How to move forward with this girl?

[Deepcover]

Yeah dude she's playing games. You better drop her ass fast before you turn psycho crazy. You should have told her to go to hell you found another fish to lay, you'd see how fast that crazy bitch be texting you because her expression would be like wtf dude?! She's flaked before so DROP HER BEFORE YOU GET BURNED!

 

[Hot Mega]

so the chick blew him off after all.
she was just playing stupid games, and by the sound of it she has the mentality of a 12 year old idiot.
what disturbs me is this guy actually kissing her ass instead of treating her like the stupid girl she is.
Men have to stop doing that stuff, its messing up the balance of the male/female relationship.

I don't know. I can't really make much of this situation other than it's a workplace romance and all the usual trappings that comes with that territory. I get the impression ol' gloy is pretty impressionable, fairly thin-skinned and unnecessarily preoccupied with inconsequential things. If true, then that would make sense as why she wouldn't be 'all in' or full steam ahead with a guy like this who works at the same place as she does..Even if she really likes him.

and yeah mega I do think texting back and forth is faggity, especially for "adults".
It reminds me of the Sopranos episode when Tony was watching AJ on messenger, giggling like a little queer.
Pick up the phone and talk to each other like humans, like a man,not little silly back and forth notes like 2 3rd graders.

ITS GAY.

I tend to agree with you on the texting. Although you seem to have more of a problem with it than most people. Texting a chick is fine. Sitting on your sofa while some chick is sitting on her sofa and you both firing off 15 text messages a piece to each other is juvenile, lame and probably a little 'gay' too.

 

[gloyster]

I'm all for calling but she was telling me she doesn't use her phone because her little sisters room is next door and goes to bed early so most of our phone calls have been in the day and have been expensive.

I told "I don't fuck around" because she was making me out to be some player or massive perv after the txts and I've told her before that I used to be like that but not as much as when I was younger but she is fully aware that I'm good looking(SERIOUSLY) and girls will probably jump at the chance with me. Believe it or not she has dropped hints of wanting to be with me I've just not remembered them as much and making myself be stupid by asking her feelings alot. She mentioned about us going away together on a work trip and moaning about how the boss wouldn't like us being all lovey dovey etc.

I thought I'd leave it txting her last night since we were talking for so long and txting shitloads and also didn't call today since she was busy, now I just got to figure out what I'm going to say tonight when I txt her because it didn't sound like she was 100% for friday.

 

[xfire]

Remember what I said about not an heroing on us? Never mind.

 

[gloyster]

Whatever that means.

 

[xfire]

Right. Whatever it means. Seriously though, really? Really? Just, wow.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

lol.....

 

[gloyster]

I'm not from around here.

 

[xfire]

God? Why do I keep reading/replying to this? :1orglaugh Ok, I Promise not to chime in on this thread anymore.

 

[gloyster]

You've got some jacking off to do.

 

[BadNewsBewes]

She's gagging for it. Break into her bedroom window and give her a suprise.:eek:

Actually she's messing with your mind, blowing hot and cold. Can you not just forget about dating her? In less than a couple of weeks, you'll be glad you stopped the effort.

 

[meesterperfect]

I don't know. I can't really make much of this situation other than it's a workplace romance and all the usual trappings that comes with that territory. I get the impression ol' gloy is pretty impressionable, fairly thin-skinned and unnecessarily preoccupied with inconsequential things. If true, then that would make sense as why she wouldn't be 'all in' or full steam ahead with a guy like this who works at the same place as she does..Even if she really likes him.


Well a workplace romance or fuck friendship can be just fine if both people are cool about it, you know that
and thats what i told him last week, just relax, do very little instead of being like you said.

I tend to agree with you on the texting. Although you seem to have more of a problem with it than most people. Texting a chick is fine. Sitting on your sofa while some chick is sitting on her sofa and you both firing off 15 text messages a piece to each other is juvenile, lame and probably a little 'gay' too.

so we do agree. i text message to say hello or make simple plans, but I feel the same about the 15 messages in most cases.......its juvenile.
:hatsoff:

gloy ol boy my hopefully final advice: lay low for about a week, don't contact her.
after if you speak to her out of work tell her simply if you want to hang out let me know.
the end.

 

[HeartBroker]

1. Change your avatar

2. Everything will go your way


~Finis~




You're welcome,

~HB

 

[meesterperfect]

I returned to tell gloyster i'm sorry things didn't workout.
Next time you'll be wiser.

Sad though, the mentality of the average woman in some countries these days.
So many are so immature and selfish, totally empty, shallow beings.
Sad how so many men go in with only good intentions only to find the woman is a complete idiot and has the inabilty to have real feelings.
if this same thing happened twenty years ago you probably would have banged her 10 times by now but today most women are so immature and such game players ........
All it gets us is frustrated, disillusioned men and big headed women.
Today so many men go through their teens, 20's and farther looking for love while the girls are just fucking around, playing games until their 35+ and men start to pay less attention to them.......then many wake up.and grab the first lonely bastard willing to take them then torture the guy until the break up.
Its not a natural balance and has only bad consequences this is why men need to start standing up and start treating these girls like what they are..........stupid girls, and stop kissing their asses so much.

 

[TheOrangeCat]

Fuck
That
Bitch

Move on, brother.

Move on .......

 

[busaguy79]

Yeah move on, you are too good for her anyways! Actually its a good thing because office romances do not work and they can get real ugly, trust me I know!!!

Hit the strip clubs and get some girls drunk and have really shameful sex in the back alleyway! Be a man god dammit!!!!

 

[Icewater Jones]

Sounds like a major tease, and you getting played was a very real possibilty. She was gonna only fall short of your lofty expectations anyways, trust me.

Keep it moving.

 

[gloyster]

She told me she thinks I'm kind and sexy and make her happy. Also has been calling me baby alot more so now!

 

[Icewater Jones]

She told me she thinks I'm kind and sexy and make her happy. Also has been calling me baby alot more so now!

Again... tease. Think about it: You know that you like her and want to be with her, so if the roles were reversed, how long ago would you have made this realtionship happen? How long does the process take? If she wanted to be with you, she would be with you.

No excuses.

No games.

No baby talk.

This isn't fuckin' high school. You both are adults, and this is an adult situation that isn't being handled as such. Again, don't be the puppy... wagging your tail with every little pat on the head.

 

[gloyster]

She is nuts. She asked me if there was ever another fling at work. I told her previously that there was a girl I flirted with and now we are friends. I told her this time about this woman who I've known for 4 years and I said we got the train all the time and she asked if we kissed I said yeah once and she got really upset and told me what's the point if I'm just another girl like her. I panicked and told her this woman had a boyfriend and kids and that I never really liked her but she liked me.

I told her what me and you have is very different(I struggled) she told me to not get myself out of it and she feels awkward. I explained it's not awkward because this woman knows we are just friends. She said "If I knew you ever had a girlfriend at work I wouldn't of bothered" I told her she wasn't my girl and I never even spoke to her or met her outside of work.