...I just did.
When you're being raised as a *****, you are at your most impressionable. Personally, while I was being raised, I was raised to believe that heterosexuality was how I was supposed to be, so I mimicked that lifestyle. I saw that boys and girls interacted with one another and not just with the members of the same sex.
As time went by, that became part of who I am. Just like my morals, values, emotions, opinions, etc...it became part of me.
People who claim that homosexuality is something you're born with are refusing to see the whole picture of things. Some people are born with a predisposition to become an alcoholic as well, but, in order to become an alcoholic, you have to pick up a ***** first...
and nobody makes you pick up that first *****;
it's a choice.
:2 cents: