This is directed to Mr Sarcasm-Know it all I'm think-I'm smarter than everyone else. aka chef
I dont know you. I dont need to know you. But you're saying that if only had someone told you while you're depressed that "you're acting like an idiot" would cure your depression is just hard to believe my friend. Maybe only in hindsight you can say that.
And before you quote me to reply "oh but you have no idea what its like" or "you don't have a right to say anything unless you've been where I have" I'm going to tell you that YES, I have been where you are and YES I've gone through what you have. Go back to two days after my 18th birthday. My father kicks me out of his house because I won't conform to his religious ideals. He chooses his god over his own child. I had nowhere to go, nowhere to stay, so I slept on the streets for weeks until I could hold onto a job. I was depressed, I used to cut myself, and I struggled. I got my first apartment, however, my paycheck barely covered the rent and I went days at a time without having food. I went on in that routine until I met a guy who I fell in love with, and then moved to a new city to start a life with him. When I started that life with him, however, things got abusive and he nearly killed me several times. I spent two years being controlled, abused both physically, sexually and mentally. I finally was able to end it, and he stalked me and attacked me and caused me severe head trauma that still affects me to this day. He's since been convicted, but trust me, the depression I went through after all of that was crippling. I was back with nowhere to live after I broke it off with him, but since then, I have refused to give up. I've worked my way through school. Now I am a business owner, and I pay my own bills with more to spare. I'm also in the best relationship in my life and marriage is likely in our future. No matter how dark life seems, giving up and refusing to acknowledge just how MUCH you have in your life is selfish and pathetic. Grow some balls, fight back at life and work hard at making yourself happy.
/end rant.
In defense of Chef, he may be an @$#%^&!, but I've never thought he acts like a know it all.
You think I'm an @s#%^&!, really? I always considered myself more of a &#*!%^^#%@#.
I got negative rep for disagreeing with chef lol. wow such clout. impressive.
you can say what you want, and You Might actually believe it. You are just saying that now because you still looking for others to blame. if only "someone had told me i was a loser", as if that would have been the life changing words. you can say that now because in hindsight you know you were acting like an idiot and u're just making excuses. If what you say is true, then the world would be perfect. Any problems that any1 might have could be cured by the truth but just about anything not normal is stupid and idiotic.
Everyone has had suicidal thoughts, everyone has had murderous thoughts, everyone has had homosexual thoughts, etc...
Some people have deeper thoughts than others and some of those people end up acting on their thoughts. But, everyone has those thoughts.
Damn Chef, you really think you know it all don't you? Here you are saying you know what every person who lives on earth has thought @ some point in their life.
Maybe you should create an extra account for your ego.
Or maybe it's time you realize there's more to life than your little world and that not everybody thinks like you do.
So, you've never thought about it? Not once? Not one single time in your life? Not even innocently? Not even while reading this thread, which talks about suicide in heavy doses?
You're saying that you have never once thought about suicide?
You said and I quote "Everyone has had suicidal thoughts"
Suicidal thoughts are thoughts contemplating to commit suicide and no, I have never had suicidal thoughts. It may be hard for you to believe but there are people in the world who are very happy and enjoy life.
I know what I said and I never said that everybody "contemplates" suicide with an intention of actually taking their life. I said that everybody thinks about it. You're thinking about it right now as you're reading this.