I know I'll catch flak & there'll be a stream of BS, but...

Ike Stain

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Bitches be crazy.

I didn't read you post because it was too long, but I'm fairly certain those three words sum up your current predicament.

Word, that.

P.S. I didn't read it either because it was way too long and I was working on my "who would you bang?" post, but you have my sympathies as well.
 
I may be jaded by experience, failure and the crushing of all my love-based hopes and dreams (awwwwwww), but something about the post makes me think there might be bigger issues at hand here than Who's The Boss and blowjobus interuptus.

But isn't that the point? That all of the shit couples tend to argue about is only as big as allow it to grow.

Beyond cheating and maybe substance abuse the overwhelming majority of shit couples can find to argue about and even break up over is senseless in the big picture.

If you love each other...put your fucking egos aside and focus on why you're together instead of the reasons you think you should be apart.:dunno:
 


Now back to posting on FreeOnes.
 

ApolloBalboa

Was King of the Board for a Day
Well, my only suggestion is to confront her with everything that's bothering you and talk about it (though maybe not in the ranting style you've done so beautifully here). Tie her to a chair if she doesn't agree or if she gets up mid-discussion. If you're going to be married to this girl, you should be able to be honest and up-front with her and she should be able to accept and respect that. If she can't, won't, doesn't, etc., she's not the one for you.

I hope everything goes okay between you too.
 

Prod3

Expect Nothing and Appreciate Everything
Well, my only suggestion is to confront her with everything that's bothering you and talk about it (though maybe not in the ranting style you've done so beautifully here). Tie her to a chair if she doesn't agree or if she gets up mid-discussion. If you're going to be married to this girl, you should be able to be honest and up-front with her and she should be able to accept and respect that. If she can't, won't, doesn't, etc., she's not the one for you.

I hope everything goes okay between you too.

What Apollo said ;)

Talk to her & tell her your problems & let her talk & tell you hers too. If you both listen to each other and take everything in & respect what each other has to say, you know its meant to be

Good luck & I hope everything works out for you both :)
 
Don't argue with women you need to fuck and definitely not one you plan to be fucking exclusively for the rest of your life.

There is scarcely a rational one among them on most things and that's aside from when they're on the periods.:eek:


Oh hot Mega you are so very very wrong. My ass is very rational. Now you will bend over and give my ass a kiss. :D

Bitches be crazy.

I didn't read you post because it was too long, but I'm fairly certain those three words sum up your current predicament.


We are not. I am totally sane. I even have a card that says so :tongue:



Now Vodka

You really need to talk to her and tell her everything. Clean out the closet so to speak.

If you can't live with things as they are(you can't change her). You may want to think about moving on. Loving someone is wonderful however love in the end is not enough if that same person makes you insanely anger. Sometimes things just aren't meant to be no matter how much you love someone. Good luck figuring it all out :kiss:
 
Even if you don't argue with them, they argue with you.
She's as bad as a Russian woman *sigh*

Anyways, we've agreed to sort things out and I feel better. Thanks Freeones.

I'm glad you are going to work it out and that you feel better. Your welcome on behalf of freeones:) ( yes I speak for everyone now:tongue:)
 
Oh hot Mega you are so very very wrong. My ass is very rational. Now you will bend over and give my ass a kiss. :D

As to scarcely a rational one among them? ^^Proof...woman asserts her rationality comes from her ass.:1orglaugh I mean, there are just so many ways to cut that one up and Play With it Alisa, it's not funny....:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Thanks.:hatsoff:
 
As to scarcely a rational one among them? ^^Proof...woman asserts her rationality comes from her ass.:1orglaugh I mean, there are just so many ways to cut that one up and Play With it Alisa, it's not funny....:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Thanks.:hatsoff:


Now if I had taken you seriously this would have been totally different but what's the point your a guy. You don't understand logic or instruction manuals:D

Thanks for playing :rofl:
 
Even if you don't argue with them, they argue with you.
She's as bad as a Russian woman *sigh*

Anyways, we've agreed to sort things out and I feel better. Thanks Freeones.



Serb women are just as feisty as their Greek counterparts. Never argue, just shrug and agree.
 
You are treated like shit at your job, to the point no sane man would stay. So, why are you still there? Put your needs first, if you have to leave, leave.

As for the girl. Leave.

Blunt and to the point, but clearly youve reached a juncture in the relationship and theres a pretty deep rift been dug. Intentionally or accidentally I dont know, but alot of major shit has happened in to short a space of time to play happy families after.

Im mr negativity at the best of time, but I seriously think its time to move on. Its all well and good playing the "I love her" card, but thats not enough anymore these days. You dont seem very compatible, especially if you are being immasuclated during a sexual act.

For the love of god man, she has your cock in her hand and is letting you know shes in charge. Imagine that for the rest of your life.

Leave.
 
You are treated like shit at your job, to the point no sane man would stay. So, why are you still there? Put your needs first, if you have to leave, leave.

As for the girl. Leave.

Blunt and to the point, but clearly youve reached a juncture in the relationship and theres a pretty deep rift been dug. Intentionally or accidentally I dont know, but alot of major shit has happened in to short a space of time to play happy families after.

Im mr negativity at the best of time, but I seriously think its time to move on. Its all well and good playing the "I love her" card, but thats not enough anymore these days. You dont seem very compatible, especially if you are being immasuclated during a sexual act.

For the love of god man, she has your cock in her hand and is letting you know shes in charge. Imagine that for the rest of your life.

Leave.

Truth.
 

TheOrangeCat

AFK..being taken to the vet to get neutered.
But isn't that the point? That all of the shit couples tend to argue about is only as big as allow it to grow.

Beyond cheating and maybe substance abuse the overwhelming majority of shit couples can find to argue about and even break up over is senseless in the big picture.

If you love each other...put your fucking egos aside and focus on why you're together instead of the reasons you think you should be apart.:dunno:

You are 100% right, because if I had to put my finger on the fracture point of each relationship, it was one or the other of the above ......

Your last sentence is particularly aposite; take the egos out. This isnt about winning. It<s not even about getting your own way. Its about living and the only key to living with another human for an extended period of time is communication and compromise, with the former serving the latter.
 
Pretty good, Mega, but I think I can simplify it like this:

If this is a pattern of behaviour that you can not live with, move on. You aren't going to change her.

However, if you really are in love with her, decide these things are not a big deal.

It also sounds to me like you need to spend some time talking to her about how unsatisfied, unfulfilled, and unchallenged you are in your job. To me, that sounds like the heart of the issue.

Bingo.

Talk to her in open, honest terms.
 
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