Well that's just the way you see it. Remember there's a distinction between what you see as gay sex and what other people see as gay sex. So if you did it, you might consider yourself as having had gay sex, but I've done it, and I loved it, and both times I consider those women to be really gorgeous hot women with amazing woman's bodies, who just happen to have big cocks too. Well of course cause they used to be men. But other than that little - er... sort of little - appendage, those girls are ALL woman (the ones I fucked). Yummy. So personally, while I'm not ruling out ever having gay sex, I'm not attracted to men, so to think of them as men and the sex as gay sex makes it less hot. To me, they're gorgeous women with cocks. That's what they are, and I promise you you'd never have known they weren't natural women until their panties and thongs came off... mmmnn... yeah.
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Your post brings up interesting issues. Should gender be determined by perception or biology? Perhaps gender should be viewed as a continuum rather than the dichotomy of male and female. There are gender boundary issues in some cases. With today’s knowledge of DNA and other biologic factors, gender ID problems should not be viewed as character flaws, but as a natural biologic state. Maybe we need new terminology to describe gender and sexuality.
Is a man who perceives himself as a woman, and married to a woman, in a lesbian relationship? Am I a lesbian trapped in a male body because I lust after woman? On a questionnaire when they asked for sex, I always want to answer yes, but there are only two boxes. Should it ask for biological sex or perceived sex, and more boxes added for “Blended”, ”Not Sure”, “Other” or “Developing”. When a baby is born with a penis do they have to wait until gender identity is established latter in life to determined sex? All this boggles the mind. It would be interesting to go forward a thousand years and see what the gender types are, but we live in the present.
After reading some of the post, I got the feeling that some members did not know what kind of gender a she/male is. I wanted to point out that they are men. I was speaking in terms of generally accepted gender categories. I posted what the current perception of reality is. A look at this she/male poll shows about 1/3 would have sex and 2/3 would not. The popular vote is a reflection of perceptions. But science is not a democracy. Perception is reality. But biology is biology. A subjective postmodern worldview where reality is a social construct only goes so far. A penis is not a social construct. Social constructs would not be missed if copped off. Beauty maybe in the eyes of the beholder, but gender is in the groin. There are objective measures of gender. Hey, I all for denial and illusion, but come on. An operation may change your gender, but makeup and hormone injections do not. Sex between men is called gay. Your perceptions are valid to you, but not to society. Society perceives you as a selective semi-bisexual who’s in denial. My perception of you is a man who marches not to a different drummer, but a whole band.