I don't even like dating women who have mothers!
Would you date a women who has a kid?
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Yea, them Sicilian Mum In Laws' can really be something !
One thing's for certain . . It's all good . . . grazin that is .. ... .... i.e. - Chow / Food
And for the uninitiated - The discussion (at the dinner table) would be construed as an all out family brawl, if heard from next door.
E gads ! - It's just a family discussion ! No fight at this table !!
Well if you are ove the age of 30, it is a common to meet a women with children. It is not my first choice, but sure! If she is a great girl, why not?
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I agree, but add that I doubt that I would get far enough into the relationship to be at a point to even consider staying.
I've got to carry my own baggage, and getting serious with someone involves carrying (and sharing) their baggage too - I don't want anything more that wouldn't be my own.
Yea, them Sicilian Mum In Laws' can really be something !
One thing's for certain . . It's all good . . . grazin that is .. ... .... i.e. - Chow / Food
And for the uninitiated - The discussion (at the dinner table) would be construed as an all out family brawl, if heard from next door.
E gads ! - It's just a family discussion ! No fight at this table !!
Oh yeah, I hear ya. I gotta deal with a Mexican momma. Not being hungry is not an option. And when you say no more, "Whaaaa? You don't like my cooking!?!?"
But I digress.
Iamforever
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If you really genuinely like kids, this situation is going to me much easier on you. I've tried it and didn't like it. If she's a good mother, her time with you "having fun" is going to be limited as she's got far more responsibilities than a woman without kids. Also, another thing you have to get used to is that no matter how much she likes you, you will never be anywhere near as important as her child(ren).
Another aspect is that alot of people can't ever give as much love or attention to something that is not their own. Some people are capable of giving that to a woman's child after they become serious with the woman, and I think some are not. I think I fall into the second category, so be it.
Another aspect is that alot of people can't ever give as much love or attention to something that is not their own. Some people are capable of giving that to a woman's child after they become serious with the woman, and I think some are not. I think I fall into the second category, so be it.
Sure, if she is hot!
Iamforever
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even if the child is your own, you still wont be anywhere near as important as the kid is.
I doubt that I would. There are just too many complications. When there are kids involved they have to be the number one priority, and I don't think I would want to have that responsibility right from the start and everything that entails. You and the other person wouldn’t be able to share a part of your relationship that is without children like some people do before they start a family. There is also the fact that they have their own father. No matter how you look at it there is always going to be issues with that, everything from the fact that some people won't feel easy disciplining somebody else’s kinds when they need to, the fact that there will always have to be somebody else in their life that you will have to deal with even if he is a nice guy, to the fact that the children will now have to deal with two people and figure out how do deal with the situation. Some people also want to have their own children to raise from birth.
Did you ever think for even a moment that maybe, just maybe, the woman left him?
Biscuit. My mommy left my father because he was an asshat, amongst other reasons.
Date? yes. Marry? No.
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