Well as a girl I cannot say who has the nicest cock because while I very much notice cocks I do not pay any attention to the guys who they belong to. Erect cocks are really beautiful, an ejaculating cock for me is it, but a cock is a cock not a person, and most of the guys who appear in porn do nothing for me. Porn is about the girl and that is one of the reasons why I like it, women are centre stage.
If a guy is going to have sex with me I am interested in him as a close friend and hoping that he is going to enjoy me. I really do not think of his cock. Nice cocks are nice but they are not what it is about.
I am sad that guys cannot admire another man's cock without being frightened of being accused as gay. I can admire and like a girl's body, her boobs and her pussy and not think that this means I am gay. One thing looking at porn has done for me is made me feel that girl's pussy's are beautiful and that well maybe mine is too.
When I look at a sexy girl's body being displayed or f*cked in porn I can feel that she looks really beautiful or sexy but it is in a way where I feel I want to be like her. When I see the men screwing her or think of all you guys looking at her and masturbating to her, it is wow, I like the men in a way that I do not want to be like them but I want to be with them, they are what I am not and have what is missing from me.
I would have thought that a heterosexual guy could admire another guys cock and see its beauty in the sense that he would feel I would like mine to be more like that in some way, and when he saw the cock ejaculating he could feel, wow, I know what that feels like - it is beautiful.
Mel