Would You Date or Marry A Porn Star?

[Rey C.]

Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works

I gave you a negetive rep because you were so biased in your post. I fucking apologized to you after that small incident and now here you come acting like a fucking security guard expecting me to kiss your foot...Um excuse me what the hell does that issue you just mentioned has to do with this particular subject? Don't ever message me again. I didn't say all porn stars is trash. What I ment to say was I wouldn't feel comfortable marrying someone who is still currently active in that lifestyle. The only way I could probably marry a porn star is if I was porn star myself. That's what I should have said before but instead you and the others got upset because I brought up a deep, hard macho truth to the matter that offended some ocsm's and fans alike. You're also still bottled up due to the neg rep you recieved many eons ago. Well guess what? Merry Christmas...The grass can't be green for you all the time ya know.

We found out that you don't know the meaning of the word sarcasm (when you see me channeling Sam Fisher and Georges in a post at the same time, that's either sarcasm... or I've been struck on the head by a hammer), so now we see that you don't know the meaning of the word hypocrisy either. I haven't asked you to kiss a damn thing, sport. And no, I'm not bent out of shape about it. The reason I made a reply here is because it was you, Mr. Politically Correct, saying this dumb shit. Hard macho truth, eh? Yeah, right... when I think of hard macho truths, yours is the first name that pops into my head. You're stating your opinion. And that's fine. But don't start thinking that the taste of your foot in your mouth here means that it was da troof!

I don't really have anything to add to this thread, other than the fact that I think some of the attitudes up in here are straight up disgusting. Its sad that there is so much disrespect and degredation coming from the very people who pornstars work hard to please. Seriously sad.

Pretty fucked up, eh?

It's one thing to say that it wouldn't work for you to marry or date someone in porn. Hell, I wouldn't marry a lawyer. We all have personal preferences and that's fine. But to say that they're trash or to suggest that they all have AIDS? :wtf: You probably have a better chance of catching AIDS or an STD from a girl you pick up at a bar vs. a girl working in porn. But hey, ya know, that's just the macho truth and we need to be able to deal with the macho truth. Word!

 

[GodsEmbryo]

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So, if I'm reading this right, the husband gets to decide if his wife continues in her career in porn? That's not cool. Accept it, or don't jump into the relationship.

That said, I don't know if I could do it. While I have the utmost respect for women, and that certainly includes women who do porn for a living, I would have to work really hard to get my head around my wife having sex with other people. I know it is a job, I know these women are just normal women who, outside of their job have completely normal lives. I just don't know if I'm a big enough man to get past their job. That's much more a reflection on me than it is on the women doing porn, of course.

This.

Years ago a girlfriend of mine was considering doing erotic massages as a job. I always considered myself open minded and that I wouldn't mind if someone I love would do such a job, whether it's massages or anything like it. She eventually did if for a while. She was and is my best friend, I respect her choices, I love her and support her all the way whatever may come or be. But despite my love, despite my respect and support whatever she does, it felt weird. Even when it's a friendship, not a personal relationship.
So I'm not sure if I would be able to cope with a relation where my wife would have sex with other man because of her job. And that would have nothing to do with a lack of love or disrespect for her, or that I would stand in the way of the choices she wants to make. Quite the opposite, if I love someone she would have my support whatever may be. But I'm just not sure if I would be able to cope with whatever I feel inside or what effect it would have on the relationship.

 

[Will E Worm]

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If they are in porn the person they are seeing should realize this and accept it.
Not pull them away. Like what happened with Franziska Facella. (Franziska Duff)


This happened with Jenna Haze too.

Apparently Jenna Haze's new boyfriend, Greg Puciato of the Dillinger Escape Plan band (which I assume was named after John Herbert Dillinger - a German American bank robber from the early 1900's) is supportive of his girlfriend's decision as noted in the tweets below. Seems to me that the Dillinger Escape Plan successfully robbed the Los Angeles porn industry of one of it's most valuable commodities.

Link

Seriously, it's an absurd question from the OP.

Pornstars are for fucking and good girls are for marrying.

Derrr.

 

[bobjustbob]

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I wouldn't have a relationship, much less marry anyone, in the business. I keep my fantasy and reality worlds separate. With that I will also say that if someone I would meet had been in the business before and stepped out of it, that would be a different story. Marriage is a union between 2 people mind, body, and soul.

 

[vodkazvictim]

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Marriage is AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fixed :thumbsup:

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

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Years ago I would have said, "No way!" but I've grown to really love watching my girlfriend fuck other dudes. I was recently watching one of the few hardcore vids that Sophie Strauss did and I kept thinking, "Man, I wish I had a video like this, but with my girl in it."

The thing about porn is that it's not private and I don't want my friends and family knowing that my girl is fucking other people. Also, a big part of porn is humiliation, degradation and objectification. I couldn't deal with being with somebody who's blowing five dudes at once, doing ass to mouth or being smacked in the face and called a "pig." Maybe if it was X-Art type stuff or something, then I'd be more open to it, but that's rare in modern porn.

 

[Harley Spencer]

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Years ago I would have said, "No way!" but I've grown to really love watching my girlfriend fuck other dudes. I was recently watching one of the few hardcore vids that Sophie Strauss did and I kept thinking, "Man, I wish I had a video like this, but with my girl in it."

The thing about porn is that it's not private and I don't want my friends and family knowing that my girl is fucking other people. Also, a big part of porn is humiliation, degradation and objectification. I couldn't deal with being with somebody who's blowing five dudes at once, doing ass to mouth or being smacked in the face and called a "pig." Maybe if it was X-Art type stuff or something, then I'd be more open to it, but that's rare in modern porn.

Au contraire, my dear. X-Art and sites with similar content are growing more and more popular, while porn with women being degraded, being called names, the men getting violent with them, etc. is becoming less popular.

And if a girl does porn, she chooses what she does. She isn't just whored out, thrown into scenes by some disrespecting asshole who forces her to have sex with a bunch of random dudes while being whipped with a cane. Girls choose what they want to do, who they want to shoot with, when they shoot, and they can turn down any shoot they so desire in the snap of a finger. It's not like a regular 9-5 job where if you tell your boss no, you get fired. Where you have little to no choice in matters, having to suck it up and get it done for the sake of keeping your job and being considered a good worker.
Porn is very different The girls set the standards. They make the decisions on whether or not something is going to go down. Anyone directing the girls who looks down on them, personally degrades them or yells at them or otherwise gives them a hard time about refusing a scene, is a total dirtbag and is going to have a hard time finding girls willing to work with him. There is a surplus of people shooting porn today, there's no reason to shoot something you aren't happy with.

EDIT: Oh, I need to correct myself. Girls don't necessarily outright choose who they want to work with (unless they're dong a solo site, like me, in which case I get to take part in scouting for girls, whether it's for my site or someone else's site), but they do and can have a say in who they will choose NOT to work with. If a guy walked in that was utterly disgusting and a girl would rather fuck a polar bear than that dude, there's no one to stop her from saying no.

 

[Rey C.]

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Whether someone would be wiling to date or marry a pornstar or not, I still see a big difference in just saying that particular career choice wouldn't work in that person's views on relationships vs. saying that pornstars are pieces of garbage and aren't fit to have relationships with "decent, upstanding people." At least IMO, one is a personal choice and the other is basically just bigotry. And before anybody in particular gets their panties in a wad, that remark is not pointed at anyone's post in particular... just something based on the overall sentiment that I picked up from several posts in the thread.

 

[Rey C.]

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I wouldn't have a relationship, much less marry anyone...

^^^This probably works better for me.

or or

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

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Au contraire, my dear. X-Art and sites with similar content are growing more and more popular, while porn with women being degraded, being called names, the men getting violent with them, etc. is becoming less popular.

And if a girl does porn, she chooses what she does. She isn't just whored out, thrown into scenes by some disrespecting asshole who forces her to have sex with a bunch of random dudes while being whipped with a cane. Girls choose what they want to do, who they want to shoot with, when they shoot, and they can turn down any shoot they so desire in the snap of a finger. It's not like a regular 9-5 job where if you tell your boss no, you get fired. Where you have little to no choice in matters, having to suck it up and get it done for the sake of keeping your job and being considered a good worker.
Porn is very different The girls set the standards. They make the decisions on whether or not something is going to go down. Anyone directing the girls who looks down on them, personally degrades them or yells at them or otherwise gives them a hard time about refusing a scene, is a total dirtbag and is going to have a hard time finding girls willing to work with him. There is a surplus of people shooting porn today, there's no reason to shoot something you aren't happy with.

EDIT: Oh, I need to correct myself. Girls don't necessarily outright choose who they want to work with (unless they're dong a solo site, like me, in which case I get to take part in scouting for girls, whether it's for my site or someone else's site), but they do and can have a say in who they will choose NOT to work with. If a guy walked in that was utterly disgusting and a girl would rather fuck a polar bear than that dude, there's no one to stop her from saying no.

Well I'm glad to hear that sites like X-Art are growing in popularity. Feel free to recommend any similar, hardcore sites.

And I wasn't suggesting that any porn actresses have to do the stuff that I mentioned above. I'm just saying that it still is a big part of the industry and, if I was dating somebody in the industry, there's a chance that she might be doing things that I mentioned and I don't think I could deal with that. And it wouldn't be right to start dating a woman who's already in the industry and then tell her she can and cannot do.

So, to answer the question, I could probably date a porn star if she chose not to perform certain things that I find a bit troubling or degrading (I'm not judging anybody, just stating how I feel about certain things.) And, in the real world, if the girl who I've been in a serious relationship with for nearly a decade decided she wanted to leave her current career and pursue porn, I actually think there's a part of me that'd get a huge thrill out of that. So long as it was safe, she was treated well and she genuinely enjoyed it. That's not likely to happen at all, but I would be open to the idea if the opportunity arose.

 

[Mr. Hyde]

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no i think that it is a lot more opinions than mine. go over on ask .com and ask that same question and you will see most opinions are pretty close to mine. faithful is the main ingredient in marriage? 98% of men doesnt want their wife having sex with other men. i think me and a hell of a lot of other men feel the same way. and youll find you are in a very small group that would marry a woman you already know was fucking other men the day before you marry her? we still call a spade a spade in alabama and a hoe a hoe.

Huh? So I sat that your statements are opinion and not fact; you say that they are a lot more than opinions, and then you call them opinions also?

These are OPINIONS. Your opinion is that no man can handle it. You're wrong. Some men can handle it. You're not one of them.


The bottom line here is this...if you can handle a girl doing porn, and you love her, then it can be good for you. Porn stars are people...they have thoughts, feelings, hopes, etc. just like you and me. Passing judgment on them, saying no man could love them, or whatever...that's all bullshit. It takes a certain kind of man, but to be honest....probably a better kind of man. A secure man. If your wife is going to be fucking people for a living, you are probably the most secure, non-jealous man in the world.

And jealousy is a marriage killer.

And as for AIDS in porn....heterosexual porn stars have a lower rate of HIV/AIDS than the general public. That is a fact, and not an opinion.

 

[MarquisdeSade]

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This has been an interesting thread. I was watching a Sasha Grey video the other day thinking about what her boyfriend/partner might think - but then the partner of someone who does porn is probably ok with it otherwise they wouldn`t be the partner in the first place. Then I got to wonder whether the partners are people who actually get quite turned on by it - either knowing, or watching the video - seeing their girlfriend/partner being sucked, sucking, and generally being thoroughly fucked. Not for me definitely though.

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

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Then I got to wonder whether the partners are people who actually get quite turned on by it - either knowing, or watching the video - seeing their girlfriend/partner being sucked, sucking, and generally being thoroughly fucked. Not for me definitely though.

I have to imagine that it's a part of it. As I mentioned, I love seeing my girlfriend fuck other other guys. It's one of the hottest things ever to me. There's also a part of me that loves the idea of her doing her thing without me. A situation where I know or assume it's happening, but I can't see it or be there in any way. I think it'd drive me nuts in a good way.

I've seen interviews with Siri and Savannah Samson and they both said that they're husbands love the idea of them going out and fucking. I used to think that was insane, but I kind of get it now. Especially if you have the ability to go and watch a video of it later on.

 

[smoknn]

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Huh? So I sat that your statements are opinion and not fact; you say that they are a lot more than opinions, and then you call them opinions also?

These are OPINIONS. Your opinion is that no man can handle it. You're wrong. Some men can handle it. You're not one of them.


The bottom line here is this...if you can handle a girl doing porn, and you love her, then it can be good for you. Porn stars are people...they have thoughts, feelings, hopes, etc. just like you and me. Passing judgment on them, saying no man could love them, or whatever...that's all bullshit. It takes a certain kind of man, but to be honest....probably a better kind of man. A secure man. If your wife is going to be fucking people for a living, you are probably the most secure, non-jealous man in the world.

And jealousy is a marriage killer.

And as for AIDS in porn....heterosexual porn stars have a lower rate of HIV/AIDS than the general public. That is a fact, and not an opinion.

let me clean this up..yea its my opinion and you will find it to be 90% of men s opinions if you are married to a woman and you dont care for her having sex with other people ..you are in a very small minority my friend. you do realize that it is not normal for married people right? and all of you guys saying sure..i wouldnt mind..you have not looked down the isle and seen her standing there in white knowing you was about to dedicate your life to a woman that is already having sex with multiple people (maybe the night before the wedding) you may still taste his cum between her legs. what kind of response would you expect on a porn board? as i said before..go ask that same question on any board besides a porn board and see if you dont feel like your in a minority in a hour or two...

 

[smoknn]

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That just proves the fucking hypocrisy with some of the members here that log onto to FreeOnes everyday to jerk their fucking pud while having the balls to be judgmental at that.

is that what you do is jerk your pud? speak for yourself. i am a man..i come here to look at naked women..i like to do that like all men...but i am not hunting a girlfriend or a wife..i am NOT here to get married or jerk my pud. when i was in my 20s i had a thing for strippers (all about sex) after dating a few (strippers porn stars prostitutes) all the same to me. you will find out if a woman ever starts pulling her cloths off for a living you will NEVER!!! change that in her. she will change when no one wants her to pull her cloths off..not until. opinions is like noses everyone has one. there is mine. its been a pleasure naturally YOURS

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

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let me clean this up..yea its my opinion and you will find it to be 90% of men s opinions if you are married to a woman and you dont care for her having sex with other people ..you are in a very small minority my friend. you do realize that it is not normal for married people right? and all of you guys saying sure..i wouldnt mind..you have not looked down the isle and seen her standing there in white knowing you was about to dedicate your life to a woman that is already having sex with multiple people (maybe the night before the wedding) you may still taste his cum between her legs. what kind of response would you expect on a porn board? as i said before..go ask that same question on any board besides a porn board and see if you dont feel like your in a minority in a hour or two...

I'm not married, but I've been with my girlfriend for nearly a decade and I'm just as crazy about her as I have ever been. I've seen her fuck other dudes right in front of me. I’ve seen her suck and lick cocks that weren't mine. I've seen her with cum on her face and tits that wasn't mine. And, tomorrow morning when I wake up, her beautiful face will be the first thing I see and my day will be off to a good start because of it.

I understand why many would be put off by the idea. I understand why many ore most people reject it immediately. But there are people…lots of people who have no idea what they’re missing out on. There are people in relationships who’d end up loving the idea of watching their wives or girlfriends fuck other men or know that their wives and girlfriends fuck other men. And, like me, they wouldn’t look at their wives or girlfriends any differently.

There are people (probably way more people then you’d ever expect) who can look at sex as a purely physical and enjoyable thing. Many people can watch their significant other get off and have an awesome time without any jealousy or bad thoughts fogging up their minds. Sex is a temporary act, cum washes off in the shower. It only changes things if you let it.

People are reluctant to admit this to others out of fear of being judged. I’d bet everything I own on the fact that it’s a lot higher than 10%.

 

[Doc Scurlock]

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It would depend on the kind of porn. If a bunch of dudes are running trains on her then I'm not cool with that or if they're into weird stuff like blowing dogs then I'm not cool with that, either. Basically, it would depend what they're area of specialty is so to speak.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

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I'd definitely marry an active pornstar.

In a way, I have a weird predilection to believing there are people that would be much better off knowing their other half is fucking other people all day for five days a week (as long as they come home to you) than not knowing and getting paranoid about what they don't know is going on. A big reason discovering someone has cheated on you hurts so badly is that it's a violation of trust, but if you know they're having sex all day, where and with whom - because it's their job - then no trust is being violated. But maybe that's just me.

Plus of course, you could just meet someone you find wildly attractive on all levels, "click" with, who makes you happy beyond belief. And they happen to be a pornstar. If you can deal with it, why shouldn't you both be happy? Remember, they're fucking other people on camera, but they still come home to you for warmth, intimacy, laughing together and sharing your lives, hopes and dreams and all that other good stuff.

Is yes, which one would she be?

Well, without sounding too much of a spanner, everything I know so far about Christy Mack would make me choose her. On top of being stunning, her Twitter makes me laugh often. How could I not love a girl that makes reference to "diddlin myself"?

 

[dirtylittleholly]

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It is a lack of self-respect. If she were a true wife she wouldn't be continuing her career in the porn industry she would understand that she is at a new stage in her life and one of the big choices she would have to choose and understand is having a bit of self-respect. I don't see how a marriage could last if the wife who worked in the industry, who loves her career lifestyle, working with multiple partners would ever improve as her naively husband (who doesn't work in the industry) pretends it's simply okay...Now if the husband is totally fine with his wife continuing her career in the industry that's different but I don't believe it is healthy. Think about it. Could that type of thinking really enhance marriage in the long run? The husband would be at breaking peak at some point in his married life would he not? Let me ask you something, if you were married and your husband was a pimp making a large profit, wouldn't that tell you he clearly has no self-respect? Of course you would be upset who wouldn't be? I sure would. And I'd be dumb enough to marry a porn star who would consistantly laugh with her associates behind my back without ever me knowing. Now you can play that confidence trick all you want but you know where I stand on this issue.

Well of course her husband would be ok with her being in the industry. How else would it work? They never would have gotten to the marriage stage if they both didn't agree on it.

 

[smoknn]

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I'm not married, but I've been with my girlfriend for nearly a decade and I'm just as crazy about her as I have ever been. I've seen her fuck other dudes right in front of me. I’ve seen her suck and lick cocks that weren't mine. I've seen her with cum on her face and tits that wasn't mine. And, tomorrow morning when I wake up, her beautiful face will be the first thing I see and my day will be off to a good start because of it.


have you SEEN her wake you up and say....baby i hate to tell you..but we may have aids? sex is not a game in 2012...its a chance you are taking. ..its serious . if you dont have deep feelings about who you are having sex with in 2012..it would pay you to keep mr ed in the barn. ya know..since all this aids stuff has come about...no law has been made as to exactly how long a person can be infected with something and not even know it? now days you best be keeping the list small you get under the cover with. and please...dont tell me that old condom story...please anything but that. i have had on rubber boots to many times and poured water out of them at the end of the day