The "word" issue is important,in a way.Not for practical reasons, but at least for "semantics".
The gay community rightfully asks for "equal rights".Well "equal rights" means having the same right as any other couple,like to get married for instance.If the State does not allow them to get married,but comes up with a different "word-institution" for that type of recognized union,then you don't exactly have "equal" rights,you have "different" rights.And the State is saying that "gay union is ok,but of a different kind".
Personaly i'm ok with that,but then again,i'm not gay,so i don't know how it feels to asks for equality and end up with "something like that,but not quiet".I can't talk on other people's behalf.
What I would like to say though,after I've made my position clear on the issue, is something else.
The pro-gay marriage is based on the argument that two consenting adults have the right to live as they please.No objection on that one,not from my part.My question is:How far can this go?
For instance:Are two brothers going to have the right to get married? Adults, consenting, then why not? They won't have kids,so it's not a problem.This way,incest could be legalized.
And if two gay brothers have the right to get married, why not a brother and a sister?Consenting adults...
And what about polygamy? If three persons want to live together and legalize their union,why shouldn't they be allowed to? And I'm not talking about some guy having two wives that ignore the existance of the other one,that's cheating.I'm talking of a three-way marriage,where all three sign the papers,and they are all married to each other.
And this could go on and on.
I don't have an answer to that question,where exactly the State draws the line and says "stop".But if gay marriage is made legal (and I think it should be), then how could the State say "no" to something else,when it's based on the "two (or more) consenting adults choosing their own lifestyle" argument?
Any thoughts?