Wife dropped a bomb on me.

i can deal with stripping, but if she was sucking and fucking guys then that is a different story. I asked her if she was doing more than just dancing and she says that is all she did but like people on here point out alot more goes on in Tokyo at strip clubs than in the USA.


Ummm, if she was fucking and sucking, and she tells you no...you will never know for sure. I think that anything short of murdering someone before she met you shouldn't matter to you now....Perhaps she should of kept her mouth shut, because of the obvious judgements some, including you, will pass on her, but she trusted you, which I think that's a good thing.

If you don't love her, you can always use this as an excuse to break it off...:rolleyes:
 
Yes, I read online that at some clubs if a customers drops the equivalent of $500 then the stripper is obligated to give him head and for $1000 intercourse.

So I guess there probably is not database for Japanese strippers like we have on here for porn stars?

hate to tell you this buddy but most stripper bars around the world aren't all restrictive like in the states.
in the states desperate lonely men throw 20's -100's at women just for dancing, then the dancers go home and fuck their boyfriends in a pile of cash.
I been that guy with more than one.
In other countries japan included they fuck.
they fuck or they make nothing.
thats the whole idea behind it.
so basically in other countries strippers are hookers.

but I wouldn't sweat it, it was a long time ago before you knew her, I'm sure you banged other women.........at least I hope.
 
Damn, that's a bit of a revelation my man.
I honestly have no experience myself to guide you, but I strongly believe talking it through with her will probably get the best results.
Maybe let her know openly and honestly you still have concerns and worries about what she told you, and that you need to have a good talk about it. Tell her your concerns and everything that's troubling you, including the inconsistencies in her story and how you think she might be hiding something from you.
Also, if you make out that you wont mind too much even if she did do more than stripping, she would be a lot more at ease to tell you if there was more to it. Make it seem as if you care about knowing the truth more than what that truth might be, even if it isn't really the case.

I am sure she can handle talking it through honestly with each other if you've been together for ten years.
And good luck dude, I really hope you two can work this thing out. :thumbsup:
 
Sorry dude! :facepalm: I probly fucked her...... I didn't know she would become your future wife, but I must say she was a nasty lil freak :yesyes: I bet all her experience pays off in bed though :eek: Right?
 
You said -

"In 10 years never stripped for me or gave me a lap dance and always bad mouthed and looked down on strippers if I would even mention them. Kind of hypocritical. She danced naked for men for money and not once has she even danced for me just for fun.


Yet 5 years ago -

"So she then had me film her stripping and dared me to post it for all the guys to see. She thinks I would never do it because I would be too jealous.

We'll guys here is the video. Quality is not so good but you can still see her fantastic puffy nipples, firm tits, nice ass and shaved pussy. There are 5 parts each getting better."


I call that a pretty big lapse.

I dont buy your story or your "Dilemma" one bit.
 
no benefits for me as our sex life in basically non-existant, I have had better sex with other woman. If she was a hooker than she probably had a lifetime of sex in that 6 months and they tapped her out.

Sorry dude! :facepalm: I probly fucked her...... I didn't know she would become your future wife, but I must say she was a nasty lil freak :yesyes: I bet all her experience pays off in bed though :eek: Right?
 
You never saw the video, which frankly was little more than her laying on a couch and moving around in a not so stripper like way for 1 minute.

Anyhow, I am not here get you to "buy" my story. What would motivate me to come up with something like this, how does it benefit me?

Like I said in the first post, I am just trying to find a site that potentially has pictures of strippers in Japan going back 15 years ago. I am hoping to find out what the name of the club she stripped at was so I can find out if it was one of those clubs that offers sex to customers.

You said -

"In 10 years never stripped for me or gave me a lap dance and always bad mouthed and looked down on strippers if I would even mention them. Kind of hypocritical. She danced naked for men for money and not once has she even danced for me just for fun.


Yet 5 years ago -

"So she then had me film her stripping and dared me to post it for all the guys to see. She thinks I would never do it because I would be too jealous.

We'll guys here is the video. Quality is not so good but you can still see her fantastic puffy nipples, firm tits, nice ass and shaved pussy. There are 5 parts each getting better."


I call that a pretty big lapse.

I dont buy your story or your "Dilemma" one bit.
 
"In 10 years never stripped for me or gave me a lap dance

"So she then had me film her stripping

These two statements are in direct conflict with one another.

You never saw the video, which frankly was little more than her laying on a couch and moving around in a not so stripper like way for 1 minute.

Anyhow, I am not here get you to "buy" my story. What would motivate me to come up with something like this, how does it benefit me?

Like I said in the first post, I am just trying to find a site that potentially has pictures of strippers in Japan going back 15 years ago. I am hoping to find out what the name of the club she stripped at was so I can find out if it was one of those clubs that offers sex to customers.


This doesn't explain the conflict between the two statements. If she took her clothes off for you, she was stripping for you. That does not equal "never stripped for you."


I dont buy your story or your "Dilemma" one bit.


:yesyes: :thumbsup::thumbsup:
 
First of all, you're lying.
Second of all, assuming you are telling the truth, the only way you're going to find out the name of the club is to ask her.
 

PirateKing

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Maybe Stellan's GF from 5 years ago is the mistress he was seeing briefly during his marriage and he doesn't want to admit it?

Before this thread is closed, I think I'll post a theme appropriate song.

 

TheOrangeCat

AFK..being taken to the vet to get neutered.
Assuming this poster is even telling the truth, allow me to boil everything down into easy to digest bites:

Your wife was a hooker (no one 'strips' for $1-2,000 a night in Japan)
She lied to you
You are chronically insecure
You publish intimate details of her and yours (sex) life on the internet without her consent
You are unfaithful
You lie to her

You're perfect for each other.
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
When I first started reading this thread, I was thinking of advice to give. Now....I dunno what to say. Shame on you for posting vids of your wife without her consent. Throwing her up on the internet like a piece of meat probably only solidifies the shame she feels having treated HERSELF like a piece of meat back in her "stripping" days. Be a man, treat her with respect and be there for her because guaranteed she's been left with some scars and shame from being a hooker.
 
So what. There are millions of black babies without fathers. Do you really want to tell us about your relationship problems about how your wife used to be serviced by a dozen small Asian penises in sordid Japanese strip clubs?

I didn't think so.
 
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