Age difference. What's right and wrong?

McRocket

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pitino said:
there is a mathematical equation for the ideal age:
women's age = [(men's age)/2] + 7 :D
I am 42 . So my ideal age should be...107?!? That system is fucked.


Lol...28. As bad as it may sound, that is exactly the age I am looking for - for various reasons. 28-32; maybe 35 is what I had in mind. Cool. :)
 
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McRocket

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I could be wrong. But in Canada, I believe it's legal to have sex with a 14 years old if her/his parents consent to it. Of course, what parent would consent to it.

Yeah 24 to 15 is just too much. 9 years is no big deal if you are my age (42). But at 24? That means when he finished high school ( if he graduated) 6 years earlier - she was 9? Yikes!
 

pitino

are you talking to me?
i'm telling you, this equation is working!!! ;)
 
We weren't talking about porn or actors. We were talking about real life, not fantasy. And YES, aside from legal aspects, there ARE moral and ethical problems with adults having sex with minors, 9inch. I hope I misunderstood your post, because otherwise, it's repulsive.

9inch said:
having sex with a minor isn't a real problem if she/he wants it & like it.
sex with underage is a problem only from the law point of view, it's not a real problem for the actors.
 
i think its blaintently not right for reasons stated, but its always going to be there and will be a problem to argue over for many years to come. The law is the law and an opinion is an opinion, but which one is for the health and safety of the person at issue. that is in a sexually active relationship.......
 
Nightfly said:
We weren't talking about porn or actors. We were talking about real life, not fantasy. And YES, aside from legal aspects, there ARE moral and ethical problems with adults having sex with minors, 9inch. I hope I misunderstood your post, because otherwise, it's repulsive.
don't take it bad, for sure I was not speaking about actor of porn movies but about actors of a real relationship ;)
for exemple a love between a girl 18yo and a guy 16yo isn't a problem...
 
I guess I DID understand you correctly, 9inch, and you think tha sex between adults and minors is o.k. Damn, man... :eek: :throwup:

What is the age of consent in France?!?! georges will know I bet.


9inch said:
don't take it bad, for sure I was not speaking about actor of porn movies but about actors of a real relationship ;)
for exemple a love between a girl 18yo and a guy 16yo isn't a problem...
 
I've had relationship with an older guy(17me 36 him). He was nice, but too seroius. I've had sex with a much older man and he was kinda boring(19 me 44 him). Age doesn't matter to me but if you want to be with a younger/older person, you should make sure that you two are compatible.
 
I agree, I've had sex with elder women couple of times and one time it was boring, another time it was superhottt.
I also had sex with a much younger woman, and that was hot as hell.
so it al depends on the two persons involved.
 
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bigbadbrody

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I was thinking of asking this question myself, bu then I did a search and found this thread.

so, I am going to bring back a retro thread

I am 22 years old, I am wondering what age would be considered to be to young to date?? Isn't there some calculation to figure it out?

what do you all think?
 
this is a dumb question. there is no ethics to it. sorry to tell you guys but someone doesn't go to bed on monday and wake up enlightened on tuesday when the clocks stikres midnight and they turn 18. I understand the logic but you're making a unreasonable connection between two leaps and it's not instictive or inuitive, it's nothing but morality- which is just a way of presenting an ethical argument that can't be justified as making any sense so it has to rely on a convention. "100 people that don't know what they are talking about all agree on the subject, so if you disagree then you are wrong."

If two people are capable of dealing with the issues that they have in thier own life AND thier partners, than they are suitable to be in a relationship.

Generally people reach puberty around the age of 12. In most societies it's recognized that people are going to start having kids at this time, so by that age they are taught everything that they need to know to be adults and have thier own lives. In our society we really never teach anyone this ever because it's not a priority, and then we simply notify them that they are "allowed" to do so at an arbitray time (age 18.)

now i'm not saying that a 40 year olf should be having sex with a 13 year old. I'm not going to get into the instances about why and why not people in generally should or shouldn't have sex. but if anyone should be having sex with a 13 year old it's another 13 year old.
 
I think if two people are mature enough to handle the relationship then it should not matter what the age difference is. In the states the law has decided what age is the legal age of consent. I think 15 or 16 is a reasonable age, however at the same time there are a lot of girls that age that are immature as hell. I know that I am probably going to be crusified for this statement. If one thinks about it women were having families 100 years ago at the age of 15 and 16. I think maturity is how much responsibility society and parents put on a child at a random age. These days we prepare our children to be adults by 18, and in years gone by they did so earlier because they simply didn't live as long as we do now. Plus a wife needed to start having children ASAP in order to help around the farm and or house. As for todays standards I don't think most girls can handle a sexual relationship much before seventeen or eighteen.
 
Society and the young girls dealt with it over a 100yrs ago - they can deal with it now. Today our perception is that they are too young. There is nothing as beautiful as a young nubile! A feast for the eye's and flesh. What about having multiple wifes/girlfriends or a harem ?:love-smi: :banger: :nannerf1: :nannerf2: :blowjob:
 

bigbadbrody

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anything under the legal limit is good enough to stay away from.:glugglug:

what is the legal limit? is it 16, 17 or 18?

In canada and the USA
 

xxaru

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this is a dumb question. there is no ethics to it. sorry to tell you guys but someone doesn't go to bed on monday and wake up enlightened on tuesday when the clocks stikres midnight and they turn 18. I understand the logic but you're making a unreasonable connection between two leaps and it's not instictive or inuitive, it's nothing but morality- which is just a way of presenting an ethical argument that can't be justified as making any sense so it has to rely on a convention. "100 people that don't know what they are talking about all agree on the subject, so if you disagree then you are wrong."

If two people are capable of dealing with the issues that they have in thier own life AND thier partners, than they are suitable to be in a relationship.

Generally people reach puberty around the age of 12. In most societies it's recognized that people are going to start having kids at this time, so by that age they are taught everything that they need to know to be adults and have thier own lives. In our society we really never teach anyone this ever because it's not a priority, and then we simply notify them that they are "allowed" to do so at an arbitray time (age 18.)

now i'm not saying that a 40 year olf should be having sex with a 13 year old. I'm not going to get into the instances about why and why not people in generally should or shouldn't have sex. but if anyone should be having sex with a 13 year old it's another 13 year old.
Agreed!

However, I still cringe when I see 60yr old guys with 20yr old girls. But it's their choice, so who am I to judge:dunno: .
 
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