anal answers

well, you got me there. a finger in the shower yes, just to see what all the fuss was about. I found the experience; meh.
 
Often it seems that there is something very school boyish about how it is presented though. It always seems to be promoted as being "extra dirty" somehow. I assume it is marketed this way because people want to see it. I'm not the therapist but there must be a need in a lot of people to watch this taboo. What are people projecting onto this experience?
 
Does it feel good for the woman? My girlfriend wanted me to last night but we couldnt get it in.

1.)How much lube do you need?
2.)Does saliva work or is it better to buy the stuff at the store?
3.)Do condoms make it harder to do get going?

I have so many questions.

4.)What position works bst for the first time? doggy? misionary? or some crazy shit?

5.)If I dont use a condom and cum inside will she have an extended bathroom break after?

I have more questions they just arent coming to me. Sorry if any of these are to much but its not often you get to ask someone who is an expert of sorts in anal.

thank you
 
I have 3 different times with the same ex g/f before. She loved it, I liked doing it to her because she like it and orgasmed from it.

What people don't realize is anal sex is not something you spontaneously do..or else it can be "gross".

In this case, she knew what to do and how to prepare to have anal sex which was making sure she was properly cleaned out and relatively sterile by using feminine hygiene products.

It was a good experience and it felt different in the sense that when a woman cums while you're in her pussy you can feel most of the inside of her pussy constricting and pulsating around you're dick. While fucking a chick's ass you feel her asshole tighten around your dick.:2 cents:
 
Never done ! I scared of giving pain to my partner ! May be I'm wrong, I don't know ?!
 
I like watching anal sex but have never gotten to do that with anyone. I once brought it up to one girl once but she said no :( I still wanna try it with someone. Hopefully they give themselves enemas on a regular basis.

There was one girl who wanted me to put a finger in her ass while we were 69ing and I found it very hot
 
i was reading this thread on my blackberry today and couldn't remember my friggin password,lol. yea pretty much everything Nikki said, and one more thing. olive oil is your friend, it doesn't dissipate like the water base lubes and it doesn't burn for the woman like a petroleum lube can. and if she wants to go ass to mouth it can be a little more tasty as well with a good quality olive oil,lol.
the biggest difference i can tell btw vaginal and anal sex is with anal you can definitely feel what's going on with your woman, if you're hitting a good spot or a bad spot isn't hard to figure out,hahaha. and as for having somthing up my butt as well, yea i've done that too. i suggest if you're not married trying to hook up with a nurse for your next girlfriend and tell her you want a prostate massage while getting a blow job. AMAZING.
 
I am a definite ass man with a serious fetish. I can't get enough female ass--I love the way it looks, the way it feels. I've had anal sex in the past and will have it again in the future, and I've had a number of woman insert their fingers in my ass and I've enjoyed the sensation.

As with everything, precautions must be taken and cleanliness is de rigueur. I am not into pain, either giving or receiving, and frankly, I don't understand anyone who would be. If my female partner is not into it, then neither am I.
 

georges

Moderator
Staff member
I did it when I was with my former g/f some years ago. She liked it, there was a long preparation with foreplay (fingering) and of course lube. To go gently especially when the chick has never done anal in her life is essential before doing anal.
 
If my female partner is not into it, then neither am I.

What? You dont have your own thoughts and opinions if she dont want it dont push the issue but dont adopt her beliefs just to get laid that makes you spineless.
 
Have to admit that the "taboo" aspect of it was probably the largest factor in wanting to try it so bad! The experience was great, and she loved it as well. Its something we do once in a while, although she enjoys a finger or thumb there more often than not!

Lots of lube and it seems to go very well!
 
What? You dont have your own thoughts and opinions if she dont want it dont push the issue but dont adopt her beliefs just to get laid that makes you spineless.

Excuse me? I had to read that three or four times before I could figure out what you were trying to say.

I never said I wouldn't try my best to convince my partner to give it a go, but I don't see how my not forcing someone to do something they don't want to do because they don't experience any pleasure in it makes me spineless.

And by the way, please try to write a complete sentence in standard English, okay? Thanks.
 

satyrsam

The Anal Connoisseur
Does it feel good for the woman? My girlfriend wanted me to last night but we couldnt get it in.

My girlfriend loves it, it really enhances her orgasms. You need to get her ass ready before trying to thrust your cock in there.

1.)How much lube do you need?

When you think you've added too much, add some more.
2.)Does saliva work or is it better to buy the stuff at the store?
Buy water based lube, saliva works but you'll too much in the beginning.

3.)Do condoms make it harder to do get going?

Condoms makes it easier, it doesn't absorb as the lube as your skin does. If you're not circumcised then it should be easier without a condom. The foreskin helps the insertion.

I have so many questions.

4.)What position works bst for the first time? doggy? misionary? or some crazy shit?

Doggy is great, but it might be harder for her to take in the beginning. If she lies on her stomach she should be more relaxed and you can lie down on he back and take her from behind.

5.)If I dont use a condom and cum inside will she have an extended bathroom break after?

She should have a bathroom break no mater what you do. The length of the break depends on her.

I have more questions they just arent coming to me. Sorry if any of these are to much but its not often you get to ask someone who is an expert of sorts in anal.

thank you

Ask as many as you would like I'm sure there are many here that will be happy to answer them.
 
Anal sex, porn's original circus act. Like all circus acts in porn I think it's kind of stupid.

I never got the whole anal sex thing. It does absolutely nothing to appeal to me. In fact it not only doesn’t appeal to me but it's a huge turnoff. I have lost count to the number of scenes ruined because of it, and it being so prevalent for some reason so much now irritates me to no end. At least in the past you didn't have to go out of your way not to see it.
 
And by the way, please try to write a complete sentence in standard English, okay? Thanks.

There are about three standard english sentences in there. It us helps, if your trying to correct peoples puncuation, if you know what your talking about. Especially, when you use a Question mark where a period should go, or are you confused?
 

biomech

Virtus Junxit Mors Non Separabit
Anal sexis good for a change of pace,a couple of girls I dated were really into it.
Its good to try something different every once in a while
 
I think that anal sex is very intimate. If done right it can be very enjoyable. Of course necessary hygienic preparations should be made before starting. I've done it, and though my partners have not asked me, I would probably try it on me - hey what I ask from them, I have to be prepared to give the same ...... right?
 
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