Summoning Harley Spencer (bamf!)

[Ravenholm]

Attacking someone for what they do in their personal life when you don't know them is so ridiculous! It's like people getting all bent outta shape about Tiger Woods cheating on his wife. How the fuck does it affect you? At all? Same with Harley Spencer. She is cool enough to hang and chat and gets this...ridiculous. I don't like cheating, but it's her life, not yours, mine or ours.

Failing to grasp the concept of a message board I see. If it's being discussed on a forum it's there for everyone registered to comment on if they feel the need to. Regardless of it being personal or not. If it's personal and it's brought up then there is no ground to stand on in responding with "it's not your life so don't comment" type of comebacks.

Lesson learned then - don't post private life issues on public message boards. If you do, you reap what you sow as a result. The responses might be good they might be bad. Take the gamble or don't. But it's pointless bitching about it once it's done. We all know better when it comes to handling message boards. Well most of us do.

 

[Rey C.]

Failing to grasp the concept of a message board I see. If it's being discussed on a forum it's there for everyone registered to comment on if they feel the need to. Regardless of it being personal or not. If it's personal and it's brought up then there is no ground to stand on in responding with "it's not your life so don't comment" type of comebacks.

Lesson learned then - don't post private life issues on public message boards. If you do, you reap what you sow as a result. The responses might be good they might be bad. Take the gamble or don't. But it's pointless bitching about it once it's done. We all know better when it comes to handling message boards. Well most of us do.

I kind of agree with you there. But wouldn't you also admit that it's more about the nature of this particular message board? I've been on a couple of racing and professional boards for well over a decade. People on those boards actually get to know each other as (real) people, not just cutesy names and avatars. Many use their real names. They'll share all sorts of things: births, deaths, retirements, divorces... a couple of members have even dated and married each other. So unlike here, we tend to treat each other as we would treat people in real life. This place is more of a wild west, where people can vent or act any way they feel, say anything that comes to mind, and the anonymity shields them from any sense of civility or decorum.

It's not nearly as bad as say XXX Porn Talk. But no, it's not the sort of place where I'd use my real name or share any sort of personal details that I wasn't prepared to get into an argument about. It would be nice to have at least some more mature, sensible conversations here - in addition to the horse play. But most of those members have departed or don't post as much anymore. Now it's about 90% jackassity and "who got prettyest asshole in da wurld?" And other than the Miss FreeOnes thing, there are almost no OCSM's who still post in Talk, compared to when I first got here. Not just referring to the Harley Spencer thing, but look around... especially with the complete lack of moderation now, why the hell would they???

It is what it is. So I guess we either deal with it or go some place else. :dunno:

 

[eric2136]

I kind of agree with you there. But wouldn't you also admit that it's more about the nature of this particular message board? I've been on a couple of racing and professional boards for well over a decade. People on those boards actually get to know each other as (real) people, not just cutesy names and avatars. Many use their real names. They'll share all sorts of things: births, deaths, retirements, divorces... a couple of members have even dated and married each other. So unlike here, we tend to treat each other as we would treat people in real life. This place is more of a wild west, where people can vent or act any way they feel, say anything that comes to mind, and the anonymity shields them from any sense of civility or decorum.

It's not nearly as bad as say XXX Porn Talk. But no, it's not the sort of place where I'd use my real name or share any sort of personal details that I wasn't prepared to get into an argument about. It would be nice to have at least some more mature, sensible conversations here - in addition to the horse play. But most of those members have departed or don't post as much anymore. Now it's about 90% jackassity and "who got prettyest asshole in da wurld?" And other than the Miss FreeOnes thing, there are almost no OCSM's who still post in Talk, compared to when I first got here. Not just referring to the Harley Spencer thing, but look around... especially with the complete lack of moderation now, why the hell would they???

It is what it is. So I guess we either deal with it or go some place else. :dunno:

I Agree 100%...

We're all supposed to be grown men on this messageboard...younger men and older men...but all men. You shouldn't have to tell a grown man how to talk to OCSM models...you can disagree with them, which I have done many times (Some OCSM's are not that well behaved either)...but to call them "pieces of shit" or "bitchs", "whores", "sluts", just because you disagree with them is outrageous and unacceptable, and nobody should have to tell a grown man that.

If a model opens up and tells you something relatively personal, if anything, you should be much more sensitive of how you re-act and what you say in response...You're going WAAAYYY overboard with the name calling and insults just because you disagree with her...Especially if she didn't initiate that level of discourse, and that's not the general tone of the conversation...if you disagree all you have to do is say "I think cheating is wrong", but all the personal attacks is TOTALLY out of line. So then don't get mad when you try to talk to models. and all they will discuss with you is joining their website.

I agree with VV, People want to argue against excessive rules and regulations on this board, and in our society, but what do people do with their freedom...fuck it up the first chance they get. So then if the board becomes overly moderated because of incidents like this, then everyone is up in arms...So instead why not man up and do the right thing while you still have the chance.

 

[STDiva]

An affair eh? You're sweet. Why not just break up with him like an adult instead of being a bitch?

Um, how bout you go fuck yourself?



Listen, don't think that I'm not telling myself that same exact thing all the time. I know it's shitty of me to do, and I actually cried the first time it happened. I never wanted this to happen. But what needs to be considered here is the reason WHY I'm cheating, not just the simple fact that I'm cheating. You, and anyone else, can tell me I'm selfish, disgusting, dirty, nasty, or whatever choice word you may have, and it's nothing I haven't thought of myself. So save it. You don't know me, you don't know my boyfriend, you don't know the other guy that I'm seeing, and you know nothing about the situation.

Waaah. Poor me. I cried after I betrayed my man!! lololol You're right. We don't know you. But we know you cheat on your boyfriend and that's fucking shitty. Dump him. Break his heart. He'll get over it. Don't drag him through your selfish bullshit so he ends up going James Holmes on your ass. What the fuck is wrong with people?

Dick, been cheated on before, I know what it's like, so don't give me that stupid bullshit about how I'm acting like the victim. I'm not having this discussion with you. Clearly you can not comprehend human emotions. I'll tell you once more, go fucking fuck yourself.

You know what it's like, so you're doing it to someone else. You get more awesome with each post!

I can comprehend human emotions. That's why you should be straight with your boyfriend. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills.

I remember being 21 and not giving a shit about anybody else. I hope your new guy breaks your heart. You got it comin.

I don't kiss and makeup with assholes.

I don't.makeup with selfish cheating cunts.

Lol. Sooo who was name calling again? How unreasonable was I? Where's all the people saying Harley was out of line? Besides saying she was acting like a bitch for cheating, I was only guilty of sarcasm until the final post, which by that point Harley insulted me in every post in that convo. Keep pretending we should treat ocsms differently though. Because they deserve it, right?

 

[Rey C.]

Lol. Sooo who was name calling again? How unreasonable was I? Where's all the people saying Harley was out of line? Besides saying she was acting like a bitch for cheating, I was only guilty of sarcasm until the final post, which by that point Harley insulted me in every post in that convo. Keep pretending we should treat ocsms differently though. Because they deserve it, right?

I'd say when she got to the last line in your first post, that pretty much set the wheels in motion.

An affair eh? You're sweet. Why not just break up with him like an adult instead of being a bitch?

But that's just a guess on my part :dunno: I'd assume that if I said that to even a girl who I was on good terms with, she'd pop a cork. In my experience, most women tend not to react all that well when you call them a bitch.

It's not so much about her being an OCSM, although my understanding is that they are and have been treated differently per the rules (so as the encourage more girls to enter this gigantic, juvenile sausage fest)... but the rules are no longer enforced around here anyway, so I guess most anything goes now. It's not just about you or your posts to Harley either. It's more about what a couple of us said above. This board is different than many others. This board attracts a different sort of poster, I guess. And no, people here generally don't demonstrate the same decorum or civility that other boards require. You can even tell Sara Jay that she has a man face or a horse face, whatever the guy said. Hell, I reported that post over a week ago and it's still there and he's still here. It's a joke anymore. That's why Briana and Spexy are about the only girls who will post in Talk with any regularity now - and the clock is probably ticking for one or both of them.

I have nothing against you, Harley or anybody else (except for a couple of people) on this board. And as a matter of fact, I don't agree with cheating either. But I also didn't agree with how you presented your views. So, see... we don't agree. But I felt no need to go off the deep end or call you names. But as I said above, I accept this board for what it is now. I have pretty low expectations these days and as often as not, they are met.


Peace...

 

[Rhyno17]

I kind of agree with you there. But wouldn't you also admit that it's more about the nature of this particular message board? I've been on a couple of racing and professional boards for well over a decade. People on those boards actually get to know each other as (real) people, not just cutesy names and avatars. Many use their real names. They'll share all sorts of things: births, deaths, retirements, divorces... a couple of members have even dated and married each other. So unlike here, we tend to treat each other as we would treat people in real life. This place is more of a wild west, where people can vent or act any way they feel, say anything that comes to mind, and the anonymity shields them from any sense of civility or decorum.

It's not nearly as bad as say XXX Porn Talk. But no, it's not the sort of place where I'd use my real name or share any sort of personal details that I wasn't prepared to get into an argument about. It would be nice to have at least some more mature, sensible conversations here - in addition to the horse play. But most of those members have departed or don't post as much anymore. Now it's about 90% jackassity and "who got prettyest asshole in da wurld?" And other than the Miss FreeOnes thing, there are almost no OCSM's who still post in Talk, compared to when I first got here. Not just referring to the Harley Spencer thing, but look around... especially with the complete lack of moderation now, why the hell would they???

It is what it is. So I guess we either deal with it or go some place else. :dunno:

Exactly. A huge percentage of people here (most likely kids or fat old people who don't leave the house) feel the need to make themselves seem big on the internet. No one gets banned for anything anymore so people say what they want. It's going downhill, which is why, like you said, people aren't posting here as much.

Failing to grasp the concept of a message board I see. If it's being discussed on a forum it's there for everyone registered to comment on if they feel the need to. Regardless of it being personal or not. If it's personal and it's brought up then there is no ground to stand on in responding with "it's not your life so don't comment" type of comebacks.

Lesson learned then - don't post private life issues on public message boards. If you do, you reap what you sow as a result. The responses might be good they might be bad. Take the gamble or don't. But it's pointless bitching about it once it's done. We all know better when it comes to handling message boards. Well most of us do.

Ignoring your condescending tone, no I don't fail to grasp what a message board is about. However I think you did. I stated an opinion and presented a question. Instead of answering my question (How does someone cheating affect you) you decided to try and be all smart (which didn't work). You can go through my history and see I've never been in an argument here (aside for requesting Hondarobot be banned, which I think we alllll agree with). But let me ask you. Because it's a message forum, should there be no civility? No consequences for your actions (such as a ban). In real life (yes I know it isn't) there would be a punch to the face or thrown out of wherever or whatever, you get my point. So why should people be able to say what they want here. Saying "it's a message board" is something a youngster would say (not saying you are one, but we know there are lots here). I wish Freeones would use Googles idea and force us into posting with our Google+ or FB accounts. Then we'd see who would say what.


Oh and by the way, I never said "it's not your life so don't comment"...but good try in making it seem like I did. I was simply adding onto my "how the fuck does it affect you? question. Don't change my words around please Everyone else can read it and see what I said.

 

[Rhyno17]

Amen.

Thanks

 

[STDiva]

I'd post all the same shit if this was my Facebook account. I'm probably one of only a handful of regular members who has put myself out there. A few guys have (or had, I doubt they kept it) my cell phone number. I play video games with a few peopleI've posted my place of work. You could show up any day and meet me. I've met a member who no longer posts here and plan on meeting a few others. People refer to me using my real name here. Trust me when I say what you see is the real me. Nothing about what I said was uncivil. Aggressive? Angry? Sure. Nothing I wouldn't say to m y friends or family. Act like a douche and I'll treat you like one. That's civility.

 

[eric2136]

Lol. Sooo who was name calling again? How unreasonable was I? Where's all the people saying Harley was out of line? Besides saying she was acting like a bitch for cheating, I was only guilty of sarcasm until the final post, which by that point Harley insulted me in every post in that convo. Keep pretending we should treat ocsms differently though. Because they deserve it, right?

Men and woman are not the same. Especially an anonymous male poster is not the same as an OCSM model showing her face and her nude body for your pleasure...she is completely exposed and vulnerable.

Woman in general tend to be more emotional, they could say anything if you get them pissed off enough...if you call them a bitch...you can pretty much expect the conversation to rapidly go downhill from that point...But no matter what she says, which could be anything if you get her mad enough, you should NEVER go to the level of exchanging profanities...going to that level inevitably just makes things worse, as you can see...As a man you should be above that and take the high road....respectfully disagree and if that doesn't work then just walk away.

You have a hot naked woman openning up and telling you something personal, the LAST thing you want to do is to be judgemental and attack her personally, especially with profanities. It may be within your membership rights to do, but as a man, and on a purely human level, it is TOTALLY not cool.

 

[STDiva]

See. You're putting emphasis on who is saying it, and not what she's saying. She's hot and naked? Good for her. That's not a free pass to be a scumbag. Thanks for proving my point, Eric. I'll gladly leave this forum when it becomes a place where you can't call a spade a spade, but until then, I'll be honest and direct with every single member on this board. Pink name or not.

Also, we disagree on the definition of a man. You, as a man can be the bigger person and walk away. I, as a man , won't kiss ass to every ocsm who fake flirts and shows her tits. Were different men.

Anyway, if people want to disagree with how this shit was handled, whatever. It's all good in the hood. Any disagreements in this thread will stay in this thread as far as I'm concerned. If Harley didn't coward out, she could have stayed and enjoyed the board like she was pre this thread. But oh well.

I'm sick of repeating myself, so I'm probably checking out of this bs after this. Yall can keep arguing though.

 

[alexpnz]

just say: "whoops, I did it again."

"I played with your heart, got lost in the game
Oh baby, baby
Oops!...You think I'm in love
That I'm sent from above
I'm not that innocent."
:sing:

Yes, that was the only thing I bothered to read in that 20 minute pile of manure that you pontificated.

 

[GodsEmbryo]

Act like a douche and I'll treat you like one. That's civility.

And that's what she did after you called her a bitch.

But you are correct about that everything is said in this thread. Everyone has said his view and nothing new to add. Let this thread die in peace. Sort of

 

[Briana Lee]

Let us not start on Briana now, banishing one OCSM per thread is enough. Subsequent attacks on Briana are likely to cause the pendulum of mod activity (which was once overzealous) to swing back from comatose to overzealous, resulting in bans, heavy-handedness and the further death of culture of comedy, personality and freedom of speach on this board.

/white knight

Awww I love you too...

Not accusing you of anything,,,You and I are cool as far as I'm concerned....however, you do seem somewhat less than symphathetic or concerned that Harley may be gone for good...Normally when an OSCM gets insulted or cursed at around here, 3 or 4 other OSCM's jump up out of the woodwork to protect her and have her back....no matter what...So I do find it somewhat odd that only one of you has commented regarding this issue, offering no real support for Harley, but only showing up to make light of the situation.

I don't know, maybe Harley mentioned to me that some OSCM's didn't like her....I don't know I can't remember...maybe one of those people was you ...I certainly hope not.

I guess she's talking about the Miss Freeones incident when she jumped to the wrong conclusion over something I said. I apologised for any confusion....she chose to ignore that apology. Oh well that's water under the bridge as far as I'm concerned. I like her and admire her, pure and simple, and I've never said anything to make her think differently. She just has the tendency to let things get to her and go off on people, which many of you will agree, is not a good way to approach posting on this board.
I'm sad she's gone cause I know she's got huge potential and could be a huge star in the business. It's her choice though. I hope that she does come back, I really do.

But please don't take me not jumping in and defending her as a sign that I don't like her. I agreed with both sides on certain issues and it seemed to me that she was holding her end up pretty well.

What do you mean by "attack?" You mean "attack" attack? Or "attack" attack? Like really attack? Or reeeeeaaaaaallly attack?

Nah I mean AAAAATTTTTTAAAACCCCKKKK!!!!

Lol. Sooo who was name calling again? How unreasonable was I? Where's all the people saying Harley was out of line? Besides saying she was acting like a bitch for cheating, I was only guilty of sarcasm until the final post, which by that point Harley insulted me in every post in that convo. Keep pretending we should treat ocsms differently though. Because they deserve it, right?

We don't deserve anything....we are only people just like the rest of you. The only difference is we get naked to put food on our plates. I don't expect anyone to treat me differently or pull their punches just cause my name in in pink!

 

[TrueBeliever666]

I kind of agree with you there. But wouldn't you also admit that it's more about the nature of this particular message board? I've been on a couple of racing and professional boards for well over a decade. People on those boards actually get to know each other as (real) people, not just cutesy names and avatars. Many use their real names. They'll share all sorts of things: births, deaths, retirements, divorces... a couple of members have even dated and married each other. So unlike here, we tend to treat each other as we would treat people in real life. This place is more of a wild west, where people can vent or act any way they feel, say anything that comes to mind, and the anonymity shields them from any sense of civility or decorum.

It's not nearly as bad as say XXX Porn Talk. But no, it's not the sort of place where I'd use my real name or share any sort of personal details that I wasn't prepared to get into an argument about. It would be nice to have at least some more mature, sensible conversations here - in addition to the horse play. But most of those members have departed or don't post as much anymore. Now it's about 90% jackassity and "who got prettyest asshole in da wurld?" And other than the Miss FreeOnes thing, there are almost no OCSM's who still post in Talk, compared to when I first got here. Not just referring to the Harley Spencer thing, but look around... especially with the complete lack of moderation now, why the hell would they???

It is what it is. So I guess we either deal with it or go some place else. :dunno:

I completely agree with you Rey, we wonder how our lives got so shallow and so hollow. That we have to seek entertainment, or company from electronic boards with people who span the globe or at least this country. And just like people who lost everything in 2008-2009 when the economy took a dive off a cliff, they always blame someone else, rather than themselves. No, it isn't ALL our fault, but who wanted the freedom to do anything? Or who thought it was such a great idea that they elected people to execute (great word) those great ideas?
So when you look around and see all the dozens and hundreds of hot babes here, it must be because everyone is "honest," and "free," and love being abused in the name of "freedom."
Don't get me wrong, I love freedom. But why should we be moderated? Do you really think that some of us, really don't have enough sense to back down, not say something unwarranted and then excuse themselves. The reason this country has so many stupid laws isn't because the people making them are stupid, but we continue to prove every day, that without someone to babysit us, and tell us what we can, or can not, or should not do, we JUST CAN'T MANAGE to do it ourselves.
By the way, did you hear? Four guys got killed in Libya - because we have freedom of speech. And did you hear anyone apologize? Or accept blame for making the few minutes of film? Am I over-dramatizing things by making that point? Maybe, but not really. If you don't have sense enough to know how to say something, when to say it, eventually you piss someone off. If you say: "oh well," than YOUR freedom just cost someone else, theirs. The next person who mouths some excuse about how people can say whatever they want however they want - listen to them carefully. They're probably an articulate idiot.

 

[TrueBeliever666]

"I played with your heart, got lost in the game
Oh baby, baby
Oops!...You think I'm in love
That I'm sent from above
I'm not that innocent."
:sing:

Yes, that was the only thing I bothered to read in that 20 minute pile of manure that you pontificated.

Sorry to pontificate. Where did you learn that word? I didn't think people who didn't read HAD a vocabulary.

 

[TrueBeliever666]

See. You're putting emphasis on who is saying it, and not what she's saying. She's hot and naked? Good for her. That's not a free pass to be a scumbag. Thanks for proving my point, Eric. I'll gladly leave this forum when it becomes a place where you can't call a spade a spade, but until then, I'll be honest and direct with every single member on this board. Pink name or not.

Also, we disagree on the definition of a man. You, as a man can be the bigger person and walk away. I, as a man , won't kiss ass to every ocsm who fake flirts and shows her tits. Were different men.

Anyway, if people want to disagree with how this shit was handled, whatever. It's all good in the hood. Any disagreements in this thread will stay in this thread as far as I'm concerned. If Harley didn't coward out, she could have stayed and enjoyed the board like she was pre this thread. But oh well.

I'm sick of repeating myself, so I'm probably checking out of this bs after this. Yall can keep arguing though.

What is with you and your mouth/brain? You can't avoid calling people "scumbag," and "bitch," and you keep whining about how "honest" you are? Are you really honest? You remind me of that fat girl on the bus getting into calling people names and holding up her hand. "Speak to the hand, bitch!" "How you like that, bitch?" " You can't treat me like shit, you bitch-ass mutha-fucka bitch-ass pieca shit ho." "And I'm ONLY bein' honest!" "Yeah, THAT's what I'm talkin bout!"
Kiss ass? You confuse looking in a mirror with kissing ass. But if everyone walks out on you, or you walk out on you, there won't be a whole lot of asses to kiss except your own. I should stop pontificating about how much ass I'm planning to kiss. Harley should have stayed on the board so I could get into the name calling too. I never got around to calling her the stupid cowardly bitch who didn't want to put up with my calling her a stupid cowardly bitch because she left after being called a bitch cunt by you. Honestly. No really!! Honestly!!

 

[Hondarobot]

This thread, at this point, has produced 214 replies and 2629 views, in 9 days. The thread was created as a simple question directed at Harley Spencer regarding massage.

I'd just like to thank the people who boosted some nice response numbers here, and proved that Harley Spencer is one of the girls members of this forum are most interested in.

The shut-in loser guys who started stumbling around trying to act tough helped the numbers a small extent, but obviously none of the girls have any interest in talking to them, and they just hurt the forum. Had they stayed quiet, these numbers probably could have been better.

The guys with constructive input, good job, I appreciate your cause and hope you continue to post. Salute.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Oh shit, the bitch is back!

First, thank you everyone who messaged and emailed me about this, supporting me, and for all your kind words. It is sincerely appreciated.

This thread started off with Honda posing a simple question out of sheer curiosity. There is no harm in that. How anyone sees him starting this thread as being a troll is beyond me.

I pride myself in being real. I hate lying. (“You’re not honest with your boyfriend. You can lie to him but be honest with strangers on the internet?” – Don’t waste your breath, I’m way ahead of you.) So I answered his question honestly. I could have lied and said that only one man has ever gotten me off, or I could have said that the second guy was my boyfriend. But I didn’t want to lie, so I opened up and spoke the truth. Wrong idea!

Everyone was relatively pleasant until the 3rd page, aside from the sarcasm and silly remarks against Honda. Even after I mentioned being unfaithful to my boyfriend.

Maleonetwo: “Pwease tell me!!!! I hate to be so curious and not being told the secret!!!”

Dirk: “It was me.”

Pirate: “You haven’t told him that, I hope. I couldn’t live with that. I’d have to go to classes. See a zen master. Whatever. A man’s pride relies on giving an orgasm.”

Everything was pleasant until STD came around and said, “An affair eh? You’re sweet. Why not break up with him like an adult instead of being a bitch?”

My next post was for STD to go fuck himself. Did I call him a name in that post? No. Essentially, I was saying, “If you have nothing positive to contribute, even if it’s disagreeing with me in a positive manner, want to resort to negativity and name calling, kindly leave me alone.” Perhaps I should have said that, but what difference would it have made? Everyone knows that STD would still come back with another snide remark.

Then reading Kappy’s post was the icing on the cake. “I gotta agree, stop leading him on and let him go that’s a dirty thing to do.” To which I replied that I know it’s a shitty thing to do. I did not call anyone any names in either of my quoted posts there.

A quote from STD’s next post: “… we know you cheat on your boyfriend and that’s a fucking shitty thing to do. (I already said it’s a shitty thing to do, tell me something I don’t know)… Don’t drag him through your selfish bullshit.”

So far I’ve been called a bitch and selfish. So far, I haven’t called anyone a name.

In my next post, as my patience is being tried, I NOW resort to calling STD a dick and telling him once more to go fuck himself.

Some more insults (regardless if it’s “sarcasm”, you know it’s hardly sarcasm) from STD:

“You get more awesome with each post!” – Aka “You sound like more and more of a stupid bitch with each post.”

“I remember being 21 and not giving a shit about anybody else. I hope your new guy breaks your heart. You got it comin.” – So now I’m a 21 year old girl who doesn’t care about anyone else in the world. Ok…

Deepcover then comes in to make an attempt to lighten the mood, commenting that it’s no one’s business. Thank you, Deepcover, I appreciate your efforts. And that’s genuine appreciation, not sarcasm.

I reply that I don’t kiss and makeup with assholes. STD replies that he doesn’t makeup with selfish cheating cunts.

STD comes in again, without me having made another post after his last post (so this is 2 consecutive STD posts), essentially saying that I’m a cry baby, I want people to kiss my ass, I’ve had an easy life, and I think people should respect me because I have a pink name. STD is whining about the posts I’ve made to defend myself against him. He can say all he wants to insult me, but God forbid I retaliate!

I can guarantee you that if any other girl were in my shoes, any other OCSM or girl in real life, were called a bitch, a cunt, a scumbag, a loser (all of which I’ve been called in this thread), and was insulted in the manner I was insulted, she would certainly defend herself. There is nothing wrong with me standing up for myself. There is definitely something wrong with a grown man resorting to name calling and insults simply because he disagrees with a woman’s actions. It’s completely unnecessary.


In post #66 at 4:12 pm on September 25, of this thread, STD said, “I quit reading when you started your whole woe is me shit. Whatever it is you’ve been through, it doesn’t justify your actions. You suck. I told you to be an adult and dump your bf. Why wouldn’t you? Quit using your past as an excuse to be a cunt now.”

In post #53 at 10:04 am, STD made his first post that ended with “instead of being a bitch?” It had been 6 hours since he told me to break up with my boyfriend. 6 HOURS. Think about that for a second…

Time’s up, second is over. Ok: Break up with my boyfriend within 6 hours of being told to do so by a complete stranger online who called me a bitch and to act like an adult? While my boyfriend is in class? Right. That makes sense.

It seems that I’m not the only one who needs to “act like an adult.”

So STD, since you’re keeping tabs (please refer to post #204):

Here’s the insults that have been thrown at me in this thread, mostly from you, some from others:

“…like an adult instead of being a bitch?”

“…that's a dirty thing to do”

“Waaah. Poor me... we know you cheat on your boyfriend and that's fucking shitty. Dump him. Break his heart. He'll get over it. Don't drag him through your selfish bullshit so he ends up going James Holmes on your ass. What the fuck is wrong with people?”

“… You get more awesome with each post!”

“… crazy pills… being 21 and not giving a shit about anybody else. I hope your new guy breaks your heart. You got it comin.”

“… selfish cheating cunts.”

“… not kissing your ass like everybody else around here does? Ohh poor baby. I'm sure you had good reason to go behind your man's back. Aww poor Harley. She's got it so tough. I forgot you have a pink name. My bad!!!!”

“… your whole woe is me shit. Whatever it is you've been though, it doesn't justify your actions. You suck… be an adult and dump your bf. Why wouldn't you? Quit using your past as an excuse to be a cunt now.”

“… Some people's kids...”

“… Sorry, you don't deserve constructive criticism. Why do you think you deserve better? You're being a scumbag, and I'm treating you like one. For the record, if I cheated, I would expect to be treated exactly as I am.treating you. It's wrong, and you're a loser for doing it.”

“… Sticking up for Harley isn't going to get you in her pants. She's seeing someo...oh wait. Maybe it will!”

“… It's so lame you have an affair.”

“… POOR YOU… boohoo you've been cheated on…”

“…start dating your fuck buddy till you fuck him over too. Your on here ranting… your a big attention monger that likes to here herself talk, just realize nobody is on your side in this argument”

“…Harley is a bitch, selfish asshole… dodges that shit like she dodges her real life problems.”

“… act like a child… If her name wasn't pink, the entire board would be thrashing Harley right now. Shed be called a lot worse than anything I've said.”

“…You'll leave the board but not your bf. Obv.” – This is not necessarily an insult, I just thought I’d toss this in here to show you how much of an adult you’re being. Obvi!

“… A few days from now this thread will be buried and it won't come up again until Smallville bumps it 4 years from now.” – It’s been exactly a few days. The thread isn’t buried.

“… She's a fucking joke playing the victim card looking for sympathy. Oh my boyfriend can't make me cum. I'm cheating on him. Poor me… she tried guilt tripping everybody… Good riddance.”

“… I won't make a joke out of you, cause...you already make one out of yourself by acting the way you do.”

“…see a shrink.”

“… You're joking right? She is definitely not. Not in the least and definitely not in general.” (At first I thought this was supposed to be referring to me, but in actuality, it was referring to Aaliyah in regards to hopsin saying she’s hot)

“…A girl who's sold herself in the past like Harley seems unlikely to me (albeit this may be because my mind is tiny) to be likely to attract a guy who will be faitful… 5: If your girl sells herself to other men on cam nightly, would you be faithful? … banishing one OCSM per thread is enough…” – First, yes, this post was offensive. Second, do you know what selling my body means? Third, I don’t do webcam. And Lastly, I wasn’t banished. I still exist. I just left. Now I’m back. (“Yeah, we knew you’d be back bitch.” – Don’t bother, again, I’m way ahead of you.)

“…We all know better when it comes to handling message boards. Well most of us do.”

“… free pass to be a scumbag… If Harley didn't coward out…”

And here are the insults and names I have thrown:

“Um, how bout you go fuck yourself?”

“Dick… Clearly you can not comprehend human emotions. I'll tell you once more, go fucking fuck yourself.”

“I don't kiss and makeup with assholes.”

“…You're an asshole… you're not even being an adult… So go ahead you fucking asshole, tell me that I don't care about anyone else in the world!”

“… that makes you an asshole.”

“… He's being a straight up jackass… I'm pissed off at Diva for being a dick about it.”

“… You are an asshole... You guys suck.”

Now let’s take a look at post #204.

“Lol. Sooo who was name calling again? How unreasonable was I? Where's all the people saying Harley was out of line? Besides saying she was acting like a bitch for cheating, I was only guilty of sarcasm until the final post, which by that point Harley insulted me in every post in that convo. Keep pretending we should treat ocsms differently though. Because they deserve it, right?”

Who was name calling? Initially, you were. You failed to point out all the other posts you made in this thread. I’m not afraid to point out every single post I’ve made where I insulted someone or called someone a name. Who’s the coward here? And only guilty of sarcasm? Yeah, ok. Even if some of your posts were sarcastic, you know that you meant every word of everything you said. Sarcasm or not, your posts have been straight up offensive and hypocritical. My posts were nothing but self defense.

Pretending we should treat OCSMs differently? It’s in the board rules, so there is no pretending, although evidently the board rules have absolutely no meaning here, and neither do basic human rights, manners, respect, reading abilities, or consideration. In any case, as I said many pages back, I never said anything about wanting anyone to kiss my ass because I’m an OCSM. Not a word. I care more about how I am treated as a person than being treated like some goddess that must be bowed down to without any prior reason to be bowed down to. So no, I don’t need anyone to kiss my ass because I’m an OCSM. You can kiss my ass because I’m right.

You’ve seen nothing but people backing you up in this thread? Ha! Hahaha! Ok, let’s take a look…

- Kappy backs you up. No ifs, ands or buts there.
- Deepcover backed me up while mentioning that this is none of your business.
- VV remained pretty pleasant throughout this entire thread. He may have made a few remarks that disagreed with me, but never did he say that you were right.
- Andronicus agreed with you, but he was reasonable with me.
- Honda, of course, backed me up from the beginning, stood his ground for himself, and continues to back me up to this day.
- Maley agrees with you, but he still thinks I’m hot, so all is well.
- CK messaged me asking me to not leave the board and is supportive of me.
- Briana is neutral.
- Brodkill didn’t side with anyone.
- 24 Grams is very supportive of me.
- Death-Proof-69 is very supportive of me.
- Alexpnz backs you up.
- TrueBeliever666 is very supportive of me.
- Rey C. is very supportive of me.
- Dirk messaged me saying he doesn’t want me to leave.
- Shifty is supportive of me, also agreeing that my personal life is none of your business.
- Mayhem appears to be supportive of me.
- BigCockTony is uh… well, I’m gonna go ahead and say that he’s sided with you.
- GodsEmbryo is supportive of me.
- Aaliyah is supportive of me.
- PirateKing agrees that it’s none of his or anyone else’s business.
- Spexy is pretty awesome.
- TheSpokenWheel… eh, I’m not really sure.
- DarkWarrior- also not sure.
- Ravenholm hates me.
- Papagmp loves cheaters.
- John seems to like me.
- Eric is very supportive of me.
- Wigster is… I’m not sure.
- Rhyno is supportive of me.

So let’s see… That’s 20 people, out of 30, that clearly support the idea that my personal life is none of your business, it does not affect you, and are supportive of me no matter what I do in my personal life. It looks like only 4 of the people listed that have posted in this thread clearly agree with you that I am a selfish cheating cunt. And the others appear not to have any major stances on the matter. So… what was that again? You see nothing but people backing you up? Hahahahaha! Oh, that’s funny! That’s really funny. Hahahaha…

Disclaimer: This isn’t about taking sides. This isn’t about winning something. This is about what’s right. Not who is right, but what is right. Because like I said, cheating is wrong. Like you said, cheating is wrong. Aren’t we all right? WHAT is right is how people treat other, whether online or in real life.

Now, I think we can all agree that I never should have brought up this piece of information about my personal life in the first place. But whether or not I brought it up, that does not justify all the insults, taunting, names, and overall negativity toward me. It is completely unnecessary. As others have said, me cheating on my boyfriend has no effect on you in any way, shape or form.

Feel free to say that cheating is wrong, I know it is. I’ve said that myself. Oh wait, I forgot, you stopped reading my posts after all my woe is me bullshit.

Oh, and as for your question about why I’m still with him- I’ve already answered that. But you didn’t read. Adults usually know how to read, don’t they? Hmm. Interesting... Read it this time, as you so desperately need the answer: I am with him because I love him (“Bullshit you love him, if you loved him you wouldn’t be cheating on him!”- Save it. I’m way ahead of you.), because he’s a great guy, because we get along, because we don’t fight, because outside of the bedroom, we have very few problems in our relationship. So why am I cheating on him? Because he doesn’t give me orgasms? That’s only a very small fraction of the reason. Why haven’t I left him? Why am I dragging him through this? Because it’s difficult and there are a lot of factors to consider. But hey, wait, this is my life, I shouldn’t be sharing such personal information on the internet!

“I’m not going to judge you for it, but all I can offer is that you owe it to the person that you love to be honest.” – That is a statement a mature adult would make about a situation like this. But instead, I get “… instead of being a bitch?”

This isn’t just the internet. This situation that I am in is real. It is extremely emotional. So don’t sit there and say, “Don’t take what people say online so seriously.” It is a serious matter, and so to me, it’s serious. I don’t know any of you outside the forum, but that does not change the way I feel or what’s going on. This is already stressful enough for me without having someone online call me a cunt and insult the hell out of me.

If you can not, will not, do not agree with me, do not support me, fine. But try to be an adult about it. Unlike me.

Sorry for the insanely long post. It's only fair that I have my say in the matter.

 

[brodkill]

heres my say

 

[Ace Bandage]

Holy longest post ever, :batman:


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If anybody quotes Harley's entire post when making a response, I will murder them.