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SpexyAshleigh

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That's interesting. Again, you're perception is that the lifestyle is completely unacceptable. I find this incredibly disconcerting on many levels, mainly because of so-called Christian believers attitudes and the fact they have put their hand in creating this stigma that you and many others share. To be honest, I shared the same thought.

As you probably have figured out, I personally do not share the same feeling on non-Christians as many other Christians do. Once again, its pretty evident by my participation in this site. My issue is that believers tend to become way out of touch with reality, and have made a very POSITIVE thing, like having a realtionship with God, incredibly negative in the eyes of non-believers. It stands to reason by Christians that SpexyAshleigh DOES NOT have a relationship with God and DOES NOT desire to have one.

This may not be true.

The fact is, you just may have a relationship with God. Who am I to dictate what that is. You enjoy your lifestyle, it's what you chosen and how you've chosen to live, but does that disqualify you as a Christian??? Did it disqualify the thief on the cross next to Jesus??? The answer is absolutely not, but a lot of believers don't feel that way. My lifestyle in a lot of ways is not much different than yours. I was tought to lead people into building a realtionship with God, not to shoot arrows at their life. Its for this reason (and others) that I do not go to churches. After you do get a relationship going, your walk with that is just that... YOUR WALK.

Without going too much further, Spexy, you're thoughts and ideas about this whole thing are very typical and incredibly warranted, but why does this have to mean a guy like me MUST miss out out on a great girl like you? This is kinda what I struggle with when I tell people that I do have a relationship with God. My hope is that you do as well, regardless of lifestyle, brands, badges, and labels.

can you clarify if the original question was "would you ever date a person of faith?" or "would you ever date me"

Because I'm getting mixed signals here...

and my views on religion are PERFECTLY acceptable, and you know why? Because they're MINE. I can believe what I want, and I think I have the right to considering I was raised in a very religious home, attended church for nearly a decade, have studied the bible and understand its teachings and spent a semester at bible college. Yes I know Christian based faiths and no I don't want it in my life, either personally, or with a spouse. Who are you to say that my views on this question are "unnacceptable"? You are the reason why I dislike the mannerisms of people of faith- your "holier than thou" attitude is really starting to get on my nerves. I live my life for ME and you can agree or disagree with it, but you don't have the right to tell me that my beliefs and experiences with religion are "unacceptable".

Sorry but I've answered all of your questions with a smile on my face for the last couple of weeks but I'm finding you to be more and more insulting, and condescending with each post....at least to me. Other guys, please chime in and tell me if I'm overreacting here lol.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Listen hun, I'm here to answer questions and I'm happy to do so, but I don't want you to ask any more if you're going to pick apart my answers and insult them.

I'm just a camgirl, I'm here for you to enjoy, both physically and mentally. Pick my brain if you want, or just stare at my tits, I don't care...but don't piss me off. Don't insult me. And definitely don't preach to me, because thats not what I'm here for. I'm here to have fun, and this thread has become quite un-fun recently...so please chill out.
 
I'm really not picking up on what you are reading out of this, but I implore you not to take in this manner. I don't know if you picked up on this, but we are in agreeance here:

You: my views on religion are PERFECTLY acceptable, and you know why? Because they're MINE. I can believe what I want, and I think I have the right to considering I was raised in a very religious home, attended church for nearly a decade, have studied the bible and understand its teachings and spent a semester at bible college. Yes I know Christian based faiths and no I don't want it in my life, either personally, or with a spouse. Who are you to say that my views on this question are "unnacceptable"? You are the reason why I dislike the mannerisms of people of faith- your "holier than thou" attitude is really starting to get on my nerves. I live my life for ME and you can agree or disagree with it, but you don't have the right to tell me that my beliefs and experiences with religion are "unacceptable".

Me: The fact is, you just may have a relationship with God. Who am I to dictate what that is. You enjoy your lifestyle, it's what you chosen and how you've chosen to live, but does that disqualify you as a Christian??? Did it disqualify the thief on the cross next to Jesus??? The answer is absolutely not, but a lot of believers don't feel that way. My lifestyle in a lot of ways is not much different than yours. I was tought to lead people into building a realtionship with God, not to shoot arrows at their life. Its for this reason (and others) that I do not go to churches. After you do get a relationship going, your walk with that is just that... YOUR WALK.



I honestly think you're reading my post incorrectly, but per your request, I will not continue. I certainly didn't intend in any way to insult you, and never attacked you any way, so it's a little difficult for me to see where you're coming from.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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And I'm PMS-ing. And have been getting alot of "faith based" questions/lectures as of late by more than one person on here and on other sites...its just one of the things that hits a nerve because of what I do. I have guys coming to my chatroom every day to preach at me and try to "save" me from being "whore" lol.

But I just don't appreciate being asked for my opinion and feeling like its getting ripped apart.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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I just don't think discussions on religion have a place on an adult forum. Hypocritical to me, but its also just useless because its one of the few topics where NO one will ever agree on anything so its just people spewing their opinions with no one caring to listen.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Anyways, I'm gonna shut up now, I'm sorry if I came off as bitchy. Just don't like my answers to be looked into anything more than they are- just the opinions of an internet camgirl which are worth about as much as a horses ass. ;)
 
OOOOOOOHHHHHH... I know now what you see:

My total bad. I made that a little difficult to understand. What I was meaning to get across is that your ideas about this are MORE THAN UNDERSTANDABLE because of how believers act toward other peoples lifestyles. Like you said, you get a lot of this in chatrooms, and that is why I understand your reasoning. I also do not not appreciate the arrow shooting into peoples lives that some 'Christians' do. I don't think you are a whore or anything of the sort, and I'm not trying to 'save' you in any way. I just wanted to know your thoughts on this, and it seems we share a lot of the same ideas.




Again, I'm totally sorry for making that a diffcult read. Trust me, I am agreeing with your assessments more than anything.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Yeah I think you just worded it to make it sound like my views aren't ok.

But I'm also hopped up on meds right now (bronchitis blah) so I'm a wee bit loopy anyways.

Anyhoo, water under the bridge...bottom line is religious people would make horrible spouses for camgirls/pornstars lol
 
A Symbian Party sounds pretty good, of course, but I'm thinking that should Spexy bring home the crown in any of her categories...we gotta be thinking BIG PICTURE....like epic "event" that garners the local news!

"Stay tuned to Channel 7. When we return we'll meet a local camgirl who decided to celebrate her winning X by...."
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Ash lets forget about religion and talk about cocks! :D My question is... can a man whom you dearly love STILL satisfy you sexually if he cannot get it up, but wears a dildo as a substiute for his penor? ie.. would you still feel good knowing that he is screwing you with a rubber dick and not his own? :(
 
i'm sick too (not bronchitis mind you) and nyquil is only helping so much, you have my sympathies

what's your favorite adam sandler movie?
are you as surprised as i am that marky mark has turned into a pretty good actor?
 

SpexyAshleigh

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What was the gift you liked the most for Christmas (2010's one) ?

Hmmm...I didn't really get a lot of gifts this year. I got a dvd bought off my wishlist...my dad sent me a digital photo frame...mom sent me PJ's...you know, regular stuff. It was a depressing and lonely Xmas, but its all good...next one will be better.

A Symbian Party sounds pretty good, of course, but I'm thinking that should Spexy bring home the crown in any of her categories...we gotta be thinking BIG PICTURE....like epic "event" that garners the local news!

"Stay tuned to Channel 7. When we return we'll meet a local camgirl who decided to celebrate her winning X by...."
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fingers crossed! It was all up to you guys so I have no one to blame but you mofos if I lose :tongue: hahaha jks.

Ash lets forget about religion and talk about cocks! :D My question is... can a man whom you dearly love STILL satisfy you sexually if he cannot get it up, but wears a dildo as a substiute for his penor? ie.. would you still feel good knowing that he is screwing you with a rubber dick and not his own? :(

If I was truly in love and he was the love of my life...then I wouldn't even slightly care if his dick didn't work. I can masturbate, or he could pleasure me orally if he really wanted to be intimate. There are many other things in a relationship that trump sex.

Do you find military men or just men in uniform attractive?

I suppose so...as long as the guy wearing the uniform is cool.

Hope you're feeling better soon. Do you believe chivalry is dead?

Yeah it is...unfortunately. I wish it wasn't but with women demanding equality, chivalry kind of went out the window along with it. :(
 
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