Eating Pussy / Pussy Eating Tips and Techniques
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Two things ...
Two things here ...
1. No experts
No one is an expert. Every woman is different. The only qualification that may say you're "an expert" is if you have really worked on not gaging, taking issue with hair, etc...
2. Comfort
Your comfort leads to her satisfcation. Learn to control your breathing (never force air into her), positioning that works comfortable (don't force yourself to take a position that is not) and just explore.
I personally have no problem with my wife's rather thick bush (I love it), have never gagged and I don't mind providing it on her period. That's just me. I'm comfortable with it. Some others have real problems with what I do. To each his own.
But I'm not an expert. Learned to enjoy many women, yes. But no one is an expert. Every woman is different. In fact, my wife's pleasure was the most difficult to crack, she was very much unlike any other woman. Although once I got down her preferences and made her feel comfortable, damn!
That should be your goal, for each woman individual.
Two things here ...
1. No experts
No one is an expert. Every woman is different. The only qualification that may say you're "an expert" is if you have really worked on not gaging, taking issue with hair, etc...
2. Comfort
Your comfort leads to her satisfcation. Learn to control your breathing (never force air into her), positioning that works comfortable (don't force yourself to take a position that is not) and just explore.
I personally have no problem with my wife's rather thick bush (I love it), have never gagged and I don't mind providing it on her period. That's just me. I'm comfortable with it. Some others have real problems with what I do. To each his own.
But I'm not an expert. Learned to enjoy many women, yes. But no one is an expert. Every woman is different. In fact, my wife's pleasure was the most difficult to crack, she was very much unlike any other woman. Although once I got down her preferences and made her feel comfortable, damn!
That should be your goal, for each woman individual.
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I love eating pussy. I was shocked to find how little of this my girlfriend got from prior boyfriends. What a bunch of losers.
For your first time, just concentrate on the idea that you want to make your lady feel good, and that will help you focus. Do a few times, and you'll notice that you've gotten a lot better at it, and that you are totally comfortable doing it.
Also, you'll find she'll be more than willing to do unto you as you have done unto her... :nanner:
I love eating pussy. I was shocked to find how little of this my girlfriend got from prior boyfriends. What a bunch of losers.
For your first time, just concentrate on the idea that you want to make your lady feel good, and that will help you focus. Do a few times, and you'll notice that you've gotten a lot better at it, and that you are totally comfortable doing it.
Also, you'll find she'll be more than willing to do unto you as you have done unto her... :nanner:
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If she goes down on you, its only fair that you go down on her. I love pussy, its such a turn on listening to a woman when she's being gone down on and its being done right. I've never known a girl that doesn't like it...but like I saw in previous post...she has keep it clean and etc.
If she goes down on you, its only fair that you go down on her. I love pussy, its such a turn on listening to a woman when she's being gone down on and its being done right. I've never known a girl that doesn't like it...but like I saw in previous post...she has keep it clean and etc.
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One thing you really want to keep in mind is how much most women enjoy it when you truly take your time about it. Just because you can lick her to a climax quickly shouldn't mean you have to! In fact, the more time you take to do it and the more you tease her and the longer you hold on her on the edge of a climax the better. This is especially true of those women who become so sensitive after a climax that continuing might be uncomfortable (although as my previous post stated even this problem can be overcome).
Another thing - no matter what the vids try to tell you, not all women like fingering. It can be a great thing at the right time but I've been told twice (good communications here!) by women after I've brought them to climax by simultaneous g-spot massage and licking that they actually preferred me to use tongue only since that made the session last longer before they came. That didn't mean they didn't enjoy my fingers because they were really responding to them I can tell you; they simply preferred a really prolonged session.
Hey, there are women here on the forum who can tell you about this! bwalk75 and all you other girls out there, I know you're there! Tell us about your sentiments regarding fingers and prolonged teasing, please!
One thing you really want to keep in mind is how much most women enjoy it when you truly take your time about it. Just because you can lick her to a climax quickly shouldn't mean you have to! In fact, the more time you take to do it and the more you tease her and the longer you hold on her on the edge of a climax the better. This is especially true of those women who become so sensitive after a climax that continuing might be uncomfortable (although as my previous post stated even this problem can be overcome).
Another thing - no matter what the vids try to tell you, not all women like fingering. It can be a great thing at the right time but I've been told twice (good communications here!) by women after I've brought them to climax by simultaneous g-spot massage and licking that they actually preferred me to use tongue only since that made the session last longer before they came. That didn't mean they didn't enjoy my fingers because they were really responding to them I can tell you; they simply preferred a really prolonged session.
Hey, there are women here on the forum who can tell you about this! bwalk75 and all you other girls out there, I know you're there! Tell us about your sentiments regarding fingers and prolonged teasing, please!
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like a friend once told me: "tonight I'm going to eat her till she's clean"
like a friend once told me: "tonight I'm going to eat her till she's clean"
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Well I was nervous my first time, but eventually, I took to it like a duck to water. It can be arousing and fun and great pleasure for both parties for you to go down on each other. I admitedly love my cock to be sucked (I was surprised to hear a few men say they don't care--interesting), and especially if she enjoys cum.
Fucking is still my favorite, but I always enjoy asking a woman what she's into--seriously listening, and telling her I wanna do my best to give her pleasure and orgasms--and I would say there's no special technique, but never be afriad to gently and softly ask her just what gives her pleasure, what she's into, and use lite lip play and also long 'ice cream licking' style strokes your first couple of nervous tries.
As many said, every woman I've ever gone down on (6 so far) has been pretty different, and I doubt ANY GUY is a master at the craft, but stick with it, as it's good for a guy to know how to give good head. C'mon, don't puss out. Of course I always felt ablidged, as the only second girl to ever go down on me let me cum in her mouth to experieance a 'porn scene' style fantasy, and I just loved it. Of course with my dietary habits at the time (sorry folks; no Pineapples or other fruit for me, at the time) she let me know it tastes terrible, and she needed two shots of cold Peptobesmo, but even still, making each other happy sexually is a must.
But also concentrate on fucking as well. That is a HUGE part of maintaining a good sexual relationship in my opinion; getting into good position and changing up habbits so that things don't get boring. Playing with clothing opinons and scenary changes (don't always just make love in the bedroom with lites dimmed, ect; change it up) in my mind, that all is of the main course, if you will, and giving head from either party is the desert part.
Good luck and enjoy.
Well I was nervous my first time, but eventually, I took to it like a duck to water. It can be arousing and fun and great pleasure for both parties for you to go down on each other. I admitedly love my cock to be sucked (I was surprised to hear a few men say they don't care--interesting), and especially if she enjoys cum.
Fucking is still my favorite, but I always enjoy asking a woman what she's into--seriously listening, and telling her I wanna do my best to give her pleasure and orgasms--and I would say there's no special technique, but never be afriad to gently and softly ask her just what gives her pleasure, what she's into, and use lite lip play and also long 'ice cream licking' style strokes your first couple of nervous tries.
As many said, every woman I've ever gone down on (6 so far) has been pretty different, and I doubt ANY GUY is a master at the craft, but stick with it, as it's good for a guy to know how to give good head. C'mon, don't puss out. Of course I always felt ablidged, as the only second girl to ever go down on me let me cum in her mouth to experieance a 'porn scene' style fantasy, and I just loved it. Of course with my dietary habits at the time (sorry folks; no Pineapples or other fruit for me, at the time) she let me know it tastes terrible, and she needed two shots of cold Peptobesmo, but even still, making each other happy sexually is a must.
But also concentrate on fucking as well. That is a HUGE part of maintaining a good sexual relationship in my opinion; getting into good position and changing up habbits so that things don't get boring. Playing with clothing opinons and scenary changes (don't always just make love in the bedroom with lites dimmed, ect; change it up) in my mind, that all is of the main course, if you will, and giving head from either party is the desert part.
Good luck and enjoy.
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For me, cunnilingus is what makes sex make sense to me! Nothing makes me feel more masculine or gives my selfconfidence a bigger boost than having pleasured a woman even better during a licking session than during the session before that one. It hasn't anything to do with domination or submission or whatever the heck. I love having a woman straddle my face and just selfishly use my mouth to her heart's content (if I may be allowed to use the f-word here - usually I hate that word in connection with cunnilingus... sounds too crude - anyway, it's like it's not me using my tongue to fuck her pussy, it's her using her pussy to fuck my tongue) just as much as I love holding a woman down after she has climaxed yet again while she's whimpering, writhing and alternately crying out with joy or begging me to stop as I continue to eat her out (if she really DOES find it too painful I can tell, believe me) and if you see any dominance or submission games in that then feel free to indulge in that misapprehension. When I go down on a woman I love her because during those moments she is the most important person in the world to me...
For me, cunnilingus is what makes sex make sense to me! Nothing makes me feel more masculine or gives my selfconfidence a bigger boost than having pleasured a woman even better during a licking session than during the session before that one. It hasn't anything to do with domination or submission or whatever the heck. I love having a woman straddle my face and just selfishly use my mouth to her heart's content (if I may be allowed to use the f-word here - usually I hate that word in connection with cunnilingus... sounds too crude - anyway, it's like it's not me using my tongue to fuck her pussy, it's her using her pussy to fuck my tongue) just as much as I love holding a woman down after she has climaxed yet again while she's whimpering, writhing and alternately crying out with joy or begging me to stop as I continue to eat her out (if she really DOES find it too painful I can tell, believe me) and if you see any dominance or submission games in that then feel free to indulge in that misapprehension. When I go down on a woman I love her because during those moments she is the most important person in the world to me...
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Gotta love the taste and smell - it's "ripe" maybe a few hours after she showers and maybe if she's been aroused a bit. A pussy that's too clean lacks aroma and flavor. One that needs a bath...well, I don't need to explain why that's a problem...
Gotta love the taste and smell - it's "ripe" maybe a few hours after she showers and maybe if she's been aroused a bit. A pussy that's too clean lacks aroma and flavor. One that needs a bath...well, I don't need to explain why that's a problem...
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Still waiting to hear how your first attempt went, Xbeer!
Still waiting to hear how your first attempt went, Xbeer!
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ditto. unfortunately, she's not that much into it. i have to get her into the mood.
ditto. unfortunately, she's not that much into it. i have to get her into the mood.
