the usual beginner stuff, i coached her on the whole blowjob thing, cause she was lost in the sauce on that one, and just her willingness to do whatever i ask to please me. there isnt anything i wouldnt do or try 4 her if she led me to believe she wanted it but its important to me to know that i can get her off just as well as she can for me. i get off on pleasin my partner. i heard a rumor from a lady friend of mine that some girls have to train themselves to b able to get themselves off. meanin they have to learn 2 b comfortable with the feelins they r gettin n the noises they r makin when doin it alone first then once they get that down they r more able to do it with a partner..... any truth to that?