Doesn't that exclude any form of penetration then?
Or do you mean that if you were a guy you wouldn't wanna do it yourself, maybe I just misunderstood
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Or do you mean that if you were a guy you wouldn't wanna do it yourself, maybe I just misunderstood
Hi Nikki, now a girl's perspective.
After our marriage, we two were highly adventurous. I was the cat who used to get killed. dd was not sure but I insisted on the anal sex. As we read, there was lots of foreplay and a few front play. Then I relaxed and dd tried to get the head in using lots of Ky on the aperture as well as the meat-tube. I was breathing hard as I was told to relax my ass. And dd advanced. Then I screamed like a stuck pig. The curiosity killed the cat once again. He was only half head-lodged.
Titillating the ass and hole with the dick is good for a foreplay, and we use the same a lot now. But Never try for an entry again.
After our marriage, we two were highly adventurous. I was the cat who used to get killed. dd was not sure but I insisted on the anal sex. As we read, there was lots of foreplay and a few front play. Then I relaxed and dd tried to get the head in using lots of Ky on the aperture as well as the meat-tube. I was breathing hard as I was told to relax my ass. And dd advanced. Then I screamed like a stuck pig. The curiosity killed the cat once again. He was only half head-lodged.
Titillating the ass and hole with the dick
is good for a foreplay, and we use the same a lot now. But Never try for an entry again.Hey Nikki,
Good that you started a thread like this. I personally love anal, but a lot of women are not comfortable doing it... I dont know why. I ve had fingers up mine some times doesnt feel that bad. I think it is more of a mental taboo.
HIM
Good that you started a thread like this. I personally love anal, but a lot of women are not comfortable doing it... I dont know why. I ve had fingers up mine some times doesnt feel that bad. I think it is more of a mental taboo.
HIM
I certainly wouldn't answer "No, I think it's gross" (for BOTH possible reasons - that's a flawed survey question, btw ).
But I can see how some might say that.
Unless she is uniquely clean or does the enema thing, there's always the chance you'll have something gross smeared on her ass, leg, on your cock, the sheets, etc. and that kind of puts a damper on the fun.
No matter how much one spins it (pun intended, I guess), it's still the hole we all shit from, and that is its EXCLUSIVE biologically-designed purpose - but I don't mean that we can't freely use it for whatever our imagination comes up with! (In other words, that's not some disguised homophobic or anti-anal talking point)...
Anal can be pleasurable and fun, but I think the porn world really overdoes it on the anal and overemphasizes it. Actually, I would say that porn tends to make it seem more disgusting than it really typically is, what with all the anal gaping and prolapse garbage out there...
The porn world should make anal a rare treat, not as common as say, shitting.
).But I can see how some might say that.
Unless she is uniquely clean or does the enema thing, there's always the chance you'll have something gross smeared on her ass, leg, on your cock, the sheets, etc. and that kind of puts a damper on the fun.
No matter how much one spins it (pun intended, I guess), it's still the hole we all shit from, and that is its EXCLUSIVE biologically-designed purpose - but I don't mean that we can't freely use it for whatever our imagination comes up with! (In other words, that's not some disguised homophobic or anti-anal talking point)...
Anal can be pleasurable and fun, but I think the porn world really overdoes it on the anal and overemphasizes it. Actually, I would say that porn tends to make it seem more disgusting than it really typically is, what with all the anal gaping and prolapse garbage out there...
The porn world should make anal a rare treat, not as common as say, shitting.
I'm a big fan of anal sex, personally. Although a lot of chicks seem to be pretty against it. It's just, when I see a nice ass, I want it, you know what I mean? There's something about getting a girl to try it with you that makes it that much more enjoyable. Maybe it is the taboo factor. It's also a big trust factor. When a woman digs you enough to let you try that, it's a HUGE confidence boost. Doesn't hurt when they have an amazing ass too. Plus...it just feels good.
I could never be in a relationship with someone that was unwillingly to at least try anal.
I could never be in a relationship with someone that was unwillingly to at least try anal.
NikkiNova
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Ok there are a TON of questions here and I will tackle them a couple at a time as well as address some points little by little
blake-a finger only works when you put it in at the right andle and hitting the right spot..especially for me. I would siggest shooting blusolstoce a private message and asking him how to do just that since he is a guy and has experince in the matter. He s also a friend of mine and I trust him to be friendly and trusworthy and helpful to you and others.
ok so postition- almost everyone does it doggy out of the gate for the simple reason of getting it in where it needs to be. I personally have found however tha missionary is really nice as far as the way it feels and the ability to work the agle a bit better on where it needs ot hit in me to actually have an anal oprgasm. YES there IS such a thing in women as well and yes it is fantastic
first time- the first time for ANYONE...male or female...hurts. It just does. It is just like the first time a woman has vaginal sex. It hurts. You are stretching and working muscles that have not been worked before...so...be slow and gentle and maybe just start with afiner and work your way up to 2 fingers or a small toy before trying to shove you dick in there hahah On that same note..it is NOT a pussy...so for those of you who are rough and like to pund away at the pussy...it is NOT a pussy and you can't fuck it like that.
That's all for now. more answeres later hahaha
blake-a finger only works when you put it in at the right andle and hitting the right spot..especially for me. I would siggest shooting blusolstoce a private message and asking him how to do just that since he is a guy and has experince in the matter. He s also a friend of mine and I trust him to be friendly and trusworthy and helpful to you and others.
ok so postition- almost everyone does it doggy out of the gate for the simple reason of getting it in where it needs to be. I personally have found however tha missionary is really nice as far as the way it feels and the ability to work the agle a bit better on where it needs ot hit in me to actually have an anal oprgasm. YES there IS such a thing in women as well and yes it is fantastic
first time- the first time for ANYONE...male or female...hurts. It just does. It is just like the first time a woman has vaginal sex. It hurts. You are stretching and working muscles that have not been worked before...so...be slow and gentle and maybe just start with afiner and work your way up to 2 fingers or a small toy before trying to shove you dick in there hahah On that same note..it is NOT a pussy...so for those of you who are rough and like to pund away at the pussy...it is NOT a pussy and you can't fuck it like that.
That's all for now. more answeres later hahaha
squallumz
knows petras secret: she farted.
anal gets me really hot. i love watching and just got done watching some awesome POV anal stuff. oh katin, shes got such a nice ass...
anyway, its super hot. the more i can get it, the happier i am. when people have bad experiences, i feel bad for them. ima say 99 times out a hundred, the guy rushed the experiment and now shes not digging it. anal does take prep, you have to be slow... very slow. gentle. start small. finger, small anal plug, relaxed. tons of good lube. dont rush, by god dont rush.
and yes, its true. some girls can cum real hard that way.
anyway, its super hot. the more i can get it, the happier i am. when people have bad experiences, i feel bad for them. ima say 99 times out a hundred, the guy rushed the experiment and now shes not digging it. anal does take prep, you have to be slow... very slow. gentle. start small. finger, small anal plug, relaxed. tons of good lube. dont rush, by god dont rush.
and yes, its true. some girls can cum real hard that way.
awwww, i'm blushing now hehehehe.
I like anal sex. And I like both sides "giving" an "receiving".
I'm just feelin this way - and this since my puberty.
And I'm lucky as hell that there is a girl on my side sharing this bias.
Lovely greetings to you Nikki!
(I feel very relieved, seeing you coming back after your accident)
I'm just feelin this way - and this since my puberty.
And I'm lucky as hell that there is a girl on my side sharing this bias.
Lovely greetings to you Nikki!
(I feel very relieved, seeing you coming back after your accident)
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the_searcher
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why do you have such a blatant disrespect for your body and dignity allowing some cretin to sodomize you?
It might seem gross, but when in the mood and if done gently and properly, it gets me and my gf way better orgasms. The thought of it alone makes my gf horny and kinky.
In my experience it's different strokes for different folks..both literally and figuratively. Some are turned off by the thought. Some try it once and are turned off by the consequences, especially if not done properly. Some learn to appreciate it and make it a part of their sex life.
I love anal sex, but I think between the sexes, more men than women go for it, and as the old cliche goes..you need 2 to tango.
I love anal sex, but I think between the sexes, more men than women go for it, and as the old cliche goes..you need 2 to tango.
Although I don't consider anal sex as gross and actually, there are some anal sex scenes in my skin flick collection I have really enjoyed, I have never tried it - not even indulged in fantasies about it. It may look enjoyable in some films, but my pleasure that arises from watching it has never surpassed that one from watching vaginal sex scenes. I must say that, from my point of view as a porn consumer, there is nothing special about anal sex for me and the obsession of some porn fans for anal sex is completely behind my capability of understanding. I have neither had need for trying it nor have I ever been asked by my girlfriend to do it, but if she were interested in trying it, I wouldn't mind it nor would I refuse her idea.
It's one of those things that mainstream culture popularized. You watch a rap video and you see asses shaking all over the place. You see porn and a lot of the women have nice bubble butts, plump butts, and round butts. Not all, mind you...
Thus, for some, the next thing is. Gee, I love staring that butt. I want to fuck it now! Thus the desensitization creeps up and before you know it you are taking it up the ass. Perhaps DP.
Thing is, some people still feel uptight about it all. I mean, after all, it is where you sit down on a white porcelain chair and proceed to push out bodily waste and the occasional diarrhea. You can see why some people get uncomfortable with it.
All in all, it comes down to preference. Personal hygiene opinions and outlook.
Others might think it is "gay" to want to stick your cock in a girl's ass.
It's just a personal preference. Like oral sex...
Thus, for some, the next thing is. Gee, I love staring that butt. I want to fuck it now! Thus the desensitization creeps up and before you know it you are taking it up the ass. Perhaps DP.
Thing is, some people still feel uptight about it all. I mean, after all, it is where you sit down on a white porcelain chair and proceed to push out bodily waste and the occasional diarrhea. You can see why some people get uncomfortable with it.
All in all, it comes down to preference. Personal hygiene opinions and outlook.
Others might think it is "gay" to want to stick your cock in a girl's ass.
It's just a personal preference. Like oral sex...
