Obviously the continual desire by the masses for weak-willed women is still just to submit to this misogynistic power trip ideal where all men are beef cakes and all women are fertile little fawning trollops ;P It's why even in cartoons that have beefy masculine guys, even psychologists will tell you it's because it fits into the fantasized power fantasy of men.
Most movies/ media still try to fit the concept of man overcomes struggle, man works hard and earns the prize of bedding a virtuous lady turned slut for him only.
To the other bit you're mentioning, that's why I eventually just started calling a spade a spade and have 0 problem with people saying I do porn.
When I first turned 18 and started nude modeling, I was very much like "it's not porn!! It's art, it's art!!".
Now I see that the two don't have to be mutually exclusive, and that the word "porn" shouldn't hold a negative connotation. Obviously my limits also expanded as a result of that realization, because I stopped really giving a shit and try to emphasize doing whatever feels right to me at the time.