Addicted to Porn--How do I stop?

[horny nikka]

ive been watching porn evr sinc i was 12 years old, when i saw my first lesbian porno...id always been curious back then what sex was like, and i was very excited when i saw lesbian porn...when i saw my first hardcore scene i was extremely confused, because no one ever taught me about sex before, i basically learned from porn

so yeah, 7 years has ****** since then, and i still watch, only problem now is that its completely ruining my life. ill spend at least 3 hours a day looking at porn, and masturabte a maximum of twice a day. ive had to spend over $1000 total to get my computer fixed, because i frequently get viruses (keyloggers most often) when i search for porn. two months ago i had my first girlfriend ever, she was an extremely sweet girl who was actually going somewhere in her life. i found that i spent more time looking at porn rather than talking with my girlfriend, i thought that the fact that i had a girlfriend would ***** me away from porn...we eventually broke up after 3 weeks, mainly because there wasn't enough communication, and now im back where i started...lonely, dont know which direction im going in...

its extremely tough, because ive tried several times to ***** myself away from porn. ive gone to two counselors before, and they said if i have such a strong interest in porn, that i should consider working in the porn industry...however i have no idea what i could do, because i certainly dont have the body type to be a male pornstar, nor the experience in sex; i cant edit or direct films, i dont know what to do...is there any way possible i can stop my addiction?

 

[bigbadbrody]

Get rid of your computer

 

[FreeThugz]

Chop you're hands off :thumbsup:

 

[AFA]

Someone else asked this question here a while ago.

Isn't this like walking into a bar and asking drunks how to quit ********? Or asking obese people the best way to lose weight?

 

[BlueBalls]

Like I said to the other guy, just run with it if you have to be addicted to anything porn is it.

 

[murdock]

if you are too embarrassed to seek professional help, you should look on the internet for guides and such. they also have forums dedicated to porn addictions

 

[horny nikka]

Chop you're hands off :thumbsup:

then id use my feet :nanner:

 

[slowhand]

Its just like smoking and ******** its all in your head you just need something to replace your porn with something else just my :2 cents::dunno:

 

[tartanterrier]

You just need some good sex for yourself and then you won't have too much time to look at porn

 

[McNab]

Sometimes if I download A LOT of porn I won't bother with it for weeks, sometimes months, I feel porned-out.

 

[MRPIMPN4EVA]

I've actually not been able to enjoy porn bcuz of a move.:fight:

 

[anthony22]

Just quit cold turkey by trying really hard to ***** yourself not to look at it. Not turning on your computer helps. Go to an internet cafe to check your emails or whatever cause you'd be to embarrassed to look at porn there. Also it would help if you occupied yourself with some proactive activities. You've got to keep busy because if you have lots of spare time you'll feel bored and eventually you'll end up looking at porn. Take up sports, swimming, working out, martial arts, dancing, and check that your ex girlfriend again. I hope this helps.

 

[i_love_panties]

After one week of no porn...i'll start to get porn images in my head and finding new hobbies still doesn't cut it cause after working out, playing ball, washing car and going out to clubs etc. I still find myself fapping away @ the end of the night...it does help you rest easier though.

Really: it's mind over matter BUT that's easier said then done. It's easier for some than others....unfortunately i'm the "others".

Word of advice:
Don't cum here anymore "horny nikka" (i ***)
Throw away your computer...no wait, that's just as saying: throw your life away, don't do that.
Seriously though...."mind over matter" AND get yourself a new g/f :thumbsup:

Welcome to FreeOnes BTW :wave:

 

[member006]

Find an addiction to replace it. Like gardening, painting or something that won't cause cancer or ***** driving.

LL

 

[AverageAllStar]

Hey it could be worse, you could always be an alcoholic, smoker, and porn addict like myself :helpme:

 

[McNab]

Wasn't Ted Bundy a porn addict?

 

[Imagine]

ive gone to two counselors before, and they said if i have such a strong interest in porn, that i should consider working in the porn industry...

What? What kind of idiots are you seeing? That's like telling an alcoholic to get a job at a brewery.

Just quit. ***** it if you have to. There's no patch. Find something to do with your time, like a hobby or work or studies, whatever floats your boat. Get professional help if you need it (from people who are not morons, that is).

 

[SimonMK]

Consult a sexologist like I been doing for a while.

 

[spiderprint]

Well.hell.you could be addicted to ******* people. Guess that would be worse.

 

[SandeeW.Fan]

Maybe find yourself a hobby like football or running.
Instead of watching pron for 3 hours a day, run for 3 hours a day. Buy yourself and iPod, copy some cool music on it, and Run..

Just like Forrest!