anal answers

[Ashleigh]

I'm not a fan. Well...not entirely.

I loveee a finger being put up there, or a tongue. Love being tonguefucked. But when it comes to the peen, no thanks. Its uncomfortable, and isn't something that would even get me off. I'm a g-spot girl. And I'm not one of those girls who will do something for their partner, even if it causes me pain. Call me selfish, but pleasure HAS to be mutual in my relationships.

But fingers, small toys and tongues are readily welcomed

 

[Gomorra]

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[rad2927]

I had a girlfriend who was really into it and I enjoyed it but I drop it if I ask anyone else if they would like to try. There are so many other fun things to do that I can give up one.

 

[sonoman]

I'm a g-spot girl.

Anal provides great g-spot stimulation, and the orgasms are intense.

 

[TheShoot]

Its a bit late, but here is my two cents.

I dont thinks its more gross than many other sexual acts. We just got used to many of them and except them as "normal" now. People prob felt the same about oral sex 40 years ago ?

I think to each his own. To try and answer the original question though. I think 50% of men would still slate it, but given the chance to try it with a beatiful woman, alone, they would.

I have been married for 20 years to a very beatiful woman. We both decided to try it to see if we would like it. Nikki is right - it hurt. Later we tried again. Now we do it once in a while, and both really enjoy it. (Take a hot slow bath together, anal eaze, finger, small vibrator, little bigger vibrator, bigger vibrator and viola !. No hurry and lots of lube) The only check is that she visited the bathroom that day. Never had any gross incidents. Realy feels as natural as normal penetration. Dont use a condom.

I like the look on her face. She looses herself completely. Takes a minute or two to get her back to reality afterwards.

 

[Rey C.]

do you think it's just the taboo of it in peoples minds that mke it so appealing?

Depending on the mood and the girl, I love it! As for the why, I think it's in your question above: it's that naughty/kinky/taboo factor. Plus the first girl I had anal sex with was someone who I'd lusted after since about 8th grade. By the time we got together, she was easily one of the Top 5 hotties at my high school. And she had the roundest, most beautiful bubble butt! I remember it like it was yesterday... me thinking to myself, "I am ass fucking the Homecoming Queen! Life_is_good!!!" :nanner: I've been a major ass fan ever since.

Over the years, it's just become that "special thing" that I enjoy with the right girl. The only semi-gross thing might be the prep that the girl should do for sanitary reasons. But if you're playing Dom/sub games (which I also enjoy), even that can be erotic. A nice dinner, a good OTK spanking, an enema and a good doggy-style anal session... then cuddle up and watch a movie while sitting in front of the fireplace. Well that's just about the perfect evening, yeah? :thumbsup:

And from the girl's perspective there's got to be a lot of trust for the guy. As a guy, that tells me that she trusts me not to hurt her. Would you agree with that?

 

[iv6789]

I'm pretty sure I'm going to make my wife read this thread. We're just now getting into ass play. i.e. fingers and toys, and she loves it. Even asks for it on occasions. I'm usually the initiator, but I'm not sure if it's because she's too embarrased to ask or if she's thinking more of....whatever floats his boat. I do know she's worried about it hurting, but I've tried to explain that I'll stop if it really hurts.

All in all I think she's just nervous.

 

[Smallville417]

I enjoy anal sex, and don't find it disgusting at all. My girlfriend is really starting to get into it, and it really turns me on big time.

 

[Shadowslayer77]

Nope never tried... However am an ass man from waaaaaaaay back. Always wanted to at least try it and decide for myself.

Oh by the way Nikki as far as asses go....... Yours is YUMMY!!!!

 

[Peachy]

I think it depends on the girl. It's not about the physical feeling because fucking an ass is not as enjoyable as fucking a pussy. Her ass is tight but just at one point, and from there on inside it's not tight at all and there is almost no sensation. In her pussy there is warm lovely sensation all the way in.

It depends on the girl because it's a mind thing. Some girls are hot and spicy and there is an 'edge' to the sex. Anal is great there. Some girls are sensual and warm and lovely and lovable. Anal is not the best here.

Only one girl was 100% anal material for me in the last two years. A polish girl who loved to be fucked from behind while I held her throat (not tightly) and put a finger in her mouth while telling her she was my Polish bitch.... she loved it.. she asked me to say it ! and she was HOT !! so when I fucked her ass from behind she absolutely LOVED it together with the other stuff... and it felt so .. spicy and dirty and amazing !! jeeeez

Oye.. I wish she hadn't gone home :-(

 

[Cido123]

2) Yes and I LOVED it.
And my Gf loved too :hatsoff:

 

[abejarano12]

I have had anal sex with my ex-gf and she did not enjoy it, although I did, we never did it again. I think because it is so taboo most people find it gross. I think for people enjoy it they have try and put aside the idea that it gross.

 

[NikkiNova]

awwwww. thank you shadow!!!! xoxoxoxo My ass thanks you too.
xoxxo
Nikki Nova

Nope never tried... However am an ass man from waaaaaaaay back. Always wanted to at least try it and decide for myself.

Oh by the way Nikki as far as asses go....... Yours is YUMMY!!!!

 

[NikkiNova]

awwww. I'm sorry she left sweetie. Did she have a kelbasa at home for her ? hahah
xoxox
Nikki Nova

I think it depends on the girl. It's not about the physical feeling because fucking an ass is not as enjoyable as fucking a pussy. Her ass is tight but just at one point, and from there on inside it's not tight at all and there is almost no sensation. In her pussy there is warm lovely sensation all the way in.

It depends on the girl because it's a mind thing. Some girls are hot and spicy and there is an 'edge' to the sex. Anal is great there. Some girls are sensual and warm and lovely and lovable. Anal is not the best here.

Only one girl was 100% anal material for me in the last two years. A polish girl who loved to be fucked from behind while I held her throat (not tightly) and put a finger in her mouth while telling her she was my Polish bitch.... she loved it.. she asked me to say it ! and she was HOT !! so when I fucked her ass from behind she absolutely LOVED it together with the other stuff... and it felt so .. spicy and dirty and amazing !! jeeeez

Oye.. I wish she hadn't gone home :-(

 

[hedonis]

Done it, and will do it again! I love it, and it's great to be married to someone who loves it as well. We've done DPs as well, and she really likes those.

There's just a different feel to it, and for me, it still has that naughty factor as well, so that's a bonus. And have I had stuff up there? Damn right, and the best thing I can tell you about that:

Best.... orgasm.... ever....


Great thread, Nikki!

 

[coachturnmire]

2. Yes i did it about 3 or 4 times so far.....i really enjoyed it, it was definelty sumthing i was curious about before i actually got to experiemnt with it. At times it was always better than fuckin pussy i guess because it was so tight in there and i loved that feeling. I really cant wait to do it some more if i get the chance too

 

[nathan13]

im down for whatever depends on the girl im with i had one that only liked anal sex and others that said " no fucking way you can put it there"