Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing
But with that said, something else I've noticed too. On one of the threads dedicated to a certain, very popular model, this guy was really going over the line, claiming that he knew her real name, knew how much plastic surgery she'd had, etc. He was a real dick - but he was the only one. Everyone else in that thread defended her, and either ignored him or beat on him. Instead of focusing on the other 99.9% who were there for her, she chose to focus on the dick (until he was finally banned). And I've noticed that she doesn't post as much as she used to. Maybe it's human nature to be more bothered by the person giving you a hard time than everyone else who is trying to support you. But I was about as annoyed by her reaction as I was by his childish behavior. Ya gotta know who your "friends" are, yeah? :dunno:
The squeaky wheel always gets the grease. That's just the way it is.
99.9% of the time, the guys who claim to know the model, doesn't.
Since they are models, they get told how gorgeous and how ugly they are on a daily basis. How about some real conversations and then maybe they might stick around? Just a thought.
Plus, my final thought on this subject - forgive my use of the word retarded here - but some people are just socially retarded when it comes to interacting with human beings. They are unaware of feelings, beliefs, etc. that make up another human being because of being sheltered or just plain ignorant. On an adult forum, these type of people feel like they can freely be themselves without any repercussion because we're talking about the dirty world of "porn" all the time. However, the ladies you see taking a 16 inch cock in her ass and mouth is still human. Sex just happens to be her profession, and God love her for it. That doesn't make her anymore or any less a person than Mr. Troll who says her fake tits look awful and that her face looks like she got run over by a semi. However, Mr. Troll doesn't have the tact or the sensibility that what he says hurts somebody. He thinks because she's an "object of lust" his words will have direct power over her. It's a psychological power play because Mr. Troll has both acceptance and Daddy issues that he can't deal with so he takes his hurt out on others. It's a vicious cyle. Mr. Troll only deserves to be beaten with reeds and placed in a burlap bag until he can figure out what it's like to be human, according to Dr. Spock. On the other hand, Ms. OCSM can also have these same issues or maybe even overstep the bounds of legal sexualized society and should also be beaten with reeds to a bloody pulp until she can remember or recognize that even sex has laws that must be abided by. She may also experience the previous "word vomit" and "shit conversation" mental blips that Mr. Troll also commits. Again, same rules apply.
In the end, people's feelings will get hurt, people will get mad, and some will leave. Thus is the way of the social Internet board. It is great that their is a defensive mechanism in place now for both sides of the coin. Some folks will come and some will go. It's nice for those that stay because when you sift out all the bullshit, this place really is a funny, interesting, and interactive place with no other rival on the Net. In the words of Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along?"
