I was never one for individual sports. I loved team sports. And the last thing I cared about were my stats, but how my team did as a whole.
Especially in American football. It was cool to flatten someone on a block. But it was even cooler pulling a trap or other combinational block with multiple people and multiple deceptions. And I'd love it when my teammate made that key block, or the tailback would make a key cut, right in perfect motion with my block or lead. Or even if the whole line held the defense for the QB, with the tailback and/or fullback adding blocks.
So maybe the whole multiple men/women is about whether you like individual v. team sports? Do you like achievement and enjoyment atop of your game as an individual? Or do you not mind sharing it all with one or more people?
To me, "banging the shit out of a woman" (figuratively, not physically) is best accomplished with more than one man. Tag team or simultaneous, I love the concept. The more pleasure I enjoy with another man, the better, bothers me none. Especially if we're enjoying the same thing, or in this case, the same woman.
I have no problem viewing a penis, seeing it spew its thick load or even dripping on my member as a result if we're in close proximity. I'm not going out of my way for it to happen. But I'd find it no different in person than in porn. It's the experience. Seeing a penis spear a woman, ejaculating, etc... is just as hot as when I do it.
Especially a very large, full-figured woman that can easily take 2-3 male lovers. But that's just me I guess.