(pun)Come again(pun)?
I very rarely jack or jill off, but I think it is brilliant that guys do it often. Girls are different.
Mel
Speak for yourself.
My wife actually unloads more than I do, both with me and without me. She actually started having orgasms before I did, she as 8, myself at 9. She's Italian with a huge sex drive, and when she orgasms, hers are far more intense than mine (God I love her quivering vagina -- oh man I can sometimes just get off without pumping much at all when I slice those innards).
On the advice of my urologist, I now unload every 3-4 days as I'm getting older. It is also to bring my sperm count back up as it's just starting to dip with my age (waiting 5+ days before seeing my wife again was too long). My wife will unload several times during the week in my absence. I also rather enjoy her rubbing on a pillow when I'm with her (especially cupping those breasts and just focusing on them more than I can when I'm in her or licking her clitoris).
Women aren't different than men despite what society says about them. I have several female friends I've challenged to unload every other day and see how it affects their moods, and sure enough, their attitudes actually improved after 2 months of doing such. I think the key to loving oneself is acceptance of it and not any loneliness or guilty or other, negative feelings. Heck, if I didn't have my wife, I wouldn't feel lonely because of lack of our sexual relations, I would feel lonely because of the lack of our companionship.
She's always been more physical than me, she just gave into it very early and didn't let anyone tell her it was bad.