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Regarding my case, I have both disagreed and agreed with Mariah. She is someone with a very strong temperament that doesn't let anyone walk on her toes nor insult her. She is also very direct and she calls a cat a cat. I will also have to agree with Rey C that there are things which are acceptable and others which aren't. Don't you remember how Male12 got strongly replied by Mariah when he tried to mock her unfairly? This is just an example and an argument that there are people that you shouldn't provoke deliberately. I too had some conflicts in real life which I resolved by using strong arm tactics because otherwise, I would have too much shit to handle and this because of some ass holes who took pleasure of mocking and degrading others. Also not everyone shares the same political beliefs nor the same vision of the government at last but not least you can't please everybody. Just remember that.
 

Mayhem

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My beef is this: If the previous "pre-relaxation" era of the board is one extreme, then this current era of the board is in my opinion, the opposite extreme. It is my humble opinion that the best board atmosphere would be somewhere between the two....preferably the middle.

Agreed 100%. I was one of the "old" boards biggest critics, but we have merely replaced one extreme with another. I don't get why, or why someone feels that it's a good idea to not find appropriate middle ground.
 
You are being hypocritical you used vicious language against me in our recent conservation.

Let's clear this up. My first recent response to you in that thread was post 494, where all I did was point out that you were being hypocritical (which you were, and I pointed out exactly why). I attacked your argument. The first word in the first sentence of your first response to me was "Idiot" (post 495). You attacked me, and you were wrong since your assertions didn't reflect the facts.

In case You Missed it I BLUNTLY said that people attacking Mariah as a person without cause was reprehensible and that I have personally defended her from such attacks on multiple occasions (I'll give you links if you want...). So no, there's no hypocrisy there. I have no trouble with a little debate. I have trouble with people being assholes. YOU have been an asshole and, sure, I used "vicious language" against you (which, by the way, you seem to believe is fine anyway, since you aren't "regular people"). M13 was an asshole to Mariah, and hey... I used vicious language against him too.

There's a hefty damned difference between debating and insulting, and there's another hefty damned difference between defending yourself or someone else and openly attacking someone. In the topic you're referring to YOU were the aggressor. When I defended Mariah the people I defended her against were the aggressor. Do you not understand the basic difference between attack and defense? Are you able to comprehend why the argument of "self-defense" can result in a finding of justifiable homicide and thus a not guilty verdict?
 
Let's clear this up. My first recent response to you in that thread was post 494, where all I did was point out that you were being hypocritical (which you were, and I pointed out exactly why). I attacked your argument. The first word in the first sentence of your first response to me was "Idiot" (post 495). You attacked me, and you were wrong since your assertions didn't reflect the facts.

In case You Missed it I BLUNTLY said that people attacking Mariah as a person without cause was reprehensible and that I have personally defended her from such attacks on multiple occasions (I'll give you links if you want...). So no, there's no hypocrisy there. I have no trouble with a little debate. I have trouble with people being assholes. YOU have been an asshole and, sure, I used "vicious language" against you (which, by the way, you seem to believe is fine anyway, since you aren't "regular people"). M13 was an asshole to Mariah, and hey... I used vicious language against him too.

There's a hefty damned difference between debating and insulting, and there's another hefty damned difference between defending yourself or someone else and openly attacking someone. In the topic you're referring to YOU were the aggressor. When I defended Mariah the people I defended her against were the aggressor. Do you not understand the basic difference between attack and defense? Are you able to comprehend why the argument of "self-defense" can result in a finding of justifiable homicide and thus a not guilty verdict?


You have different opinion, but you are being a hypocrite. You can defend someone without using "vicious language". I have been in the U. S. military, and your words were child's play for me, but other board members would be very upset with that language. Happy, you are part of the problem that you are complaining about to other board members.
 

Mariahxxx

Official Checked Star Member
I think everyone needs to take a step back. When did this all start happening with me??? It started when I started getting involved in the political discussions which I was invited to join in on, then it bled over when I started speaking my mind about religion.

People are passionate about politics and defensive about religion. People don't understand or like that I switched from being a Bush voting republican to a liberal on many issues. It's simply because I experienced some things that just made too much sense and well, Bush was President for 8 years so that should make anyone reconsider their political party.

As far as religion goes I think that I have raised valid questions and have been answered with anger and aggression. Am I aggressive? Yep. Do I speak my mind? Yep. But at least I do that. Most of these porn bitches are afraid to share an opinion on anything that means anything. Most are too dumb to even have an opinion on anything relevant.

If you don't like me, then fuck off and find another thread to read or put me on ignore.

And this challenge of knowing or not knowing someone you've never met compared to someone you have is stupid. You surely cannot seriously believe that you could know someone on a message board that you've never met as opposed to someone that you have?

your comment "They don't want to drive people away. They don't want to get punched. They don't want to be spat on. Here they don't have to worry about that. Here they're free to be themselves with no real consequences. They are free to act within their (lack) of conscience, to display their innermost thoughts to the world without worry. They can proverbially "let it all hang out." what that means is that they can run their mouths and act tough when they really aren't. They can pretend to be a bad ass when they are really scared of their own shadow. They can threaten without having to back it up. that's not being themselves, that's being someone they wish they were. wake the fuck up dude.

Ok let's compare: you've had 100 inter-actions on the message board with person X compare it to 50 inter-actions IN PERSON with person Y who would you get a better feel for as a person? Of course the one who's eyes you have looked into, heard their voice, seen their facial expressions and body language.

If you say person X then maybe you're some sort of anti-social anomaly that could only handle online inter-action. I guess it's normal you wouldn't see it any other way.

Time for cafe ole and chocolatine
 

Shifty

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Ok let's compare: you've had 100 inter-actions on the message board with person X compare it to 50 inter-actions IN PERSON with person Y who would you get a better feel for as a person? Of course the one who's eyes you have looked into, heard their voice, seen their facial expressions and body language.

If you say person X then maybe you're some sort of anti-social anomaly that could only handle online inter-action. I guess it's normal you wouldn't see it any other way.

Mariah, if this is your stance on the subject, then why do you constantly post about your personal life? After all, to you we're all person X.
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
He probably got to one of those Rey C or Happy Happy Joy Joy long-winded diatribes and tapped out. :facepalm:

Sheeeet! He'd read every, single word and then tell me that... I could be a movie star, if I could get out of this place. La la la de de da la la de de da

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Summer is coming to a close.. go work on that tan. :D

He's from Joysey. Who needs sunshine?!

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raimmi

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I think most of You Missed the topic of the thread (including some moderators).

If you want to continue your personal discussion with her, I recommend to create an own thread for that or maybe continue that with private messages.
 

Mariahxxx

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I'm not person X. You have seen my videos. You have heard my voice. Many have done video chat with me over the years. Many have met me in person. Petra and Roald have had drinks with me and hung out for a night in Amsterdam. I have met a lot of fans at events that I have hosted. I did a contest dinner with mariah where I flew a winner to NYC and provided their hotel and dinner with me at Momofuku Noodle Bar 5 different times. I'm established and many people have met me.

Until I have met you and spent time with you, I cannot determine whether you are a good guy or not. I can read what you write and think you are smart, or stupid, or opinionated and knowledgeable or not, but can I determine what type of person you are and decide if I'd trust you with my child? Fuck no.
 

Mariahxxx

Official Checked Star Member
I think most of you missed the topic of the thread (including some moderators).

If you want to continue your personal discussion with her, I recommend to create an own thread for that or maybe continue that with private messages.

so now you get to dictate the posts in a thread? the thread turns with the tide dude. your thread would have died 2 days ago if it had not taken on a new direction.
 
Agreed 100%. I was one of the "old" boards biggest critics, but we have merely replaced one extreme with another. I don't get why, or why someone feels that it's a good idea to not find appropriate middle ground.

And you just stated my political views, both extremes are bad for the common good and middle America. The farther the extremes go, the larger the middle becomes and the more damaged the country becomes
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
I think everyone needs to take a step back. When did this all start happening with me??? It started when I started getting involved in the political discussions which I was invited to join in on, then it bled over when I started speaking my mind about religion.

People are passionate about politics and defensive about religion. People don't understand or like that I switched from being a Bush voting republican to a liberal on many issues. It's simply because I experienced some things that just made too much sense and well, Bush was President for 8 years so that should make anyone reconsider their political party.

As far as religion goes I think that I have raised valid questions and have been answered with anger and aggression. Am I aggressive? Yep. Do I speak my mind? Yep. But at least I do that. Most of these porn bitches are afraid to share an opinion on anything that means anything. Most are too dumb to even have an opinion on anything relevant.

If you don't like me, then fuck off and find another thread to read or put me on ignore.

And this challenge of knowing or not knowing someone you've never met compared to someone you have is stupid. You surely cannot seriously believe that you could know someone on a message board that you've never met as opposed to someone that you have?

your comment "They don't want to drive people away. They don't want to get punched. They don't want to be spat on. Here they don't have to worry about that. Here they're free to be themselves with no real consequences. They are free to act within their (lack) of conscience, to display their innermost thoughts to the world without worry. They can proverbially "let it all hang out." what that means is that they can run their mouths and act tough when they really aren't. They can pretend to be a bad ass when they are really scared of their own shadow. They can threaten without having to back it up. that's not being themselves, that's being someone they wish they were. wake the fuck up dude.

Ok let's compare: you've had 100 inter-actions on the message board with person X compare it to 50 inter-actions IN PERSON with person Y who would you get a better feel for as a person? Of course the one who's eyes you have looked into, heard their voice, seen their facial expressions and body language.

If you say person X then maybe you're some sort of anti-social anomaly that could only handle online inter-action. I guess it's normal you wouldn't see it any other way.

Time for cafe ole and chocolatine

I think this is obvious for you and I. Personally, I have no problem with your views on religion. I was raised by 4 devoutly catholic Sicilian women....yet I am not. I have faith, I have beliefs. They are my business, and I can't recall ever shoving them down anyone's throat. I understand the hypocrisy of organized religion, especially catholicism...even more so scientology, and islam. But after a while, one tends to get tired of hearing the same broken record, and it becomes apparent that you weren't ragging on religion, but only one sect of religion.


I never got aggressive, until you did, and if you wanna run with the big dogs, you gotta be able to piss in the high weeds. You can't expect a person to not fight back. I'm not taking that shit from ANYONE....I would have called Petra the same things if she said it. You started a fight, not me, I just choose not to roll over and take it. And I still won't.

And finally, you are more then guilty of judgement without knowing. You don't know me, yet you choose to judge me, before you gave me the common curiosity of asking for a clarification. Why? Because you saw an opportunity to go for the throat of someone you perceived as a person not willing to accept YOUR opinions,without question, or unwavering agreement.

This is just the internet...I can care less about who people are, and what they think, but I'm not getting called out, and defamed by ANYONE, without stepping up. As far as you and I go, this took the course YOU directed it in.
 

raimmi

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so now you get to dictate the posts in a thread? the thread turns with the tide dude. your thread would have died 2 days ago if it had not taken on a new direction.

Well, I have at least created this thread and maybe it would have been better if it would have died 2 days ago (at least better then the drama thats going on here again)
Furthermore all you guys are derailing the thread which is against the rules, but soehow tolerated in the general section of the board.

In the end it is always the same here, so do what ever you guys want to do. I am out
 

Mariahxxx

Official Checked Star Member
Well my issue with the catholic church is the child rape issue. Did you know that the Milwaukee church where that sick fucking monster molested over 200 boys filed for bankruptcy to avoid having to pay the settlement money? The man opened a boarding school for deaf boys solely to prey on them which he did for more than 20 years. There were accusations starting in the 1970s that were ignored by the church. Letters written to Ratzinger before he was pope which he said held no merit and ignored the claims. Turns out "father" Murphy was just moved to another diocese and continued being a priest, unpunished.
here's a link to the story there is also an incredible documentary about the school and how fucked up it was and the cover up that went all the way to the Vatican.
If it were evangelists who were raping kids, I'd be all over it. Same goes for Jews or any other fairy tale. But it's the catholic church that has the epidemic so therein lies my grievance.
 
After a couple of months of back and forth fighting with Mariah I came to realize that her opinions while out there are interesting to read. To be honest, when I joined this board I didn't even realize that some well known porn chicks participated here on quite this level.

I have always liked people with a little bit of fire in them even if I disagreed with them. She isn't here posting pics of herself wearing a thong bikini all the time, she is making food and calling people creative names like "douche drinker and cum garglers" I'm sorry but after a while that kind of shit makes me laugh. Something else that is apparent, is that her participation here draws responses. Even those that hate her can't resist reading what she has posted when they see her little pink name as the last post on a particular thread.

When she started to get under my skin I stepped back and thought about it for a moment and realized that she started in the porn business when she was a young mom and in her late teens. That had to be tough. It also had to affect her world view because I am sure that every day in the porn biz is a crap shoot. Now she is trying to live a normal life away from all that. Yeah she does a lot of name dropping but I don't doubt for a moment that she really does know these people she talks about. I guess the biggest thing that impresses me is that she learned everything on her own. I deal with young women attorneys fresh out of law school every week that don't know half the shit Mariah does.

Will there be another incident when Mariah says something that will make me want to yank a knot in her ass? You betcha, especially if I had a bad day at work or something but overall it is refreshing to read the opinions of a "porn bitch"lol that isn't only sticking her ass up on the air all the time but talking about what is happening in the world.
 

Mariahxxx

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well well. look who has come over to the dark side! I appreciate the acknowledgement BC. Very kind of you to say.

I often read books about things in which I do not agree. I think it is healthy to hear different points of view because it makes you question your positions and then you either confirm them with logic or you reconsider why you took those positions to begin with, which is what I have done. I respect someone who is brave enough to change their point of view after doing some thinking and research rather than just accepting it as fact and never going back and reconfirming why they believed it in the first place.

I don't like the porn industry. I think its filthy and no place I would ever want to return. However there are some very good people in the industry. I don't hold it against them because they're doing their thing and that's cool with me. I don't agree with porn girls escorting while they are active. I could never just go fuck some random stranger for money. I wouldn't be able to live with myself, but one of good friends does it for a living. I don't preach to her about it, I let her do what she wants and we agree that we disagree. When something bad happens to her, not if because it's just a matter of time, I will feel awful for her. She knows how I feel and last week when a trick fucked her for an hour then pepper sprayed her and stole her purse and her laptop and ran off, she admitted that she hates it. That's her life. She doesn't impose on me with it. She is free to sell her holes if she wishes. It is sad to me but I can't feel bad for her when that shit happens.

Did you guys see the Mormon issue in Sweden (I think it was Sweden) where the members of the church went to the pastor or whatever they call them in that cockamamie nonsense, and said they had been doing some research online about their faith and it wasn't making sense to them. So the whatever he was told them not to believe it and to consider it propaganda trying to test their resolve. Then he went online himself and discovered that it all sounded like a load of bullshit to him too. Those people should be applauded for questioning what they believe and then confirming why they believe it. If we all did that then the world would be a much better place.
 
Well my issue with the catholic church is the child rape issue. Did you know that the Milwaukee church where that sick fucking monster molested over 200 boys filed for bankruptcy to avoid having to pay the settlement money? The man opened a boarding school for deaf boys solely to prey on them which he did for more than 20 years. There were accusations starting in the 1970s that were ignored by the church. Letters written to Ratzinger before he was pope which he said held no merit and ignored the claims. Turns out "father" Murphy was just moved to another diocese and continued being a priest, unpunished.
here's a link to the story there is also an incredible documentary about the school and how fucked up it was and the cover up that went all the way to the Vatican.
If it were evangelists who were raping kids, I'd be all over it. Same goes for Jews or any other fairy tale. But it's the catholic church that has the epidemic so therein lies my grievance.
was the priest condemned to death penalty or even jailed for life???
 

Mariahxxx

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no he wasnt

he was moved to another parish and then died of an illness was never prosecuted and the church was fined for the cover ups so they filed for bankruptcy so they wont have to pay even though the catholic church is worth billions of dollars. fucking scumbags
 
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