Help and advice is quickly needed please...

[AndyHunter]

Hi all,

I have been having a rough time with my girlfriend lately. I have been acting a complete fool because of personal problems I am having away from my relationship with her. Every time I have pushed her away she has always taken me back.

It happened again on Tuesday, and this time she is adamant it is over. I really don't want to loose her, and I'm trying to win her back, but this time she is sticking to her decision.

We said we will talk on the phone tonight, but she is ill. She has gone to bed.

My question is this:

To prove to her how much I love her and try to win her back, should I drive to hers with food and aspirin (all the stuff to make her feel better)
Or should I just leave her alone and wait for her to contact me?

Thanks in advance for any advice you give.

 

[Jagger69]

Leave her alone. If she truly loves you, she'll call you when she's feeling better. If not....well, you fill in the blank.

 

[celebrian]

I would first get a tattoo of her name on my dick and then go there with some aspirin and food. When you enter you take of your pants and she knows you love her.

 

[megusta69]

I would first get a tattoo of her name on my dick and then go there with some aspirin and food. When you enter you take of your pants and she knows you love her.

Not nice, and certainly not funny!

 

[Dc383]

Dude...

Quit watching porn, and focus on your lady. If you really love her make a commitment. Bring the ring when you ask.

 

[biomech]

Stop being a jackass and pushing her away; how many times do you think you can keep doing that and she will always come back?
If shhe doesn't learn from your mistakes and modify the way you act.
:2 cents: Good luck to you, I hope you can work it out.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

What exactly are you talking about when you say that you've been "acting like a complete fool" lately?

Are you sticking your peen in someone else? Just being an irritable asshole? You need to tell us why she dumped your ass, and THEN maybe someone can help you lol.

 

[STDiva]

Dude...

Quit watching porn, and focus on your lady. If you really love her make a commitment. Bring the ring when you ask.

qft

 

[AndyHunter]

What exactly are you talking about when you say that you've been "acting like a complete fool" lately?

Are you sticking your peen in someone else? Just being an irritable asshole? You need to tell us why she dumped your ass, and THEN maybe someone can help you lol.

Just been acting like an irritable arsehole. I know to keep doing it isn't right, but I need to get her back and prove to her that the way I have been behaving isn't the real me. I know I can make things better if she just lets me.

 

[megusta69]

Sometimes a short break is what is needed, then you both may realise if you are really meant for each other.

 

[Hot Mega]

Hi all,

I have been having a rough time with my girlfriend lately. I have been acting a complete fool because of personal problems I am having away from my relationship with her. Every time I have pushed her away she has always taken me back.

It happened again on Tuesday, and this time she is adamant it is over. I really don't want to loose her, and I'm trying to win her back, but this time she is sticking to her decision.

We said we will talk on the phone tonight, but she is ill. She has gone to bed.

My question is this:

To prove to her how much I love her and try to win her back, should I drive to hers with food and aspirin (all the stuff to make her feel better)
Or should I just leave her alone and wait for her to contact me?

Thanks in advance for any advice you give.

Honestly..the first thing you need to do is stop playing games, man-up and figure out what it is you want.

She's your g/f not a yo-yo...either you want her or you don't. The only person on this board who can figure that out is you.

Maybe she's learned she was trying to be your g/f and not a yo-yo and she's over it until you get your stuff straight about what you want. Hopefully it won't be too late if figure you really want her.

You want to prove something start by coming to grips with why you keep pushing her away.

 

[STDiva]

Just been acting like an irritable arsehole. I know to keep doing it isn't right, but I need to get her back and prove to her that the way I have been behaving isn't the real me. I know I can make things better if she just lets me.

You should have learned your lesson the first few times she's taken you back. Don't be a fuck up. Give her time. And quit being a dick to your girl son.

Pft. Men.

 

[Skyraider22]

To be honest I really don't know what to say.I do know this though if you feel the way you say you do then go see her let her know you are truly sorry and you wnt to be with her don't let it be a "What if " that will make you feel worse.I wish you all the luck in the world.Take Care

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Just been acting like an irritable arsehole. I know to keep doing it isn't right, but I need to get her back and prove to her that the way I have been behaving isn't the real me. I know I can make things better if she just lets me.

Ok well what you need to do now, is try to get her back. If you've been a douchenozzle for awhile, she may have already moved on mentally. People can only take so much BS ...and there's a chance she may have moved on mentally long before she left you physically. Just be sincere when you see her. Think about what makes HER feel special...flowers? Handwritten note? Making her dinner? Tell her (when she's better) that you want to see her, and do whatever it is that melts her heart. If you don't know what melts her heart, then this is a lost cause and you should move on too lol.

But IF she takes you back, the biggest thing that will keep her, and make her happy is if you stop the immature bullshit that drove her away from you in the first place. The only apology she really needs is a physical one. Show her you can be nice to her, show her you can appreciate her and not make the time you spend around her unbearable. This kind of apology takes time, but as time goes on and she see's that you have changed, you guys can move forward.

But good luck in getting her back. Sounds like she's done with it all... :/

 

[STDiva]

PROTIP

Don't tell her you were asking for advice on a porn forum.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

PROTIP

Don't tell her you were asking for advice on a porn forum.

you read my mind lol

 

[mrtrebus]

Ill?!? Of course she's not ill, she was just trying to get rid of you. Take a hint, you've fucked this one up!

 

[~~whimsy~~]

Sounds like you just need to grow up and learn how to treat a woman. And quit thinking outside your asshole. I figure that's probably your only way of getting oxygen to your brain but damn, act like you got two functioning brain cells, boy. It might be cute acting like this in HS and showing off in front of your buddies on how you treat girls; but you need to get your shit situated and then see about entering into a serious relationship. If not, stop yanking her around like some puppet, she might have figured out that's all you're doing and had enough. You better do a about face and get things straightened out.

 

[maildude]

Be very aware...she might be playing you.

 

[on]

be glad that at least she is not a pregnant if she is not pregnant, If she is pregnant then its not as good. You did not mention if she was/was not but I don't thinkl she is pregnant for this. If she is not pregnant be at least glad of it, then you can work what the hell you doing out