this is not at all true. i was a virgin up until 2 months ago or so, and before that when girls found out i was a virgin they would always think it was really sweet, and i might get a kiss/blowjob/whatever, but they would never sleep with me because they didnt want to "corrupt me"
"kiss/blowjob/whatever"?
Dude, having an orgasm with a woman is quite enough for me (especially if she has her orgasm first)!
I
loved women who didn't want to take my intercourse virginity away from me.
Unfortunately, one woman didn't respect my wishes and I lost it before I was married.
It was sad, because it was the
only time before I was married, just missed giving it to my wife by 1 woman.
He keeps saying we don't know how it is to be him, his circumstances, etc... yet he continues to post. Honestly, do what I did,
ignore him.
To reroute it, yes I've been kissed silly. First time, spin the bottle at a birthday party when I was 12.
Well, to answer the original thread, I was kissed when I was age 5-7 by a girl in my kindergarden through 2nd grade classes who would be a long-time friend. I was young boy and didn't want to "catch cooties" so I was kicking'n screaming when my friends dragged me every time. She stopped kissing me when I got classes.
I didn't kiss again until I hit my teens. I met the same girl in my teens again (I lived 1,000 miles away) and she returned the favor -- only I wasn't kicking and screaming that time.
TK, you should be aware that although I have cheated on my gfs many times in the past when I was younger, and I feel bad about that, I also know that half of everyone (statistically) cheat on their partners or spouses at some time in life, so it's not like it's a mistake only I made.
It might be 50% over the life of a marriage, but those who cheat one time per year is less than 15%. And since the '90s, it's
no less among married women than men either.
These days I have relationships in my life where my partners know what a polyamorous and lustful man I am, and I can't help but worship every beautiful woman that I want and will let me... my long time full time gf knows and loves this, and most of my part time gfs also know about this, some of them even genuinely love it and are turned on by it about me.
No one should settle for what they don't want. As long as you are honest and forward with your lovers, and come to terms (including their not being interested in being with you), the world is a much better place. Anyone who holds judgement for people being honest should look at why they think such.
There is no "one morality for all." As long as people are honest and
responsible, then that's
far better of a society than "one set of values fits all."
If you want to pass judgement on people for cheating, there are plenty of threads on this board where you can rant about half the poster's integrity, because it happens, and some of us, not all, have done it, and some of us have had it done to us. I don't make a habit of doing it these days, and I think, TK, you should keep your endless back and forths off these threads: Professor and Roughneck are great members, and I don't want to see them get in trouble for going back and forth with you.
It wouldn't be his fault. I'm 100% responsible for what I say and if I'm banned for it, then that's 100%
my fault. With that said, I
stopped responding to him this morning, and that's all I need to do.
That's not "how we do" here... avoid personal insults, and be respectful. One day you'll have girlfriends too, and you'll realize the real world is not as ideal as the ideal world. Some of us - like iaf and prof v - manage to maintain absolute monogamy and faithfulness - some of us, like the way I used to be - can't seem to help but fall and cheat constantly through lust and desire... and some of us - like me, now - are able to be honest with the people in our lives about our overwhelming desire for others, and to share and sleep with others, and if it works for us, who are you to judge.
For me, monogamous is a major turn-on. I'm a man who needs to feel comfortable. At the same time, if my wife wanted an additional male lover in the bedroom, I'd let her as long as I was involved. But if she wanted a woman, that would upset me -- I have desire for one woman, and another would just not be comfortable for me.
And thanks to you guys who have on SEVERAL threads stuck up for me, I have no idea why this is even happening, but I truly thoroughly appreciate it Prof and Rough and iaf and anyone else who has: you are true and real friends. Prof you really went out of your way to clear my name. Thanks
I think it bothers you more than me
thankyou again.
Why? I have my views and values. You might not agree with my socio-economic views when it comes to leadership, and I really have some reservations about how you view some aspects of the US, but that doesn't mean I have to disagree with you on other concepts. If anything, I try to understand and see all aspects -- and that includes decisions made by W., Clinton, H., Reagan, Carter, Nixon, LBJ, JFK, etc..., etc..., etc...
The only time I "get on people" is when I feel they are being immature or irresponsible. But I respect the values of all types of people, as long as they are mature and responsible.
I've even had my ass kissed - several times. And THAT my friends... felt goooooooooood. Mmmmnnn.
I like it when my wife kisses the area just under my scrotum (although not close to my asshole). Something about that area just drives me wild -- even though I don't like my scrotum sucked (unlike many men).
