I want to get porn from the internet rather than dvds. My idea is to buy an external portable hard drive and hide it on there? After that I'm pretty much just trying to figure out best places to purchase downloadable porn without her knowing. Any tips or tricks from the veterans with girlfriends or wives...
How to hide your porn from your girlfriend?
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jasonk282
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Don't hide it, how can you build a relationshipbuilt on lies and secrets. Tell her about it, share some with her you never know that things she might want to try. what ever you do Don't hide it.
PlasmaTwa2
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Unless it is, like, a man getting tied up and spanked by a midget in a batman outfit. Then hide it.
But yeah, he's right. Be open about it.
Have to agree with jasonk282. I've never hid porn from any of my girlfriends.
Bah! I know she'll walk if I keep it up. She's so reserved but I love her. She's found a bunch of it before and has cried to me that she's not enough for me. She just doesn't understand what its like to be a man. She kept finding it here or there and she just chooses to ignore it and give me the silent treatment when she finds out.
jasonk282
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Mine would want to see that just for laughs
If it's that serious, you need to either decide if she is worth losing over porn, or find another girlfriend who is more open to your interests. You might start with having a open discussion with her and see if you can get her to view things differently and get over some of her insecurities.
Thankfully my girlfriend has an interest in porn, but I have to say if it was between her and porn, I would gladly choose her. It's lucky for me she is just as sexual as me, if not more, even with some of the insecurities she has. I make a point to show her she is the most important person in my life, and remind her daily how sexy I find her. We have had discussions on porn before, so everything is out in the open.
jasonk282
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Do you pay attention to her, or do you ingnore her for porn? Well if you love her as much as you said that you do maybe you should honor her request. Or sit down and have a grown up converstaion about it. Of course she does not klnow what it's like being a man, do you know what it's like being a girl? Maybe she has insecruities that you two need to deal with.
Seems like you already made up You Mind though.
I for one would NEVER lose my wife over porn.
Alright....well actually I can't dump her because...she's my wife. Not my girlfriend. We've been married for 3 years in november and I'm only 24. I got married to young, I know this so please don't tell me. I never got to date as many girls as I probably should of and well it's too late to turn back time. Soooo.... I don't want to leave her cause I love her. I certainly wouldn't leave her over porn, but what else am I suppost to do? Just pretend that other women aren't out there?
jasonk282
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Talk to her about it. How long have you two dated before you got married? How old is your wife? You need to be honest with her.
we dated 2 years before I married her. She's 24 in november. I've tried before but I can tell she doesn't feel comfortable about it and finds that my interest in viewing other women in a strictly sexual aspect is still some sort of part on her shortcomings or something. Although we've seen numerous movies and tv shows where the same exact situation has come up and it seems normal. She's pretty reserved and introverted and I just can't see myself talking to her about it. I know she has no interest in watching it though. She's a person that finds it disgusting. This is the only subject we bump heads on. I just don't feel like ignoring my want to look at other women on occasion. I don't see the harm. Its better than cheating on her.
jasonk282
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But to her you ARE cheating on her
jasonk282
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We don't hide shit from our wives:dunno:
And hiding it will only add to her feelings of insecurities. She will eventually find out about it no matter how well you think you hid it.
Marriage, or any relationship for that matter is about communication. You are going to have to man up and discuss this issue with her no matter how hard it may be for you, even if you think there is nothing that will be resolved in your favor.
She just may appreciate the fact you are being open about it, when she knows you very well could have just tried to hide it, as you are now considering doing.
Marriage, or any relationship for that matter is about communication. You are going to have to man up and discuss this issue with her no matter how hard it may be for you, even if you think there is nothing that will be resolved in your favor.
She just may appreciate the fact you are being open about it, when she knows you very well could have just tried to hide it, as you are now considering doing.
My girlfriend had A LOT of concerns about my interest in porn, but I discussed everything with her, answering all her questions honestly. I made it very clear it was an enhancement to our relationship, not a replacement or in any way equal to her.
When she saw how open I was, it helped her open up. It turned out she really didn't have anything against porn as I thought, she just needed reassurance from me that I was in no way less attracted to her or needed something she was not able to give. I gave her that assurance.
When she saw how open I was, it helped her open up. It turned out she really didn't have anything against porn as I thought, she just needed reassurance from me that I was in no way less attracted to her or needed something she was not able to give. I gave her that assurance.
jasonk282
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You need to approach her, but not aggressive about it. Let her ask the questions and answer them honestly. She will not leave you if you are open and have a actual conversation with her on the issues, thats what a marriage is about. If you hide shit from her, she will always wonder what else you are hiding from her.
Not trying to make you feel bad, but you are going to feel a whole lot worse not trying to work it out with her, versus hiding it, upsetting her, and having her walk out on you. If she is willing to walk out on you just for broaching the subject, that is not a healthy relationship.
Good or bad, my girlfriend and I can talk about anything.
Good or bad, my girlfriend and I can talk about anything.
