Ya gotta take the multi posters here with a cynical eye, friend.
Since only mods need to worry about whether you are old enough to be here, that's a silly thing to even reply to. Ignore the obvious trash talkers...it makes for a more fun time here.
As for whether anyone wants to grow and change in their lives...it happens to everyone every day, and some people grow out of a "cloistered "environment while some go the other way...and years into their lives almost no one is the same as when they were young. WTF business is it of anyone if she is getting into the more sensuous side of her self...she should suddenly trash everything she is doing to chase a possible temporary path?
Enjoy the moment with her, neither of ya can tell where it may end up.
A lot of the advice given here is good advice...get her to relax behind being good to herself, and she will find a way to grow even more sensual and into getting off.
Don't spend too much time concentrating on her, just make an effort to spread the fun equally. She'll figure things out.
And remember to ignore, more or less, the overly pompous trolls that post here...a lot of trash talking is just that, trash. You can tell the real guys from the wanna-be big dogs from what they say and how they say it.:2 cents:
Semper Fi.