Would you watch your woman being banged?
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bigbadbrody
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I just really do not see the point of that kind of stuff. If I was married or had a GF and my they wanted to do something like that I would be totally insulted. How bad does my performance in bed have to suck, if she would want to do something like that? Even if it was just suggested and never actually happened, I don't know if I would be able to still be with my wife or GF after that.
So my answer is: NO
So my answer is: NO
dave_rhino
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I wouldn't find it hot at all. Not in the slightest. I wouldn't really wanna watch a guy fucking ANY girl, so forget my own woman... 
I fantasized that I left on vacation with my girlfriend and then met a couple who was about our age there. Eventually we got drunk and than we all fucked in hotel room. I told this story to my girlfriend when I was banging her and I asked her if she would go with this guy (from the story) on a little trip to an island where he would bang her nuts. She moaned yes and came.
We both imagine that when we're horny, but there's another story in reality.
I am also very jealous person and i couln't possibly handle that.
We both imagine that when we're horny, but there's another story in reality.
I am also very jealous person and i couln't possibly handle that.
Assumptions are the enemy ...
I'm glad I've found a lover that wanted a pure, monogamous marriage. It makes me feel the most comfortable and has the least complexity. But should she ever change in the coming decades, I am ready to accept her desires.
Have several friends paying alimony right now, even though their wives totally slept around while they were saints.
Then it's best to have a lover that shares your same values. Be open with her about this when you get serious so you are not surprised later. And people do change, and they don't mean it as an insult at all.
Rarely is it about "performance." In many cases, it's about feeling wanted and desired. And in others, its about the fact that some men and women just don't want to settle down with one man or woman.
To each his own. As I said, it's probably best to bring this up before you get serious with someone. I've seen too many married people break up because one lover wasn't honest before the wedding, and feel back into what they really wanted (multiple partners) later.
Again, the answer isn't always that a woman wants someone other than you or that you don't "live up to her standards." It's really about what you and she want. If you and she agree that you want a monogamous relationship, then that's probably best for your marriage.
I'm glad I've found a lover that wanted a pure, monogamous marriage. It makes me feel the most comfortable and has the least complexity. But should she ever change in the coming decades, I am ready to accept her desires.
Just remember that in many US states, cheating on your spouse does not forfeit many rights. E.g., a spouse who cheats on his/her spouse does not entitle her/him to any less ownership of assets, right to alimony, etc... you have to show other circumstances than "he/she cheated on me!" Most people don't realize that many states are blind when it comes to sexual misconduct on its own, unless it actually causes harm to another party (such as children), and even that may only factor into other things (e.g., custody), and not work against their rights in the divorce.
Have several friends paying alimony right now, even though their wives totally slept around while they were saints.
only if it was a lesbian thing.
i would have to say no. im a one chick kind of guy. and i hope my GF is one guy kind of girl. and i think she is. meaning to me. that we dont cheat on eachother. and if i was to sit there watching her fuck a guy. to me that would be cheating. and the same goes with me doing the same thing with a girl. one thing ive said to her is that if she wanted to have sex with her girl friends. i wouldnt mind. and i dont mind. because i look at to girls haveing sex. as more of playing around then sex.
thedude6926
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NO way... She is one of them innocent girls. I got to keep that to myself!
thedude6926
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I wouldn't mind being the guy that banged the guys woman though!
its fun to watch another guys wife get torn apart but if it came down to my wife getting fucked by another guy i woodnt allow it...the only way wood be if she let me fuk another girl while she watched nd mayb joined in but i dont like the idea of another guy getting in my wifes pussy and having his cumshot on her...NEVER!!!
Hell no!
my man would not be into that; there is no way I want him to just watch nor would he be open to it.
At best I might be able to do what is allowed - a bj, while I get it from the other guy but let him slide between my tits too;
interesting thread, most responses are saying no way!
At best I might be able to do what is allowed - a bj, while I get it from the other guy but let him slide between my tits too;
interesting thread, most responses are saying no way!
mituacan
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I would go for it as long as she returned the favor to me with another woman. I get turned on when she gets turned on, and I think she would go nuts for that. Also, not that I'm bi or gay, actually borderline homophobe, more of a voyeur and anger kind of turns me on. I would love to watch then fuck the shit out of her while calling her a dirty whore.
