Hey there,
I need some advice.
I think it is fair to say that I am somewhat of a light porn watcher. I never rented a porn movie (until recently) and never was a member of any adult site. I do enjoy free porn on the net and I occasionally catch the porn that plays on cable. I like it and do it about once a week, although it varies quite a lot. Sometimes I watch a lot for while, and sometimes I don't watch any for a month.
I've never talked very openly about porn with my wife, but it's not exactly a taboo, I think. Anyway, at some point she comes to me and says she'd like to fuck while watching pornography. I was surprised but I gladly accepted. "Why not ? Sounds like something that I would enjoy" I thought.
So I stopped by the video store the other day and went to the adult section. Lots of the stuff is not for me. Shemales, bondage, hardcore anal, not really my thing. I just like watching good-looking women getting fucked just like I fuck my woman. But here's the thing. The movies that would indeed fit me if I were to watch them alone, all of a sudden seem inappropriate for the couple context. It's as if I saw them differently now that I was shopping for both my wife and me. It looks either cheap or very bad taste. It's a strange feeling.
At some point, I found that lesbian movie that looks more classy and I rent it. Bring it back home, put it in the DVD player, begin watching it with my wife. She looks kinda turned on, but I'm not. We begin undressing each other and then we touch each other. Then we begin doing what couples do, if you see what I mean. Very rapidly, I feel like the movie is more like a nuisance. On the screen is Carmen Luvana and other pornstars I normally enjoy quite a lot. They normally turn me on rather seriously, but at that point they leave me rather cold. I stop watching and concentrate on my wife. She looks turned on, but not overly. If I fuck her strongly enough, she completely forgets about what's on the tv screen. The moaning in the movie, which I normally enjoy, becomes boring.
I stopped the movie before the end and I was quite disappointed. I thought that maybe it was because it was a lesbian flick ? But then, I'm very uncomfortable with the straight stuff in front of my wife. As I said, it looks like it's so much bad taste to bring that home to my wife.
I've watched porn on my own since then and enjoyed it. I'm really turned on by Mikayla those days. I feel normal. The sex with my wife is also very nice and everything seems normal.
I'd like to try this again with my wife. It just sounds like such a good idea, and I know she was disappointed that I was bored by our first experience. Do you have any advice ? Any movie that I wouldn't be ashamed to watch with my wife and that wouldn't be lesbian ?
Thanks a lot
Brisson
I need some advice.
I think it is fair to say that I am somewhat of a light porn watcher. I never rented a porn movie (until recently) and never was a member of any adult site. I do enjoy free porn on the net and I occasionally catch the porn that plays on cable. I like it and do it about once a week, although it varies quite a lot. Sometimes I watch a lot for while, and sometimes I don't watch any for a month.
I've never talked very openly about porn with my wife, but it's not exactly a taboo, I think. Anyway, at some point she comes to me and says she'd like to fuck while watching pornography. I was surprised but I gladly accepted. "Why not ? Sounds like something that I would enjoy" I thought.
So I stopped by the video store the other day and went to the adult section. Lots of the stuff is not for me. Shemales, bondage, hardcore anal, not really my thing. I just like watching good-looking women getting fucked just like I fuck my woman. But here's the thing. The movies that would indeed fit me if I were to watch them alone, all of a sudden seem inappropriate for the couple context. It's as if I saw them differently now that I was shopping for both my wife and me. It looks either cheap or very bad taste. It's a strange feeling.
At some point, I found that lesbian movie that looks more classy and I rent it. Bring it back home, put it in the DVD player, begin watching it with my wife. She looks kinda turned on, but I'm not. We begin undressing each other and then we touch each other. Then we begin doing what couples do, if you see what I mean. Very rapidly, I feel like the movie is more like a nuisance. On the screen is Carmen Luvana and other pornstars I normally enjoy quite a lot. They normally turn me on rather seriously, but at that point they leave me rather cold. I stop watching and concentrate on my wife. She looks turned on, but not overly. If I fuck her strongly enough, she completely forgets about what's on the tv screen. The moaning in the movie, which I normally enjoy, becomes boring.
I stopped the movie before the end and I was quite disappointed. I thought that maybe it was because it was a lesbian flick ? But then, I'm very uncomfortable with the straight stuff in front of my wife. As I said, it looks like it's so much bad taste to bring that home to my wife.
I've watched porn on my own since then and enjoyed it. I'm really turned on by Mikayla those days. I feel normal. The sex with my wife is also very nice and everything seems normal.
I'd like to try this again with my wife. It just sounds like such a good idea, and I know she was disappointed that I was bored by our first experience. Do you have any advice ? Any movie that I wouldn't be ashamed to watch with my wife and that wouldn't be lesbian ?
Thanks a lot
Brisson
