Its now going to be hisEXslave.. its over

[question]

You'll be fine in time. I'm sure of it. :hatsoff:

 

[turtle825]

Hope everything works out for you; wish you luck. :hatsoff:

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

How do you become good at making sandwiches? Sandwiches are to food as rounding up shopping carts is to occupations. ANYBODY can do it. Your husband was so lazy that he married you in order to void having to add things to bread??

 

[Elwood70]

Oh, please think about changing your nickname

Agreed,that's the first thing I'd do....

:o When you're 40 you realize how much of a child you were at 30....

Thank you.

 

[mrtrebus]

Thanks guys I am really lucky to have you guys and friends and my brother to support me and help me through this. It's hard but you all are right.. I will move on. I need to just let go and allow myself to realize that if I will be just fine with out him. I just need to leave korea and get to Indiana. I can't wait. I'm so ready to move forward with my life

Its like Anthony Robbins said, “If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten.”

It's time to break the habit of letting him run my life. I'm living for me now. Well me & my brother but you get my point

See, you're already looking to the future. We can all learn from our past, but we shouldn't live there.
Anyway, just remember the wise words of Rocky. A walking continent of common sense!

:bowdown:

 

[titsrock]

You will not be viewed as tainted under any circumstance. This isn't 1810 America. Not every man is a pig or asshat even though it may seem that way at this moment.

Just grow from this. Figure out a life plan/career for yourself, where you're in control, and finding good, secure guys won't be a problem. Nobody lives his/her life perfectly. We all make mistakes at some point. Just relax, focus, and put a plan together.

 

[gunslingingbird]

I tried every thing I could to make our marriage work. I bent over backwards for him, forgave him for cheating on me, took him when he told me he loved me and he was so so sorry

Whoa, whoa whoa! Stop there for a second. You forgave this shit stain for cheating on you?!? That should've been your first hint that he was not the right person for you. Cheating doesn't occur when you have your significant other's best interests in mind; it occurs when you don't give two shits about your partner. One can say that he's sorry until he's blue in the face, but in reality he doesn't care because he's had his satisfaction. Why feel genuinely ashamed for what you've done when you know you got away with it?

Not every man is a pig or asshat even though it may seem that way at this moment.

It seems that way because she's on Freeones at this moment. If she were anywhere else she wouldn't think that about all men.

 

[GregCentauro]

Its about consulting the subject. Don't fall apart at the end , keep it togeather. In any case it doesn't have to be about the manner of a feeling but the reaction to the instinctve. The problems will necessaryly be understandle but will you realize that drama is poor acting and will always be no matter how many thing interet you.

 

[funkipman]

Sorry to read about the dissolution of your marriage, but chin up....and here's why.

He cheated.... deal breaker.
you're young... it's a good thing, time to grow and wounds will heal(experience talkin here)
You determine your own self worth... don't let his sammich eatin' ass judge you
and single is fun... spend all your money on you (and your brother-but mostly you...you'll like it... just try it)

hope this helps as I am chronically optimistic.

 

[lurkingdirk]

No shit.

Looks like his post was deleted.

 

[assholebythedoor]

no shit why was it deleted?

 

[georges]

I am very sorry about what you have to endure. As I said in the other thread I can only wish you goodluck and godspeed. I can only hope that your problems get solved very quickly.
Be strong and keep hope and faith as well

:kiss:

:georges:

 

[D-rock]

I'm sad to hear that. You deserve better than him.

 

[assholebythedoor]

Yoda had much broader eyes an more of an underlining

 

[PlasmaTwa2]

We haven't ever really talked or nothing, and I know it might not mean much coming from someone like me, but I am really sorry and I wish you the very best. I'm not a person who prays, but I pray that you'll be safe and that you get through this.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

I bet STDiva wishes he took that South Korean job now. He could of asked you out then.

(Despite the nature of this thread I am hoping the humor cracks a smile on our dear HSS; apologies if it didn't)

 

[Alyssa Rose]

You will not be viewed as tainted under any circumstance. This isn't 1810 America. Not every man is a pig or asshat even though it may seem that way at this moment.

Just grow from this. Figure out a life plan/career for yourself, where you're in control, and finding good, secure guys won't be a problem. Nobody lives his/her life perfectly. We all make mistakes at some point. Just relax, focus, and put a plan together.

I've pretty much figured out my plan/career. I plan on staying with my uncle until I save enough (I am entitled to the BAH money that he gets to house his dependents until the divorce is final so thats 700 a month, plus my brother gets 300 a month social security benefits since my mom passed away) so I am going to save enough for a cheap but decent car, find a job and enroll in school because until our divorce is final my schooling is still paid for. Our divorce can not take place while he is overseas so we wont be divorced until at least march 2011 but thats okay because that means for the next year my brother and I will have medical insurance and I can get my schooling paid for. I plan on going to ATA to become an ultra sound technician. Once I have a car I plan on finding a cheap 2 bedroom apartment close by my uncles and well living life.

We haven't ever really talked or nothing, and I know it might not mean much coming from someone like me, but I am really sorry and I wish you the very best. I'm not a person who prays, but I pray that you'll be safe and that you get through this.

Thank you I really appreciate it

I bet STDiva wishes he took that South Korean job now. He could of asked you out then.

(Despite the nature of this thread I am hoping the humor cracks a smile on our dear HSS; apologies if it didn't)

It did whims, it did Thank you

 

[Namreg]

have you considered real estate? an uncle of mine is doing it. i have no idea how hard it would be in the states to get a license, but if it's just a short course (like here in quebec), then why not try it? my uncle is making nearly 20k in commission from selling the house i currently live in and arranging the purchase of the new one... bastard.

 

[PirateKing]

I've pretty much figured out my plan/career. I plan on staying with my uncle until I save enough (I am entitled to the BAH money that he gets to house his dependents until the divorce is final so thats 700 a month, plus my brother gets 300 a month social security benefits since my mom passed away) so I am going to save enough for a cheap but decent car, find a job and enroll in school because until our divorce is final my schooling is still paid for. Our divorce can not take place while he is overseas so we wont be divorced until at least march 2011 but thats okay because that means for the next year my brother and I will have medical insurance and I can get my schooling paid for. I plan on going to ATA to become an ultra sound technician. Once I have a car I plan on finding a cheap 2 bedroom apartment close by my uncles and well living life.

You go girl!

 

[lurkingdirk]

Yoda had much broader eyes an more of an underlining

words together put no order or sense make.