Iamforever
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then dont mention it. people here have been trying to help you, and now you jump all over them. nice gratitude.:thumbsup:
Have you Kissed Before?
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then dont mention it. people here have been trying to help you, and now you jump all over them. nice gratitude.:thumbsup:
What's wrong with being a virgin? I won't treat you any differently than anyone else bud! You're just a person to me...I don't label anyone!:hatsoff:
toast_king
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Yeah, after I explained that it's useless because people can't understand and because the subject is a dead end. I don't need help because there's nothing you can help me with.
Iamforever
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if you think its a dead end, why did you bring it up in the first place? this is what i cant figure out.
toast_king
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I only answered the question presented by the thread.
Actually, you just described your problem right there.
1. You're focusing on Julia Roberts, so there's a lot of competition for not much of a looker
2. You're missing out on all the obviousness of the truth so many of us are trying to get you to see
Then please share with us so we know better about your situation.
Given what you've given us, it sounds like you do.
Sounds like you're fighting your own chip on your own shoulder. If you'd take the time to listen to what I'm saying, you'd realize I'm actually not very different than yourself.
If it wasn't for 1 woman (who I still dislike for taking my virginity away), I would have been a virgin until the 3rd night after my wedding! (age 24 no less!) Think about that for awhile instead of your chip. You seem to be the one in the "Hollywood Zone," not us.
Damn, you really put a lot of pressure on yourself and have a rather simplistic view of everyone else. Many of us actually are deeper and more emotional than you give us credit for, so chill.
member006
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I said nothing to you so whats that about? I will say this now though, there is no sin in being a virgin. I had no idea until just now, but you really must know that whining isn't becoming. If you are to post here and enjoy it you must get a thicker skin and remember the #1 rule of posting (not learn how to use the search button, that's the "Golden Rule" ) # 1 is this...
On a board you pick your battles. How you interact is up to you. A post must be thought out, something like this here is like waving a red flag at a bull. Don't post what can be "ammunition" for a comeback if you can't take it. We have great members here, but I must tell you "quip's" are like food to most. This isn't Sunday school its a adult forum for and about SEX.
Please don't be offended by my post. I just wonder why you want to argue like everybody is attacking you. Chill, have fun here not stress. :glugglug:
Just my :2 cents:
LL
toast_king
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Why?
I'd love to hear how I'm in the "Hollywood Zone" when I have an objectively realistic outlook on things that I've considered for many years now.
Porn, actually.
Iamforever
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how realistic? you are 22 and you think that you will never even get a kiss. how many years have you thought about this?
toast_king
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Several years. The conclusion has been carefully calculated. There's a miniscule chance that I'll have a girlfriend some day, but I don't regard it as a serious possibility.
Iamforever
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dude, you got to give yourself more credit than you do. try not living in your head. there is 6 billion people on the planet. over half of which is female. odds alone will tell you that you will have a girlfriend. keeping her is a different story though.
Treat women as individuals - not objects or posessions.
See them for their unique individual nature.
Praise them for their inner beauty.
And watch the magic unfold
toast_king
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It's not a question of numbers. There could be 20 billion women and it wouldn't make any difference whatsoever. In truth, there are approximately 80,000 people: the population of my city.
What? I've never said that women aren't individuals or that they're objects and possessions.
People who are unbearably ugly or otherwise unattractive have "inner beauty" that's supposed to fully compensate for their physical shortcomings. Or so people like to think.
Iamforever
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this is the problem. this statement to me means that you are shallow.
toast_king
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No, it means that I'm a person who doesn't caught up in pretentious bullshit of questionable moral superiority. Appearance matters, period. There are some people who pretend that it doesn't matter, and a few people sincerely don't care, but for most of the population it matters. It's not about being "shallow," it's about being "human." It's biology. Also, desiring a partner who is physically attractive is not mutually exclusive with desiring a partner who has a nice personality compatible with your own.
Iamforever
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it pains me to hear this. if this were true, i wouldnt have a woman. you couldnt be any more wrong. i see that there is no way to get you to see the other side, so im just going to ignore you from now on. i give up.
toast_king
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Did you notice the part where I said this: "... and a few people sincerely don't care, but for most of the population it matters." Your personal exception does not invalidate a general rule.
What "other side" am I supposed to see anyway? What are the "sides" ?
It's psychology, not biology. Mental ideations and abstract thought aren't the real of biology
Does appearance matter? Yes.
Is it "pretentious bullshit" to not give it overbearing importance? No.
cheers,
toast_king
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You're replying to the wrong message.It's psychology, not biology. Mental ideations and abstract thought aren't the real of biology
Who said anything about overbearing importance? You did.
