So my girlfriend is about to sign to LAX:thoughts?

[Harley Spencer]

If you wanna talk about other people supposedly being rude to you, I'd take a good long look in the mirror. Courtesy and kindness is a two way street.

Not one single bit of anything myself, Aaliyah, or LurkingDirk said about money or relationships was rude in the least. The thread started off with some posts from people making sarcastic comments about their judgments on girls in the adult industry, so that may have set a bad vibe for the rest of the thread and may have been what set you off, but the comments and discussions that followed by Aaliyah, myself and Dirk were nothing but nice and supportive. If you think otherwise, you need to go back and re-read them. We were sticking up for you and your relationship, not bashing you. It wasn't until you came around calling people know it all bitches, rude, and tossing around ridiculous wannabe gangster type attitude statements that people started getting an attitude right back with you.

Rude is a strong word, and quite frankly, you're the only one being rude here. We were trying to be helpful and doing nothing but having a lighthearted discussion about how some couples handle their finances, Aaliyah and I in particular making points about how girls in the adult industry sometimes handle their finances. That all may not have been about Lax, but there's absolutely no good reason for you to take offense to it and start hurling insults around.

If you want to make it in the adult business, you need to learn to get along with other people, and so far you aren't doing very good at that. People will hire you at first because you're new and cute, but as soon as they learn about your attitude and the way you interact with people, they're not going to hire you again.

My advice, much like Petra's, is to actually take the advice that is given to you by other people within the industry who have been in it for years, which includes Aaliyah and myself. It might not be the advice you requested, but it is advice nonetheless. You don't have to agree with the advice or opinions, but you should at least take it into consideration. Even if you don't like the advice that's given, that doesn't mean it's ok to be mean about it, which is exactly how you're acting, frankly.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Sexuality shouldn't be shamed, it's a natural part of humanity and I fully except my sexuality, nothing anyone can say about my body and what i choose to do with it will offend me, and what I do with my body is out in the open which is why i accept any advice on such matters, but my relationship and finances are not out in the open for that specific reason, i dont want advice on either of those subjects.

And that is YOUR opinion and in regards to the idea that sexuality shouldn't be shamed, I'd tend to agree... but most wouldn't. You see, that's the thing; Other people's opinions VARY. Don't get uppity with everyone else because what they believe does not conform entirely with what you believe. Apparently you believe money is some secretive, deeply personal issue that it is rude to discuss. Well, a lot of people don't. A lot of people think about it EXACTLY like you think about your sexuality. And for the record, your sexuality is your BUSINESS, it's what you use to make money, thus that is out there too. Thus it's somewhat flawed to suggest that one is in the open, and thus grounds for discussion, while the other is not.

Here's a pro-tip: You are NOT the center of the universe. You do not decide etiquette. You do not decide cultural norms. You do not dictate what is relevant. You do not define society.

You a cog in the machine. You are one of many. You are not a little snowflake. You are not special or unique. You are meat and bone like everyone else. You are no more important than the person you serves you your coffee.

And you are, by first impression, a terrible human being.

 

[sean miguel]

OMG. Wake me up when the sermon's over.

 

[JBham]

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And that is YOUR opinion and in regards to the idea that sexuality shouldn't be shamed, I'd tend to agree... but most wouldn't. You see, that's the thing; Other people's opinions VARY. Don't get uppity with everyone else because what they believe does not conform entirely with what you believe. Apparently you believe money is some secretive, deeply personal issue that it is rude to discuss. Well, a lot of people don't. A lot of people think about it EXACTLY like you think about your sexuality. And for the record, your sexuality is your BUSINESS, it's what you use to make money, thus that is out there too. Thus it's somewhat flawed to suggest that one is in the open, and thus grounds for discussion, while the other is not.

Here's a pro-tip: You are NOT the center of the universe. You do not decide etiquette. You do not decide cultural norms. You do not dictate what is relevant. You do not define society.

You a cog in the machine. You are one of many. You are not a little snowflake. You are not special or unique. You are meat and bone like everyone else. You are no more important than the person you serves you your coffee.

And you are, by first impression, a terrible human being.

Yeah and that same person serving me coffee, I know where they get their money, from serving me coffee, but that doesn't mean I can tell them how to spend it and tell them how to handle their relationship.

I'm aware that I am simply just another human being, I never said I was special, it seems you're making things up now to just dig at me further, I don't see why we're arguing, because honestly the only thing I did that I would consider mean was calling her a know it all bitch, yeah it was wrong I shouldn't of said it, but that doesn't change the fact that I thought it was rude for people telling me what to do about my personal life, that's all. I did things you guys don't like and your telling me now, and thats all I'm doing. we all have the right to be pissed, but that doesn't mean you can sit here and put words in my mouth.
yes I'm perfectly capable of being a shitty person, but who isn't?

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Yeah and that same person serving me coffee, I know where they get their money, from serving me coffee, but that doesn't mean I can tell them how to spend it and tell them how to handle their relationship.

No, but no one told you how to. They didn't harass you about it either. They gave you advice on how to. Those are not the same things, and only an incredibly arrogant, self-centered person wouldn't be able to tell the difference.

I'm aware that I am simply just another human being...

Then grow up and start acting like it. When someone else gives you harmless advice do not insult them for it like a spoiled little child who believes that the entire world should work within their own personal little ideals simply because they are their own personal ideals. That is the type of behavior that can only occur when you are stuck so far up your own ass that you can't see the light of day.

...yeah it was wrong I shouldn't of said it, but that doesn't change the fact that I thought it was rude...

Yes, it was wrong. And yes, you shouldn't have said it. And if you were an adult you've have apologized for it already but instead you're still harping on about it despite the fact that the objectively rude interaction between you and she was on your end.

Fine, you don't like to discuss your relationship or finances. That's perfectly within your rights to think and feel that way. So don't do it. Plain and simple. You could have ignored the comments. You could have politely said that you were uncomfortable talking about such things. You didn't do either of those however, instead you decided to hurl insults at people who meant you no ill will which is not acceptable.

 

[ApolloBalboa]

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Yeah and that same person serving me coffee, I know where they get their money, from serving me coffee, but that doesn't mean I can tell them how to spend it and tell them how to handle their relationship.

I'm aware that I am simply just another human being, I never said I was special, it seems you're making things up now to just dig at me further, I don't see why we're arguing, because honestly the only thing I did that I would consider mean was calling her a know it all bitch, yeah it was wrong I shouldn't of said it, but that doesn't change the fact that I thought it was rude for people telling me what to do about my personal life, that's all. I did things you guys don't like and your telling me now, and thats all I'm doing. we all have the right to be pissed, but that doesn't mean you can sit here and put words in my mouth.
yes I'm perfectly capable of being a shitty person, but who isn't?

The fact remains that while people may have been giving you advice about what to do in your personal life (which it didn't to me, nor did it to anyone else, it seems), that's just it, advice. Nowhere does it say that you have to take what people say to heart. The fact remains, you responded to what people were posting (not necessarily having to do with what you'd asked, but trying to be helpful nonetheless) with insults, rude remarks, and general hostility. Even if the only thing that you did that you consider mean was calling Aaliyah a know-it-all bitch, you still haven't apologized for what anybody would consider rude and unwarranted. The fact that you're now trying to justify your knee-jerk response by saying that you were rude because people didn't respond how you wanted them to doesn't do anything to endear you to anyone, and makes you appear petty and self-centered. As Happy and I have both said, you're at the bottom of the ladder now, fairly unnoticeable, someone trying to break into the business where girls are the majority, and you've already alienated at least 2 veterans of the industry who said they won't work with you. You're not off to a good start.

 

[Harley Spencer]

I don't think the point is being made clear enough. No one was telling you how to handle your relationship or your money. We were having a general discussion about how people in the adult business, or even outside of the adult business, might handle it. No one told you specifically that you need to do this or that. If you went back and re-read the discussion, you'd notice some things like "And I'm not saying the poster is like this.. I hope he isn't!", "IMO", ..."work for some couples and others they don't.", "Again, that's just what works for me. Everyone has their own system." It was all opinion. That's it.

 

[sean miguel]

. As Happy and I have both said, you're at the bottom of the ladder now, fairly unnoticeable, someone trying to break into the business where girls are the majority

And Lucy, you should really take that to heart, coming from a guy who posts on a porn forum.

 

[JBham]

Exactly. I'm eighteen, I have plenty of growing up to do I'm aware of that, but you're also, now this is an assumption, but a grown ass man yelling at an eighteen year old for being offending and sticking up for herself.
You guys were offended I get it, and so was I, we're doing the exact same thing, I got offended I got bitchy, you guys got offended you got bitchy as well. it is what it is please accept it and move on, we're all going based off of our natural human animal-like instincts, I'm aware of that, and I've also stopped making digs at people, but you can't seem to stop.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Exactly. I'm eighteen, I have plenty of growing up to do I'm aware of that, but you're also, now this is an assumption, but a grown ass man yelling at an eighteen year old for being offending and sticking up for herself.
You guys were offended I get it, and so was I, we're doing the exact same thing, I got offended I got bitchy, you guys got offended you got bitchy as well. it is what it is please accept it and move on, we're all going based off of our natural human animal-like instincts, I'm aware of that, and I've also stopped making digs at people, but you can't seem to stop.

There's a distinct difference; You got offended over a difference of opinion, something subjective, everyone else got offended over you insulting someone, something objectve. You were not sticking up for yourself. No one was harassing you. No one was mistreating you. They just did something you didn't like.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Exactly. I'm eighteen, I have plenty of growing up to do I'm aware of that, but you're also, now this is an assumption, but a grown ass man yelling at an eighteen year old for being offending and sticking up for herself.
You guys were offended I get it, and so was I, we're doing the exact same thing, I got offended I got bitchy, you guys got offended you got bitchy as well. it is what it is please accept it and move on, we're all going based off of our natural human animal-like instincts, I'm aware of that, and I've also stopped making digs at people, but you can't seem to stop.

Don't let your age define you.

 

[RASQ]

Lucy, seriously, go suck some dick and let us know when the scene "cums" out so I can jerk off to it.

and Good Luck, even these guys started at the bottom

 

[Sicario]

All I have to say to Ms. Lucy Jaye is good luck on your porn career and make the most out of this endeavor.


-your friendly neighborhood pervert,

S.

ps, that is a pretty hot pic you have there... :thumbsup:

:rubbel::rubbel::rubbel:

 

[Deepcover]

Don't let her start with the big cock bastards, because trust me it's going to ruin her physically and destroy you emotionally... especially that traitorous cunt fart. I mean have you thought about how you're going to handle this? Assuming you love her, there's got to be rules and boundaries set otherwise both will get hurt. If you want, I've got a list of small cock pornstars that she could work with, and who to avoid... do what Aaliyah did and start small. Avoid the Nachos and Mandingos. sorry, just don't want you or her to get hurt and I've seen many relationship broken during my years as a makeup artist for pornstars. My $0.02

This zedenka user is a real fucking troll haha

 

[sean miguel]

That pic is so hot.

 

[xfire]

That pic is so hot.

Linked directly from LAX Models, too. Awesome. I'm sure they won't mind having their bandwidth piggybacked.

 

[Rhyno17]

Hey this is the girlfriend here, why don't you hit the shower, wash your fake tan off and scrub that stank pussy and try to get that awful stench off that obviously causing you mental problems.

That's classy!

 

[288gto]

there is no "wrong" or "right" it's just matters of opinion and how people run their own finances and relationships. We were just discussing it until the original poster came in and told us all to fuck off. Or maybe she was just telling me to fuck off, I don't know lol. Just about every thread ever created here gets sidetracked..and we were still discussing matters that come up for newbies to the porn industry..
I don't see what the big deal is but whatever. There are plenty of hot chicks with bad attitudes in porn. They get shot once but if the performers and photographers and directors don't like spending an entire day with their piss poor attitudes, they won't get hired back again.

i don't know much how it goes on porn, but you know u made the fuck off zdenka thread for the advice she gave ya, however that advice was real bullshit. zdenka was wrong, but you was a little bit over the limit. i like you, but let's be honest. lucy jaye was wrong too, in porn u need more friends and less haters, that's i think how it goes.

 

[288gto]

Petra[/URL][/B], post: 7645280, member: 114093"]To the girlfriend -> Make your own account under your own name and email me at [B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/petra"]Petra[/URL][/B]@freeones.com with a fan sign (hand written with the current days date) and we'll hook you up as an OCSM.

best advice, do it!

 

[288gto]

don't let her start with the big cock bastards, because trust me it's going to ruin her physically and destroy you emotionally... Especially that traitorous cunt fart. I mean have you thought about how you're going to handle this? Assuming you love her, there's got to be rules and boundaries set otherwise both will get hurt. If you want, i've got a list of small cock pornstars that she could work with, and who to avoid... Do what aaliyah did and start small. Avoid the nachos and mandingos. Sorry, just don't want you or her to get hurt and i've seen many relationship broken during my years as a makeup artist for pornstars. My $0.02

hilarius!