quite simple, a woman and a man having sexual relations of any kind literally cannot be gay regardless of how you look at it or how squeamish it makes you feel. anyone who denies this and labels something between a man and woman homosexual is either close-minded, ignorant, insecure, jealous or any combination of those...if it's not your cup of tea that's perfectly fine and personally i'm not into it either but i won't rule it out for fear of being gay...gay is being sexually attracted to the member of the same sex and/or having sexual relations with the same sex as you.../thread