when i watch porn i focus on the chick...her face, her tits bouncing, etc. whether or not the dude is wearing a condom makes no difference to me. as long as the dude gets to cum on her face without a condom on
I don't know if that's a good analogy. Wearing a hardhat doesn't really affect the end product of what they make at all. A better one would be like saying that stuntmen on the set of a movie shouldn't do anything potentially dangerous, which pretty much every thing they do is, because even though the movie might not be visually appealing then it's not worth them getting hurt just to please movie goers.
I dunno. Maybe I'm biased because I'm female and don't rely on porn to get off. Maybe because I'm somewhat on the "other side" of the fence so to speak being a camgirl. And not that this is particularly relevant, because I don't have to worry about STDs with him, but anytime I'm performing on cam with my husband, I make sure he wears a rubber because we don't want to get pregnant. It might be more visually appealing to the viewer if he goes bareback (and hell, it would feel alot better for us too lol) but I know, that if I got pregnant, my camming would end. And there'd be no Ashleigh for my fans anymore. So....you gotta make sacrifices for the betterment and well being of EVERYONE.
The condoms don't bother me that much personally, and I totally support you or anybody else wanting to use them. I think the difference is people out there demanding that others have to do it whether they want to or not. I just feel it isn't mine, the government's, or anybody else's job to protect other people from themselves.
I don't mind individuals choosing it or even independent bodies like a film studio (or in your example the hockey league) wanting all their performers to use a form of protection. What I don't want, however, is the government coming in and saying that everybody must do it or else.
I'm not here to argue btw. I just really believe that anything done in an attempt to preserve the health of another person is a good thing and not bad. Even if it looks unattractive to the viewer....its only done for the betterment of everyone out there.
In North America, just how many liberties and freedoms have been choked to death in the name of safety and security? Are the people zombies or sheep that need a hurdle on every path of their life so that they can be pushed towards directions which the good shepherds deem the best?
It seems like religious fanaticism is being replace by legal zeal, where like a theological society every single thing in a human's life must be dictated by someone else.
And we thought we were living in a free society.