How would you react...

[Gordar]

1. Calpoon, I'd give you rep for your last post, except that I can't yet.

2. I find that there's one option missing in this thread... What if your son went into porn? It'd be nice to see if people would act differently if their son went into porn compared to when their daughter went into porn.

I've already said everything else I wanted to say, so I'll stop now.

 

[calpoon]

it's 2009 and we still have to defend gay people for their right just to exist and lead normal lives.

It's less than sad, it's pathetic.

 

[prof_porn]

If my son went into porn, he'd be a dead set legend in my household.

 

[Imagine]

well I didn't really get into the dynamics of it so much. The key words here are input and agreement, which is what makes it a relationship. It is a compromise between two different sets of wants. usually these wants will be the same in most cases.

But it is naive to assume that they will or can always be the same. That's my point. To expect them to be when they are not will lead to a break up in the relationship, whether by direct decision or by deterioration in intimacy.

I never said I expect them to be the same all the time. I did say that, at least to me, my wife doing porn (and lying to me about it at that) is a pretty damn big issue, and not one I think I'd be able to compromise on, at least not as far as hardcore content goes (nude modeling etc. I think I could live with).

Of course that doesn't mean that anything goes. You have to decide what level is acceptable, and where you can be flexible. Some things you may never be able to accept, and that's fine, it just means that you will not be able to have a relationship with someone where that is a factor. That happens. Not everyone is compatible with each other.

Yeah, that's kinda what I said from the start. I fail to see how a refusal to accept my wife having sex with other people means I have a disrespectful attitude towards others lifestyle choices, a lack of maturity, and why I'll probably never have a wife. There are plenty of reasons why that might not happen, but I doubt the primary one will be because I expect honesty and fidelity.

 

[Will E Worm]

Wow, just wow. Totally unbelievable. I actually think this post could be used in dictionaries as a perfect example of homophobia.

You're nutty. :tongue:

I find that there's one option missing in this thread... What if your son went into porn? It'd be nice to see if people would act differently if their son went into porn compared to when their daughter went into porn.

I've already said everything else I wanted to say, so I'll stop now.

People have double standards. I wouldn't want my son or daughter in porn, stripping, nude pictures, and so on.

 

[prof_porn]

Your son would become a local legend. I've never understood why a man who gets loads is a 'player' or 'stud', yet a women who is sexually liberal is a 'slut'.

I dont make the rules, but I am not bigger then society.

 

[costporsche]

It's really hard to say.

 

[prof_porn]

I find 'wild' ladies to be a huge turn-on.

 

[Gordar]

People have double standards. I wouldn't want my son or daughter in porn, stripping, nude pictures, and so on.

Yes, a lot of people do have double standars, that's exactly why I asked.

At least you're being consistent.

 

[georges]

If I was a husband and knew that my wife fucked other guys for money, I would divorce her and wouldn't let any single cent nor a single valuable item to her. If I ever get married, I will chose a contract of marriage with separated goods and not a contract of marriage where goods are put in common. In France, it gives these 2 types of contract of marriage. As for my daughter, I would make sure she signs contracts with the best companies because I wouldn't want her to finish as a second rank pornstar. Also I would make sure that at the same time she follows her studies and doesn't frequent some porn studs who can get rough during parties.

 

[prof_porn]

So you'd say:

"My dear (daughters name), this is fine....but no rough studs"

"Ok daddy, I'll be good".

I can see it now.

 

[prof_porn]

Flipping this, can any of the stars here state how their parents acted?

 

[Galactic]

Loudly. And angrily.

 

[prof_porn]

^^

why?

 

[Galactic]

^^

why?

Horrible and persistent case of hypocrisy that I cannot seem to shake......for me, it's okay for others to be in porn......but members of my family? Absolutely not.

But then, I am not married, and do not have any children at this point in time. So who can say, including myself, how exactly I would react should such a thing occur.

But I am pretty sure I'd be livid.

 

[Skyraider22]

i really don't know I guess the first question would be why and have you though about it.:dunno: Great question

 

[Silkk]

In the words of the Isley Brothers, "go up stairs and get your s**t and get the f**k out". lol just kidding. I really don't know how i'd react.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

As far as my wife goes I wouldn't have a problem with it depending on what type of porn it was. And I would be more upset if she isnt the one who told me or kept it hidden from me because I think honesty is the key in any relationship.

Daughter would be along the lines of the same thing I wouldnt want to see her being abused by some of the porn companies out there that dont care about their performers at all but if it was site like Raven Rileys or Brooke Skye then I would be ok with it. I mean your kids are always going to make their own choices but their safety should be number one. I dont know how anyone on here could have a real problem with it considering the fact that I am sure we have all contributed such a large portion of our lives to the porn industry.

 

[prof_porn]

^

Sage.

Not a parent or yet a husband, but increasingly feel I'd be ok with either situation.

I'd be perfectly happy with nude skills in either case, they are simply arty/classy. I can always opt not to look.

No one things it could be slightly cool?

 

[shayd]

I think how a person would react depends rather wholeheartedly on how they view the people who work in the industry. If you are a person who views them as sexual deviants, objects etc... I would assume you would not approve of a daughter participating. If you see them as workers performing the same task as any other entertainer, you'd probably be more willing to let a close relative participate.