How to move forward with this girl?

[Hot Mega]

She is nuts. She asked me if there was ever another fling at work. I told her previously that there was a girl I flirted with and now we are friends. I told her this time about this woman who I've known for 4 years and I said we got the train all the time and she asked if we kissed I said yeah once and she got really upset and told me what's the point if I'm just another girl like her. I panicked and told her this woman had a boyfriend and kids and that I never really liked her but she liked me.

I told her what me and you have is very different(I struggled) she told me to not get myself out of it and she feels awkward. I explained it's not awkward because this woman knows we are just friends. She said "If I knew you ever had a girlfriend at work I wouldn't of bothered" I told her she wasn't my girl and I never even spoke to her or met her outside of work.

Translation: She's playing you for a fool or she's loopy....

PS...Steer clear of answering questions that are neither relevant nor provable regarding previous relationships. If a person has no way of knowing the correct answer to a question like this and it's irrelevant...the truth of it is not their business IMO. Especially if the potential is more harm than good.:2 cents:

 

[meesterperfect]

Somebody call me a medic.
I think I broke my skull banging it against the wall.
Mom? Is that you?
Look at all the pretty colors.

 

[TheOrangeCat]

Oh
My
Fucking
God

Dump this psycho, bunny-boiling bitch before you wake up one night, to find her standing over your bed wearing a dirty wedding dress, a kitchen knife in one hand and your severed cock in the other ........

 

[Hot Mega]

Oh
My
Fucking
God

Dump this psycho, bunny-boiling bitch before you wake up one night, to find her standing over your bed wearing a dirty wedding dress, a kitchen knife in one hand and your severed cock in the other ........

Uh, it's more likely the case that ol' gloy and Princess Die-anna here will end up stalking each other in needy, psycho bliss "One (Fine) Day" (B-Side).

 

[TheOrangeCat]

Uh, it's more likely the case that ol' gloy and Princess Die-anna here will end up stalking each other in needy, psycho bliss "One (Fine) Day" (B-Side).

Co-dependent stalking!

What an awesomely sad concept.

Of course it all goes wrong the night they realize he's outside her house, and she's outside his - at the same time.

Mega FAIL.

 

[TheOrangeCat]

This will be THEIR song .....



Well I’d rather cut you than the wedding cake
And your bloody guts on my rented tux
And I do, I do, I do wanna kill you
Til death do us part, I’ll tear us apart

Now I kiss your cold dead lips
And I dip my chips in the blood that drips
And I smear the cake right in your face
Let your God take you to a better place

[pre-chorus]

Well I loved you to death
Well I loved you to death
[chorus]
Die, die, die,
Die my bride

And all you ever meant to me
Was absolutely nothing
And with this ring now I be wed
Don’t wanna kiss you bitch, wanna bash your head

 

[Hot Mega]

Co-dependent stalking!

What an awesomely sad concept.

Of course it all goes wrong the night they realize he's outside her house, and she's outside his - at the same time.

Mega FAIL.

I'm disappointed in you TOC. We all know the stalker-vic scenario ends in fail. But I thought you'd see the obviousness of stalker-stalker 'relationship'.

Just think, with her hacking his email, him hacking her's...her outside his window while he's outside her's, etc...the 'relationship' would never lack for a dull moment...especially when lack of excitement tends to be a key reason for mega FAILS of relationships to begin with.

 

[TheOrangeCat]

I'm disappointed in you TOC. We all know the stalker-vic scenario ends in fail. But I thought you'd see the obviousness of stalker-stalker 'relationship'.

Just think, with her hacking his email, him hacking her's...her outside his window while he's outside her's, etc...the 'relationship' would never lack for a dull moment...especially when lack of excitement tends to be a key reason for mega FAILS of relationships to begin with.

Sorry to disappoint, but I've never stalked nor been stalked (stalker and stalkee?), so the tragically desperate reality of it escaped me ... meh.

 

[Hot Mega]

Sorry to disappoint, but I've never stalked nor been stalked (stalker and stalkee?), so the tragically desperate reality of it escaped me ... meh.

:dunno:Blah...you probably never nitrated glycerol either but you know nitroglycerin is effective for creating explosions.:tongue:

 

[TheOrangeCat]

:dunno:Blah...you probably never nitrated glycerol either but you know nitroglycerin is effective for creating explosions.:tongue:

Hmmmm. Got a better example??

 

[BadNewsBewes]

Ditch the bitch.

Text her and say you've had enough of this. Leave your contact at that. After a while she'll either realise what a cunt she has been and stop this nonsense. Or instead, she'll sulk and won't bother you again, so no hassle anymore for you with her. Either way you win.

 

[gloyster]

She won't stop calling me. I get on so well with this girl we flirt like mad and talk about everthing and I've gotten away with alot of dirty talk with her. Work with her been on a date but it was 3 weeks ago and she has flaked 3 times since and told me she won't be free this week when I told her I was free some days. She acts interested on the phone but when I suggest meeting recently she kinda seems like she is putting it off saying she is busy. She says she REALLY likes me aswell so I'm confused.

The more I ask her for a date the more desperate it seems so what do I do?

She laughs all the time at all this stuff and I still end up txting her the AFC shit about how I feel about her but I'm starting to get less back from her and now I just want to still txt her but not sure what to say. We got this thing where we speak to eachother in the day and txt at night and when I don't she usually asks me why.

She is quite the game player, she told me earlier she was upset cos her brother had his house broken into and then a few hours later she txt me random txt "do you have xbox or ps3? x" then later she just txt me a sad face and I asked her how she was doing and told her I was going out.

Then she replies "aww wicked, I just had some guy try to ring me weird" WTF...every day she tells me about guys who like her or some shit. What do you think is going on? One day she talks to me like I'm her boyfriend(Leaving me a voice message yesterday telling me to have a good day at work and that she was thinking about me) then I'm just a regular guy friend it's weird.

 

[CunningStunts]

Best of luck to you guy! And I mean that sincerely.










****for the rest of us, we need to start a pool to see how long this is going to last... I say 18 days****

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

This thread is still going on?

Dude, you look pathetic. Grow a pair, and either ditch her, or tell her straight up that you want to penetrate her, and that you want to penetrate her now. You can't keep subjecting us to this "wahhhhh does she like me? does she? she keeps sending me naughty text messages! I don't know how to deal with this highschool drama wahhhh!"

Sorry I'm a bitch. But jesus dude, if you don't fuck her and/or leave her, she's gonna continue leading you around like a dog on a leash. If she cared about you, she'd have told you that. If she wanted you to stick it in her, she'd have her legs open. And if she's a petty, juvenile little girl, she'll keep making ya wonder wtf is up with her and you'll keep being mentally tortured by all this shiz. Little girls play games and you, sir, are being played. :hatsoff:

 

[Icewater Jones]

This thread is still going on?

Dude, you look pathetic. Grow a pair, and either ditch her, or tell her straight up that you want to penetrate her, and that you want to penetrate her now. You can't keep subjecting us to this "wahhhhh does she like me? does she? she keeps sending me naughty text messages! I don't know how to deal with this highschool drama wahhhh!"

Sorry I'm a bitch. But jesus dude, if you don't fuck her and/or leave her, she's gonna continue leading you around like a dog on a leash. If she cared about you, she'd have told you that. If she wanted you to stick it in her, she'd have her legs open. And if she's a petty, juvenile little girl, she'll keep making ya wonder wtf is up with her and you'll keep being mentally tortured by all this shiz. Little girls play games and you, sir, are being played. :hatsoff:

...and this is coming from a very attractive and smart woman. You may want to heed her words and make a move, boss.

 

[gloyster]

I've tried my moves bro. She knows her ass is mine.

She has some good excuses to not meet that's all really. Soon as she stops phoning me I will tell her to fuck it but she has been calling me early everyday. Tonight I'm letting her know she can do her thing though.

 

[Hot Mega]

I've tried my moves bro. She knows her ass is mine.

She has some good excuses to not meet that's all really. Soon as she stops phoning me I will tell her to fuck it but she has been calling me early everyday. Tonight I'm letting her know she can do her thing though.

How to move forward with this girl?

In this order;

1.) Obtain picture of 'this' girl.

2.) Spank your little gloyster to her pic.

3.) Smile and say 'hi' when you see her at work.

The downside to this? It's about as far as you're going to get with 'this' girl.:hatsoff::o

 

[meesterperfect]

This thread is still going on?

Dude, you look pathetic. Grow a pair, and either ditch her, or tell her straight up that you want to penetrate her, and that you want to penetrate her now. You can't keep subjecting us to this "wahhhhh does she like me? does she? she keeps sending me naughty text messages! I don't know how to deal with this highschool drama wahhhh!"

Sorry I'm a bitch. But jesus dude, if you don't fuck her and/or leave her, she's gonna continue leading you around like a dog on a leash. If she cared about you, she'd have told you that. If she wanted you to stick it in her, she'd have her legs open. And if she's a petty, juvenile little girl, she'll keep making ya wonder wtf is up with her and you'll keep being mentally tortured by all this shiz. Little girls play games and you, sir, are being played. :hatsoff:

:sing:Bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah
I think I love you.
So what am I so afraid of?
I'm afraid that I'm not sure of
A love there is no cure for.:sing:

Hey Ashliegh, wanna go grab a burger down at the root beer stand after the pep rally on friday?
I just re-primered the front left fender and fixed the seat so it tilts back.
I dig you so much.

 

[Deepcover]

I can't wait till she uses your ass like a toilet bowl cleaner...

 

[zdenka]

Spexy, you talk like a dude! And to the op, what ethnicity this girl? I specialise in certain ethnicities and I can make them tick