Re: Maria Swan / Princessa
Well, if they want to be known for their brains they chose the wrong business.
Ever met a woman, even from afar (e.g., video, interviews, etc...) that totally knocked you on your ass? It's awesome to have both looks and brains, and is a major, major turn-on for me. One might argue the business savvy of Danni Ashe, combined with her persona, makes her the ultimate charisma in the industry. I surely would love to have just dinner with her, where I'd get to oogle and exercise my loins above the waist.
If you make a living out of showing skin on the internet, you must expect people to judge you for that.
Judge in what way and to what values?
I'm really interested in why we should treat them, by default, different than any other woman? And, by default, that is a "lady" in my book, although I noted you differed in an early post.
A lot of guys want lovers who will take it in every hole and all-the-way. Now my question is, can this same woman be your wife? The mother of your children? What "values" change? Or is it because you personally know them, versus these "random Internet babes"?
I think I see your answer in a previous post. From what you stated, it seems that since they take money for their looks, that's all they are good for. And that means they should just given into what people want to pay for, their considerations be damned? After all, they damned themselves the second they started posting?
One poster here stated Jana does not want to post nude any more, and promised her he would not tell why. Could it be how she is treated? In fact, she's hinted to that in many situations, the "expectations" and "different values" assigned to her by people, probably in how they treat her.
I find it completely ironic that men want women to do more, then turn around and devalue them for it.
KEY: It's
not the woman who is devaluing herself, but how she is treated by men (and other women) as a result.
If we would treat all women like ladies, regardless of what they did, then maybe, just maybe we'd have a more free society of less judgement, more love and ... God help us ... more, open erotic behavior including more sex for everyone!
They might be smart or stupid I don’t care, Its not like they’re my financial advisers they are someone who wants my attention on the Internet in order to earn money.
A lot of people get paid for the attention they bring to themselves. What makes them different? "I gave you money so I can treat you like I want!" At what point does that end?
Now consider you are Jana, and consider sometimes how she has been treated. Now you decide to do non-nude because of it. As a consumer, you are fully entitled to choose to spend your money where you wish, but also consider that money is not everything to people. That's hardly a value among only the adult industry, but world-wide.
So, again I ask, what makes this industry so different?
I gladly give them my attention, but its their looks, just their looks and nothing but their looks I care about.
And that's your choice and fine to do. You're also fine not to spend any more money on Jana now that she's not doing nudity. But to act like money is the only factor in her lift -- let alone what some of your same "values" cause women to do (often leave) -- is part of the problem.
Anything else would be somehow disturbed.
Huh? It's "disturbed" to realize there is an individual at the end of the camera? That maybe, just maybe, there are women who enjoy being oogled, enjoy sexuality, enjoy being ... a woman for men! Gasp!
Not every woman who sheds her clothes for money is against the adult industry and in it for only the money. But there surely is a lot of money being thrown with "strings" attached to things the woman never agreed to do. That is for certain.
Now; lets get some pics up instead of this.
Hey, it takes at least two (2) to get these debates going. Don't judge others without being judged yourself, regardless of money.
Besides, this isn't about judgement. It's the folly of men who expect things, and are oblivious to results of that.
