Hey man, thanks for the long post, I don't want to seem defensive or anything here, haha... it seems anytime I write a long response at times I am taken as being mad or angry and I'm anything but =) I just like to detail things more I guess.
I learned a long time ago to never say never, but at this point, I am 1000000% certain as long as we're married, she won't go down that road. With us working in adult as we do, we quite literally have access to the hottest men and women, all tested every 14 days and safe to play with. No drama, no jealousy or worry over someone trying to horn in on your relationship and even then, she wants nothing to do with it. She likes girls far more than men, she'd tell you the same thing if asked. I have known of couples that had an almost identical situation like you described, and shortly after playing with others.. they split because she wanted other dudes and was positive her own guy didn't want her, or why would he be okay with her with other guys etc.
I have seen this two out of two times so when B told me... nope, I have no desire in other guys. I dropped it. I like she only wants me, any guy in my shoes would. I wasn't getting off on the idea of her with another guy, I was more feeling guilty for us fucking other women and I was buying into stupid male ego/mindset that says if a guy gets other pussy, the girl should get other cock. Thing is.. that ego/mindset doesn't allow a different outcome - what if the girl WANTS other pussy too? What if she doesn't want cock, she wants pussy?
I never viewed them as equal and then B put to me simple... She was dating a GIRL when she met me. She could have been dating any dude she wanted and she chose to rather be with a woman. At this point I thought...well fuck... I have been thinking about things stupidly. As a heterosexual male.. I assumes women are into men and men into women.. but that's not how the world works. That's how a heterosexual male *thinks* it works. Big difference. lol
She had given up on guys when I met her because she'd had nothing but shit guys in her life (because most young guys are idiots, and once having been a young guy.. I can concur.. we can be at times) so she said fuck it.. I like women so I'll try the other team. She was dating another woman when we met as friends, and over six months, being together almost every day or second day hanging out, we decided to try things. I won her over through respect, not pressuring her etc and not playing mind games. B and I have a relationship unlike anything I have experienced and honestly, I never knew it to be possible. We don't sugar coat, we don't lie to each other. We are open to a fault about all things, and through this, we've had a crazy life these past 11 years.
Do other guys want to see other dudes fuck her? Of course. She's had major porn companies offer her large sums for this to happen and she laughed at it. It's not about money for her, it's not about fame, she's not the girl that will do anything for a buck or she'd be doing anything for a buck... if that makes sense. I think one of the things that people get confused on... they see us with a website so they call us (her) porn stars. Well, you're nude online having sex, that makes you a porn star and the same as other porn stars. Which of course... is wrong on more levels than it's right. If I play football at the park with my buddies, does that make me a football player? No. We're a married couple that is crazy enough to share it online with our own site. We created our own studio, we're having fun but we're def. the married couple next door. We don't live anywhere near porn valley, we maybe know a combined 5 people tops in the 'real' porn industry. We worked with girls because we thought it'd be interesting and might make us more coin. (honest answer) It did incredibly well... yet... we haven't gone back yet in over two years to shoot with others, all because we're having so much fun just with each other. We're weird, I know.
I think a lot of guys if given an open fuck anyone in porn you want ticket, would take it. I'm not one of those dudes though. I love my wife I guess. haha I don't really care about filming with others, no idea if we'll ever go down that road again. We've talked about it, B has said she'd like to maybe play with more girls at some point.. who knows when/if we do.
All said and done.. do I see her ever hooking up with another guy? No. She'd say this too.. hell, she even made a youtube video about it because she gets asked so much.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTGSH0khKWY
She also talked about it in her interview vid..
https://youtu.be/BxrFy_mLsKY?t=243
Guys will keep hoping though and that's cool. In their shoes.. I would too. I have seen this a lot though in porn when a model finds her fella, she often stops filming with others outright and leaves the industry to be with her guy. Difference with us us we were never in the 'industry' to begin with really.. more so the online we haz a website! industry.