Help and advice is quickly needed please...

[AndyHunter]

be glad that at least she is not a pregnant if she is not pregnant, If she is pregnant then its not as good. You did not mention if she was/was not but I don't thinkl she is pregnant for this. If she is not pregnant be at least glad of it, then you can work what the hell you doing out

No, she isn't pregnant.

 

[STDiva]

Do you want her back, or are you just afraid of being alone? Sounds like you push her away, for whatever reason. If you really wanted to be with her, you wouldn't act like a punk towards her. Move on son.

 

[AndyHunter]

Do you want her back, or are you just afraid of being alone? Sounds like you push her away, for whatever reason. If you really wanted to be with her, you wouldn't act like a punk towards her. Move on son.

I want her back. 100% sure of that. I know I've been a dick, but I know that I can put that right now.

 

[STDiva]

I still think you should give her time. But not so much time that she ends up riding someone else like a Cadillac Deville. getwutimsayin son?

 

[mrtrebus]

I want her back. 100% sure of that. I know I've been a dick, but I know that I can put that right now.

No you can't. Move. on.

 

[on]

No, she isn't pregnant.

this is good thing. she is not ill, she is not wanting to see you. you know this really and you should be making your self believe, make your head work, sort you're own thinking out, then is better

 

[AndyHunter]

this is good thing. she is not ill, she is not wanting to see you. you know this really and you should be making your self believe, make your head work, sort you're own thinking out, then is better

She is genuinely ill, I know that.

 

[Dc383]

qft

English pls... Dont understand that Text talk...

 

[mrtrebus]

She is genuinely ill, I know that.

Yeah, she's sick of you & your behaviour!

& the cure is a decent boyfriend who will treat her right!
:hatsoff:

 

[roronoa3000]

In the immortal words of Fabulous.

"She cant pick up the phone,
your broke ass should leave a message
and my guess is, if she never call
Well... you get the message"

:dunno:

 

[on]

She is genuinely ill, I know that.

is she definately sick how do you now

 

[Smallville417]

Yeah, she's sick of you & your behaviour!

& the cure is a decent boyfriend who will treat her right!
:hatsoff:

Agreed. And I am man enough to admit I have been in this situation once before, because of my attitude towards a woman who did nothing but treat me like I was the greatest man who ever lived. The problem was that I didn't treat her the same way, made her feel like I could do without her. She said fine, and found someone who treated her the way she deserved to be.

If it wasn't for the great woman I'm with now, it would still be haunting me as no one I dated afterwords matched up to her. Generally I am a very nice guy, but the one time I came down with "asshole syndrome" it cost me big time, lesson learned.

Best thing is for him to move on, and let her move on. She sounds as though she has had more than enough, and I don't blame her a bit.

 

[Shifty]

Leave her alone for now. :2 cents:

 

[JayJohn85]

Man chill lots of girls think I am an asshole.....They still fancy me....



LMFAO

<chokes>

<mutters> err yes thats why I am on freeones!

 

[CadillacD]

If she's sick then it doesn't help her to tolerate your bullshit. Option #1: Better act soon before she stews over this and sets her mind on the break. Above all else, if she's worth the trouble you're obviously going to go through, then stop putting yourself in this situation. Option #2: Go to the other extreme...forward some pics to her of you tagging some strange and see what happens. If nothing else, you will have a lot to entertain us with...

 

[Mayhem]

Just reading this thread, I want to break up with your sorry ass. GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER! That's the only advice that will work. And if she stays pissed and this truly is the end, be secure in the knowledge that you deserved it and nothing less.

 

[lechepicha]

oh god, please no.

time is the magic word for ya

 

[Sparky Shortz]

This is the perfect response...nice :thumbsup:

Honestly..the first thing you need to do is stop playing games, man-up and figure out what it is you want.

She's your g/f not a yo-yo...either you want her or you don't. The only person on this board who can figure that out is you.

Maybe she's learned she was trying to be your g/f and not a yo-yo and she's over it until you get your stuff straight about what you want. Hopefully it won't be too late if figure you really want her.

You want to prove something start by coming to grips with why you keep pushing her away.

 

[grower_boy]

I think you should do the right thing and go to her house.

 

[Sir Oblivious]

Then you go for it, you just need to do it right. For love you both have to bond, not just her. If you have to change your ways and dedicate yourself to them so you can be with her. I don't believe in true love at first sight, you need to work on it and perfection will come. If you love her by the way this sounds, prove that you love her back. And you're obviously not with another girl, but you have to stop pushing her away. If it's a mental thing building a barrier around you two you need to smash that damn thing down with a bulldozer because you already know what you want. You need to let yourself know that you want her and you'll do anything for her. And if it's like a drinking problem or a drug problem... Simply cock back your hand, make a fist, and drive that fist straight down into your balls whenever you are about to fuck up not just hers but more of your life too.

Cheers