This is what I love ...
I know a girl who is married. I don't know her husband, (only by sight).
This girl has started to come on pretty strong towards me, and I am fairly sure I could bed her if I wanted to.
But the question is, it morally right to do so? I am single, she isn't!
This is what I love ...
The question isn't about the "complexity" it would bring your life.
The question isn't about the "worry" of how others would "react."
The question isn't about the "guilt" and "anxiety" that you would experience afterwards.
The question is about ... "morally"?
The irony is that it will
only be
after you do it that the "morally" question will leave your mind, and the ones I just mentioned will enter. That's because people focus on this abstract concept of "morality," instead of the
real issues involved.
People have emotions. People have worries. People have comfort. People have all these other things. People don't have this abstract "morally" non-sense. The latter is taught, but experience tells you that it is
nothing when faced with the "complexity" that people bring upon themselves.
Frankly, if people didn't "sneak around" on these things, and were actually "up front," maybe we wouldn't have such a mess of a society. Maybe people would have multiple partners ... gasp ... openly! And those who want the single lover for all time will have ... gasp ... just that!
"Morally"? Get back to me after you do it and tell me if that's what you're worried about. Seriously.
Now people will wonder if I know because I have. No, sorry, I have not. But I've not merely read a lot, but have known many who have "sneaked around." If there is one thing I know, first hand (as well as discussed with others), it's that honesty works in relationships. It's the universal constant. If you don't want honesty, they feel free to embrace complexity.
Because complexity causes all other emotions and situations to arise, often more than people ever realized beforehand.
