In rare cases, transsexualism and sexual chromosomal multiplicity coexist, but it is very rare... (it has only been reported 6 times for men wanting to become women...)
http://www.find-health-articles.com/rec_pub_11094147-female-male-transsexual-47-xxx-karyotype.htm
But a true woman cannot penetrate a man without the help of artificial toys, if one excludes fingers, but that usually isn't seen as real penetration.
A gay man that has sex with a woman is usually forced to do so by his peers. If he had a choice, he'd never sleep with the woman to begin with. He is gay, but the act isn't.
A man that has sex with another man but likes women as well, is a bisexual, but the act of sleeping with a man still remains gay/homosexual.
1.) (obsolete) A division between classes or kinds. E.g., the common gender.
2.) differences between men and women, suggesting but not necessitating reference to sex
3.) (sociology) gender role; culture specific behaviour norms, normally but not necessarily, associated with one’s sex; condition of adopting such a gender role.
4.) (grammar) A division of nouns and pronouns (and sometimes of other parts of speech), such as masculine, feminine, neuter or common.
5.)
(casually, to avoid confusion with ‘sex’ in the sense of ‘sexual relations’) The sex of individuals (male or female).
You are referring to 3, the gender role, while I was using the word more casually....
Even though I agree that if someone feels like a woman he or she should be treated like a women if we don't take any
physical traits into account, this isn't possible in any
physical relationship, since you're
physically not a woman (yet).
It's an opinion supported by a large majority of the people, so when you say most men, I think you're saying there are men, but there are relatively few of them.
There are quite a few closet cases around who won't openly admit to being bisexual or gay, so they'll turn down anyone who looks to masculine. But wether they deny it or not, they still are either bisexual or gay.
A lot of gay men prefer other men that are skinny and have feminine traits, but that doesn't make them any less gay.
It's partially created and partially natural. A lonely creature is an easy target for predators, so it'll do anything it can to fit in a certain group. Groups base themselves on material things these days (music, clothes, etc), but the act of forming a group and the act of being hostile towards other groups is quite natural and I'd even dare say it's pure instinct. Just take a look at two different groups of monkeys (same species). The first thing they'll do as soon as they notice eachother is attack.
Indeed some might & will. These people obviously have the ability to focus only on a part of you & not the whole package (sorry to state it like that), as you're not entirely female yet.
I agree that there should be more tolerance & acceptance, but this isn't limited to gay men & transsexuals. Just check some other threads here and see how the women who give us what we obviously want (otherwise we wouldn't be here) are treated verbally. You can hardly call a girl a pornstar anymore, even if she is, because it borders an insult. Sure, dirty talk & rough behavior might be acceptable in the bedroom or wherever it is that you like to fuck, but these are first & foremost women who happen to be pornstars (as a profession). Prostitutes are treated even worse than pornstars...
I personally find this strange, since if these men & women who abuse others make use of what these others offer, they should be happy instead of agressive and if they don't make use of what these others offer, why are they so agressive towards these people.
Still, even though I've defended the right of gay people to marry here on this board, even though I've made clear that I do not like it when people call pornstars sluts, bitches, etc. little has changed (nothing at all, really)...
You can shout, you can yell, you can do whatever you want, but people will never change their minds or the ways they act. The opposite is true however, it'll only convince those people that they are right and more importantly, it'll draw unwanted attention.
It isn't ok, but it's not going to help if you start thinking in the same way they do & yes you do. You believe their way of thinking is wrong & that you are right. The only difference is that you use different, less offensive words.
