Women who can't make up their mind.

[24788]

I have known this woman online since 2007 and I was pretty mean to her always making horrible jokes about her. She used to love them and thought they were funny as hell. I didn't mean any intent by my jokes, but now she hates that I am mean to her now. She wants me to become nicer with my jokes. Why did she just change her mind? Should I watch myself from now on? I don't understand the change.

On a side note I am a republican who fears change. JAJAJA - serious thread though.

 

[busenbust]

Are you still on speaking terms with each other??

 

[24788]

Are you still on speaking terms with each other??

Yea, we didn't talk for about a week once, but that was resolved. We have an attraction towards each other emotionally mostly. I haven't seen her in real life to really be attracted physically. Only pictures she has sent me over the years.

 

[busenbust]

Given that it's been on/off for a few years, she must really like you. If distance is not a problem, and you are both not in a relationship, then surely a meet would pay dividends long-term??

 

[habo9]

Jokes are funny but if you have been doing it for ages , no wonder shes getting pissed off!!

No-one likes to be put down all the time

 

[busenbust]

^^Fair point :thumbsup:

 

[ed007]

I have known this woman online since 2007 and I was pretty mean to her always making horrible jokes about her. She used to love them and thought they were funny as hell. I didn't mean any intent by my jokes, but now she hates that I am mean to her now. She wants me to become nicer with my jokes. Why did she just change her mind? Should I watch myself from now on? I don't understand the change.

On a side note I am a republican who fears change. JAJAJA - serious thread though.

hold your horses, cowboy. :nono:

have you and this women spoken over the phone? if the answer is no then i'm sorry i don't see much of a future in this relationship and life is too short to be messing around with women whose intentions are unclear. and yes you should watch what you say. You Might get a hot slap. :wave2:

 

[busenbust]

"You Might get a hot slap"

LOL, and true

 

[bodie54]

It's really not a matter of women not being able to make up their minds. It's just that the dynamic is different for the two sexes. Male friends can trash the shit out of each other and it usually just enhances the friendship. Many women will find that kind of humor enjoyable to a point, but eventually most of them will start to become sensitive about it to one degree or another.

 

[BlueBalls]

24788937493jx3930329 you fool! What the hell are you doing you hippy bastard!?!

I would give you some advice but instead I point you towards master Bodie he knows what he's talking about - listen young grasshopper . . . before it's too late!!!


:nono:

 

[ppchaser]

yup, she must have had enough of you and your jokes...

It's really not a matter of women not being able to make up their minds. It's just that the dynamic is different for the two sexes. Male friends can trash the shit out of each other and it usually just enhances the friendship. Many women will find that kind of humor enjoyable to a point, but eventually most of them will start to become sensitive about it to one degree or another.

 

[jasonk282]

Well you have ben picking on her for the past 2 years, I know that if I made fun on my wife for 2 years straight she would hate me as well.

 

[D-rock]

All women at some level have problems making up their mind. For proof just take them into a trendy clothing store for a couple hours. :tongue:

 

[Vanilla Bear]

I think I don't have to give you another advice here since there were some good ones posted above already, but I want to hear some of the jokes!

 

[HeartBroker]

I notice you used the word woman, not "lady" or something more complimentary.

Does she think you don't view her as "classy" now, perhaps?

 

[mentalman]

From my personal experience most women can't make up there mind.

 

[Elwood70]

Maybe you just need some new material....nothing worse than beating a joke to death.

 

[Hot Mega]

Four words, the-shit-is-old. Case closed.

It seems like where you assumed she liked it she was apparently just humoring you IMO.

People evolve in relationships...she's evolving and probably perceives you as staying the same.:dunno:

 

[Spleen]

The title of this thread could have just been "women".

 

[Smallville417]

Four words, the-shit-is-old. Case closed.

It seems like where you assumed she liked it she was apparently just humoring you IMO.

People evolve in relationships...she's evolving and probably perceives you as staying the same.:dunno:

I agree with this.