When did you decide to be heterosexual?

When did you decide to be straight?

Or is it continuous decision? A fight, if you may? Like MegaChurch Pastor Ted Haggard from the News.

Personally, I can't choose to be gay. Doesn't work for me. My switch might be broken.
 
I chose when I realised I that my ****** and sisters were my sexual opposites.

Actually I didn't choose - it just happened. I couldn't help it.
 
When did becoming homo or hetero have a choice. I just became a hetero. It just happened. Guys do not turn me on...
 
When did you decide to be straight?

Or is it continuous decision? A fight, if you may? Like MegaChurch Pastor Ted Haggard from the News.

Personally, I can't choose to be gay. Doesn't work for me. My switch might be broken.

No offence - do you want to talk about something?
 
I knew I liked girls when I was about six years old. I watched the little mermaid and was fascinated with Ariel's cleavage. Another odd thing was my ****** ran daycare at home and the girls would always want me to play Barbie with them. Well I would play I guess if you count undressing and making them lez out lol.
 
Since this is a thread which is asking a question that most people will refuse to answer...

If homosexuality/heterosexuality isn't a choice, then explain how somebody can be happily married, with ********, to the same person for 20+ years, then, all of a sudden, file for a divorce because they want to be with a member of the same sex?
 
I remember getting boners flipping through the pages of old Hustler and Penthouse magazines when I was a little shrimp. The same thing still happens today.
 
I've heard that gay fellas often had a closer relationship with their ******* between the ages of 3 and 6 than other fellas.

But that doesn't "equal anal sex with men" - most gay fellas do NOT do this. It's more common among straight couples.

I didnt decide, God decided for me ;)


Religion, brining you easy answers since the begining of time :D

Yes. As has been written by countless bearded men over time, for the benefit of more bearded men over time.

No offence to the beards of course. Just the "men."
 
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Since this is a thread which is asking a question that most people will refuse to answer...

If homosexuality/heterosexuality isn't a choice, then explain how somebody can be happily married, with ********, to the same person for 20+ years, then, all of a sudden, file for a divorce because they want to be with a member of the same sex?

"Living a lie." Bisexuality. Sexuality a spectrum.

Also,alot of scientists DO think it's possible that it's somewhat of a choice for females(which is kind of hot.)

Research is still out there though.

When did you decide to be straight?
 
You don't choose to be anything. You just are, it's already ingrained in your DNA. I knew that I was into girls when I noticed girls, dreamed about girls, and got boners to girls.
 
You don't choose to be anything. You just are, it's already ingrained in your DNA. I knew that I was into girls when I noticed girls, dreamed about girls, and got boners to girls.

ingrained in your DNA? So how come we have all these puddle-jumping, good with colours, good listener, soap-fan guys around, eh? Are they all secretly doing some other guy's Mrs on the sly? Perhaps they're not gay at all!
 
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I don't remember choosing it at any point. Whether it just happened through biological factors or social conditioning, I don't know, but it works for me.
 
"Living a lie." Bisexuality. Sexuality a spectrum.

I don't see many straight men gaying it out with other gay men just to "live a lie", sooooo...:dunno:

Also,alot of scientists DO think it's possible that it's somewhat of a choice for females(which is kind of hot.)

It's called society and it has nothing to do with science. It's more socially acceptable for females to be gay, so societally, more females tend to experiment with other females, as opposed to males with other males.

That's common sense...not science.

When did you decide to be straight?

That's an impossible question to answer and you know it. That's the only reason you're asking it; so you can use it to support your argument. There is no answer to that question which will please the person who asks it (AKA - you).

But, to TRY...

I can't give you an exact moment as to when I decided to be straight. I just did. Just like when I decided that I liked the Bears, the color orange or the smell of mint...I just did.

When you're being raised as a *****, you are at your most impressionable. Personally, while I was being raised, I was raised to believe that heterosexuality was how I was supposed to be, so I mimicked that lifestyle. I saw that boys and girls interacted with one another and not just with the members of the same sex.

As time went by, that became part of who I am. Just like my morals, values, emotions, opinions, etc...it became part of me.

People who claim that homosexuality is something you're born with are refusing to see the whole picture of things. Some people are born with a predisposition to become an alcoholic as well, but, in order to become an alcoholic, you have to pick up a ***** first...and nobody makes you pick up that first *****; it's a choice.

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Who you choose to have sex with is more of a symptom than a cause. Being exposed to sexuality is not a choice as you will have some sort of parental figure with you from the start to be able to survive until an adult age. We're getting dangerously close to Freud here (I **** Freud out of principle), but your parents will affect your sexuality whether they want to or not. Obviously, having heterosexual parents is no guarantee that the ***** will be straight, or vice versa. The question is if the greater part of our sexuality is defined prior to us being aware enough to make an active choice or not (and regrettably, I'm inclined to agree with Freud here and say that it happens early). If this is the case, then any choices we make at an adult age is merely the result of embracing or suppressing our already existing preferences. That can certainly be influenced by social factors, but like I said, it's only the symptom. Whether that basic preference is biological or social has yet to be determined, and if it's not biological, how much of a choice is it really if it is determined before you are able to decide for yourself?
 
I was heterosexual the instant I was conceived. I'm not religious, but I wasn't born gay and I didn't choose to be gay. I was born heterosexual and that's what I am. Although, since I love lesbians, does that make me a lesbian trapped in a man's body?
 
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