well for hetero women, it is a bit different. Women have a tendency to act kinda lesbiany. ex)you see 2 straight girls who are good friends hold hands as they walk, or they tend to cuddle alot. this behavior is not unnatural for them because thats how women tend to behave. You see this girl on girl everywhere even in the media ex)victoria secret, music videos, swimsuit mags etc. But do we see two guys close together in pop culture such as advertisements or commercials? In general, no. So i don't consider girl on girl action as totally gay.
But two guys holding hands or cuddling... that is gay.
Also, like I said, shemales are NOT girls. They are confused men with hormone injections, and silicone. they need help. Serious mental help. At least gays, lesbians, and bis know what gender they are. Shemales don't and i find that disturbing. Come on if you have a penis, you are a guy. simple as that. If they cannot agree with their physical bodies, then god help them. sucks for them anyway because the world does not really tolerate transexuals. Do you think most corporations want to hire such people? No. That is because the majority of the world does not feel comfortable with trannies. I will follow the norm.
I don't mind gay people. But i think being next to a tranny would creep me out or make me feel uncomfortable. In my opinion they are freakshows. Im guessing the people here who like shemales like freakshows.