BioDefenseGrad
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I wonder what societies reaction would be if a gay couple raised their son with reversed gender norms.
When did you decide to be heterosexual?
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I wonder what societies reaction would be if a gay couple raised their son with reversed gender norms.
habo9
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You mean to ask me, when did I decided I was a predominantly heterosexual woman trapped in a male body???
Well, it came really natural to me....always was a feminine but didn't feel different from others, however, other kids in school made sure, in not so nice ways, that I knew I was not as masculine as them.
I began to think about men sexually about at 8 years old.....but repressed it greatly, because I felt my mom would kill me. Continued playing with my feminine side, trying to hide it, sometimes successfully, from others. Then when puberty hit, I HATED IT, did not wanted to grow into a man. My gender identification was totally female. That's when I realized I was transsexual... and thank God medicine has being able to help me align my body with my gender (otherwise I probably would not be here).
I have had crushes on maybe two biological girls, but that's rare. My attraction is mostly to men. When it comes to sex, I prefer penises to vaginas, and must be treated as the female as well. :2 cents:
I think your just gay , but you think 2 men is wrong in your heart!
I know a few feminine gay guys & they dont want to be a woman & they are quite happy to act the fairy!!
& most of the gay straight acting ones hate the fairys , they say its them that give gay guys a bad name lol
A persons sexuality is decided before they are born. There are no outside influences or 'becoming gay', or something that happened that 'turned a person gay'.
BioDefenseGrad
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Sometimes I wonder if that's the case for all gay people.
One of the most common genetic disease that causes females to have high level of androgen/male hormones is 21-hydroxylase deficiency.
It is very rare and appears in 1 in 15,000. Even in the entire New York City, you can only have 750 lesbians ! So gay and lesbians are learned "deviant" devil behaviour !
(How common is 21-hydroxylase deficiency?
The classic form of 21-hydroxylase deficiency appears in 1 in 15,000 newborns. The prevalence of the nonclassic form of 21-hydroxylase deficiency is estimated to be 1 in 100 individuals. The prevalence of both classic and nonclassic forms may vary among different ethnic populations.)
Ace Bandage
The one and only.
When Tiffany Keifer kissed me in second grade. First, she knocked me off the monkey bars (damn gymnast), then she kissed me after I fell. I was in love with her from that day on.
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
That's not even close to being true at all.
A friend I went to high school with wasn't gay until she was 14 years old. See, when she was 14 years old, she was raped by her boyfriend. Not once, not twice, but multiple, multiple times. Shortly thereafter, she turned to other girls for comfort and support. She became very good friends with quite a few girls who had been in a situation just like hers and took a lot of comfort knowing that they "understood" who she was and what she was feeling. Those feelings of friendship soon developed into something more than friendship and, ever since then, that girl has been gay.
She hasn't dated a guy ever since and has no attraction to men what-so-ever anymore. Is she friends with men? Yes, she's friends with me. Is she attracted to men anymore? Nope, not by a long shot.
when I was a kid @ 1:20
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4T07YPPK54
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4T07YPPK54
BioDefenseGrad
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Homosexuals also report a higher than average rate of being victims of sexual abuse as a minor. But in there case that wouldn't being normalized against the opposite sex. It could be that men and women react to traumatic experiences differently. But even trauma doesn't prove causation. In the case of homosexuals, they may be targeted for rape or molestation as effeminate boys may appear to be vulnerable, "easy marks" to predators.
I agree about that for some, it may be a matter of experiences, but I'm not sure if that's the case for most.
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
I'm fairly sure that, in this case, my friend was directly effected by her unfortunate circumstance. I also know other girls who are exactly like her, in the sense that they converted to relationships with women directly after a traumatic experience (usually sexual) with a male.
Plus, if people were truly "born" a certain way, then absolutely nothing in life would effect the way we turn out. But, that's obviously not the way it is.
Look at the effect of child abuse (physical, emotional and sexual) and how it directly effects that child's morals, values, confidence, self-esteem, attitude, mental status, motivation, desire, fears, comforts - even their future sex life. All of those are a result of a circumstance, not biology.
There are obviously a lot of other factors that can influence how a person turns out, in every facet of their personality, but I feel as if child abuse is a pretty straight forward, undeniable example.
I have always been straight. When I was two, I remember seeing women on TV, and getting a boner.
Alyssa Rose
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I don't know that I ever 'decided' it.... I was in kindergarten and had the HUGEST crush on my MALE swim teacher. Man was he cute 
I've just always like guys, always been straight, but had a few encounters with females, mostly when alcohol was involved
I've just always like guys, always been straight, but had a few encounters with females, mostly when alcohol was involved Well I always liked the chicks. I recall my first football game...I was more interested in the cheerleaders. Walked away from the game with the Cheerleader calendar.
However a wise man once told me that women are an enigma. The great ones are married, good ones are taken, and the rest... well its like Mad Maxx at the thunder dome.
However a wise man once told me that women are an enigma. The great ones are married, good ones are taken, and the rest... well its like Mad Maxx at the thunder dome.
BioDefenseGrad
Banned
A lot of strippers end up like this.
BRAVO!!
OMG! The "when did you decide to be heterosexual" has to be the most retarded question I've ever read. Like, seriously people?! You're born gay or straight. It's not a conscious decision. You either like the opposite sex or like your sex.
I can't believe there are people out there who still believe in such nonsense that being gay, straight or bi is a "choice"!!
OMG! The "when did you decide to be heterosexual" has to be the most retarded question I've ever read. Like, seriously people?! You're born gay or straight. It's not a conscious decision. You either like the opposite sex or like your sex.
I can't believe there are people out there who still believe in such nonsense that being gay, straight or bi is a "choice"!!
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
It's just as nonsensical as the argument that people are "born" a certain way.
:dunno:
busenbust
^^^^
When I set my eyes on Tiffany Towers
there was no thought...for me,male a female is just natural..hell thats the only way to have kids.......never been much for play'n pirate's
Anyone that's studied in the field of neurosciences can prove scientifically that the neurological structure of certain parts of the brain determines one's sexual preference. So, yes, when one is "born" they have a brain that will go "gay" or "straight" or "bi".
Fact is being gay or straight is not some "eureka moment" one has at later during their life and suddenly make a conscious "choice" to be gay or straight. Alas, I am flogging a dead horse on this forum because explaining the neuroscience behind this would require lenghty explanations and most likely those without the intellect to understand such scientific fact would more than likely come out with some asinine, pseudo-scientifical and subjective weak argument due to their ignorance.
If more people went to university to study in the field of neurology and medicine, these types of ignorant questions wouldn't show up as often in forums. Sadly, there are far more illiterate people on the planet than educated ones.
Fact is being gay or straight is not some "eureka moment" one has at later during their life and suddenly make a conscious "choice" to be gay or straight. Alas, I am flogging a dead horse on this forum because explaining the neuroscience behind this would require lenghty explanations and most likely those without the intellect to understand such scientific fact would more than likely come out with some asinine, pseudo-scientifical and subjective weak argument due to their ignorance.
If more people went to university to study in the field of neurology and medicine, these types of ignorant questions wouldn't show up as often in forums. Sadly, there are far more illiterate people on the planet than educated ones.
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